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My boyfriend cheated on me

Thursday, April 28, 2016 4:55 PM by Spk Rating: +7|-3

I can't believe I am going to write this, but I will just for the simple fact I have been holding it in for so long; too long. Honestly, how do you people even begin to explain your story? I don't know where to start,, haha. I'm just gonna wing it. Well my recent boyfriend I have been with for about 2 years. I got pregnant with him. As I was just turning 4 months pregnant, I was living with him. His grandparents anniversary was coming up and I told him that I would love to go! I had never met them before so it was nice to get to know them before my son came into this world. Well the day came to go to st.louis for their anniversary party and my boyfriend decided not to go, so I was like okay that's fine. I went with his parents to go meet his grandparents for the FIRST TIME. We got our hotel room and I had called him maybe 4 times? No answer and no call back. I didn't want to think any of it because I didn't want to stress about anything for the sake of my son. Well we came home the next day and he was acting real weird. I had that gut feeling like something was wrong, but I ignored it. I wish I didnt. We had sex that night and he told me he loved me. The next morning he left his phone in his kitchen and I read through his messages and seen that he was talking to some bitch about how he got real fucked up on marijuana, alcohol, and Xanax while I was gone. He was complimenting her, saying how much he missed their friendship and how she was always a nice girl. I straight flipped on him, yelling and cussing at him saying I'm 4 months pregnant you fucker! You can have her! We broke up and I went home. Couple days went by and I got back with him. Regret....

He threatens to kill himself if I'm not with him or he'll harm himself in anyway. Told me I was just some bitch he picked up off the curb and made me into who I am today. I'm not aloud to have friends, Facebook, snapchat, or any social media site. I'm not aloud to hangout with anyone. If I do hangout with someone he'll cuss me out and threaten to take my son away from me. He always tries to make me look like the bad guy. I'm not aloud to take pictures of myself. If I were to send a picture of myself to him, he will accuse me of having hickeys on my body. Everytime we hang out he puts his hands down my pants to make sure I have pubes, and if I shaved them that means I'm having sex with someone and he'll once again threaten to take my son away from me. I get called bitch everyday by him. He runs me down. I've tried to get away from him but he always reels me back in. I'm pathetic, I know. This relationship is toxic, I know. This boyfriend of mine is manipulative and controlling, I know. I just need someone to set this shit straight for me! I can't deal with it anymore! I don't know what I'm doing! I'm so confused and young. I want to get away from him, I really do. im making a lot of excuses to stay with him and I just need a big slap in the face and bring me back to realization. My momma never raised me to be with a man like this. He is cruel to me and my son. I guess I just want to hear someone else's story of a relationship they had like this and were able to get out. I'm 18 and my son is now 9 months old. Suggestions? Comparisons? Anything? Just give me reassurance please. 

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Friday, April 29, 2016 3:15 AM

"So you want

reassurance?  ok,  I'm just going to wing it.. haha that's how you start this story out. 

Congrats on your pregnancy... and congrats and good luck meeting the grandparents. so you went and he decided not to go. (I know that feeling) and you're okay with it? Are you sure you're pregnant? 

I thought girls that are pregnant, go through crazy hormones that make them snap. RIGHT?  what kind of wife  would say all that stuff that her husband's doing? 

drugs, marijuana, blah blah blah . don't be so open online.. first of all you leave yourself open to get hooked and bait, why,  because you're insecure.

online why would you do that?  if you end up going back with him or stay with him, that makes you look bad  also.  you're the kind of woman that lets their husband, get away with his little things.  you're checking his phone, and you did it in a sneaky way.  so you know he's cheating. (oh God, how I don't miss those days), do you now see that you're insecure? do you see where I'm going with this?  yes.. this relationship is toxic.  I hope you take this advice.

《He was complimenting her, saying how much he missed .their friendship and how she was always a nice girl. I straight flipped him, yelling and cussing at him saying I'm 4 onmonths pregnant you fucker! 》

fucker! (haha) that made me laugh, so good one!  lol 

now being serious. look, let him say whatever he wants to that girl.  don't give him the pleasure, with your reply.

remember, you're pregnant, so relax and don't get stressed out.

obviously he was with you for a reason? I'm assuming he has good taste....  because my girlfriend (5 years ago), was beautiful 24/7, period!  I took her everywhere.. why? because I love showing her off!!  so stop listening to those stupid remarks.  the dumb part is that you went back. but everybody does that, that's normal or being blind. sooner or later we'll get that, bigass reality slap!! in our face. you need to be the mature one, and have some morals, let him do whatever,  he's the one thats going to look bad, not you.  just worry about your pregnancy and don't mess up your "style"  of morals.  believe it or not, there's guys out there, that pay attention to that. the problem is that, you guys (women are wearing your Shades), and so your blind, as we Walk On By. but that's a figure of speech.  whatever you do,  don't just up and leave.  you guys talk to each other, and make sure either you want to stay together, or not.  your relationship is toxic, you realize it. good luck.

He can have her!

Friday, April 29, 2016 5:25 AM

Do you really want out?  If so, the time line here is interesting.  If your boy friend is older than you, you can charge him with statutory rape and let the courts deal with him.  Sounds like he is verbally and emotionally abusing you and you need to get out of that relationship fast or you and your son could be looking at a life time of regret.  Finally, he didn't make you into anything, only you can make yourself into something.

Saturday, April 30, 2016 6:05 AM

Just move out go to some family member and stay there and trust me he cant take yr child away from you, do it bfr its to late. Like the nike label says "Just Do It".

Thursday, May 5, 2016 6:59 AM

Close your eyes and think... Do you really wanna live every single day of your life with that guy? I'm sure you do not. Sooner is better. You are not the first girl and the last girl who has been in a situation like that. You can make your own way out.

Sunday, May 15, 2016 10:51 PM

I think, you shouldn't stay in your so called relationship with him. He's treating you like a slave and that isn't good not healthy. I just wanna say that you've got to woman up and talk to him about this shit. Because the things that he's doing are wrong. 

Sunday, May 15, 2016 10:51 PM

I think, you shouldn't stay in your so called relationship with him. He's treating you like a slave and that isn't good not healthy. I just wanna say that you've got to woman up and talk to him about this shit. Because the things that he's doing are wrong. 

Saturday, August 6, 2016 12:33 AM

first of all tell yourself you deserve better and think do you want to be mistable for the rest of hour life? do you want your son to have a father like him? or raise him in that enviroment. pack your stuff and run seriously dont waste a second with him before its too late. trust me you start loving yourself first and you will find someone who will treat you right. if you think it will be hard alone its not easy now and no

matter what happens after you leave it will be better. good luck


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