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I cheated on my boyfriend

Tuesday, June 21, 2016 2:15 PM by Guest Rating: +47|-47

I don't think anyone has a story like mine. I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half. Everything's been going fine but lately I've been busy with work and school and hes busy too. We don't see each other often and lately we've grown apart. He loves me and wants to marry me, but im at a place where I feel so distant from him. Its almost like I sometimes see him as more of a nuisance. I do love him. He treats me well and is good for me. I'm pretty and I get hit on a lot. Like a lot. I'm not trying to be vain or selfish but almost everyday I go out somewhere I'll see guys looking at me or they'll try to hit me up. Not once have I ever cheated on anyone. In all my relationships I've never cheated. But now I am. With my boss. He's a couple years older than me. Im 19, he's 23. And to be honest I'm not even sure how it started. We just started talking more and joking around and then we started hanging out and texting. And then one day he kissed me. And I felt awful afterwards. But I couldn't bring myself to say no. Now, a couple weeks later, we're still keeping things under wraps. I just feel comfortable with him... I'm moving in a couple months far away. Alone. I don't know what to do.

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Tuesday, June 21, 2016 7:17 PM
Guest

 Leave your boyfriend. He deservesaid better.

 
Thursday, June 23, 2016 3:40 PM
Guest

Your a hoe with no loyalty

 
Thursday, June 23, 2016 9:56 PM
Guest

Bless your heart. You're not a hoe. Slut shaming is something that needs to be shut down. I wish I could give you advice but I can't. I just needed you to know that you're not a slut and should not be ashamed. 

 
Friday, June 24, 2016 10:04 PM
Guest

I'm a similar situation sweetie, couldnt wish for a better boyfriend but we are so distant and I've fallen in love with my best friend and we have been fooling around a lot. My boyfriend wants to marry me, he is nothing but good to me and I don't understand what is wrong with me :(. Just hang in there honey

 

 
Friday, June 24, 2016 10:47 PM
ALF

It's time to let your "boyfriend" go and get on with his life.  You don't really love him.  He's just a convenient fall-back for you.  You say you're moving away alone.  Use that as your opportunity to break it off..

 
Saturday, June 25, 2016 11:11 AM
Guest

At least be honest with cuz it well always be a question to him about you,could we have made it

 
Saturday, June 25, 2016 9:07 PM
Guest

You boyfriend deserves better. You don't deserve him so u suggest u leave him. I hope this guy cheats on you so u know how it feels. I hope he does. 

 

 
Sunday, June 26, 2016 10:29 AM
Guest1

Don't feel good about yourself. You're completely in the wrong you ruined a relationship because you didn't do anything to improve the relationship and instead decides to cheat. Leave him and be honest with hi, he deserves much bettter.

 
Sunday, June 26, 2016 1:28 PM
Guest

You should break it off. You are completely wrong with cheating with your boss. I'm not going to call you names because you aren't a slut at all you just don't love him. But you did a horrible thing by cheating. The second you started flirting with you boss you should have thought about your relationship. If you don't love him you should have broken up with him before it progressed any further but you didn't. The best you can do now is tell him the truth and brake it off.

 

 
Monday, June 27, 2016 4:24 AM
Guest

Sleep with him your moving anyways. You will regret it if you dont

 
Wednesday, June 29, 2016 9:46 PM
Guest

You made a mistake, its okay to grow apart but you should of told him how you've felt and now just tell your boyfriend the truth because he deserves it . Only you know how much you love him and if you want to make the relationship work then dont give up but be honest. But if its not the same than let him go but your not a bad person you just made a mistake.

 
Thursday, June 30, 2016 2:26 AM
Chelsea

Break up with ur boyfriend 

 

 
Sunday, July 3, 2016 6:40 PM
Guest

This exactly happened to me and I cheated. Don't do it! If you've been with your boyfriend for a long time, this guy is a just a rebound and you probably aren't seeing him for who he actually is. Maybe he is just attractive? Don't tell your boyfriend. But cut off ties with the other guy! 

 
Friday, July 8, 2016 5:48 AM
Guest

Nobody is perfect first of all we all make mistakes and it's ok no need to shame someone down and judge them unless you're perfect. Anyways you have been with your boyfriend for about a year and a half & if you know that you really love him than just don't tell him. I know it sounds selfish but it's not if you confess that's you telling him because you feel guilty. If you love him stay and deal with the guilt or either leave him if you don't. Hope this helped! 

 
Sunday, July 17, 2016 2:31 AM
Guest

Sorry to tell you this but the truth is you do not love your boyfriend because if you do love your boyfriend, you wouldn't be fooling around with another man behind his back. Would you be upset if your boyfriend does the same thing to you behind your back? Either fix your relationship with your boyfriend or break up with him if you don't love him. End one relationship before you begins another. 

 
Sunday, July 17, 2016 4:06 AM
Guest

People are saying "he deserves better", but maybe YOU do, too! Think about it. We're all on our own journey. Life is about experiences. Just because a guy is nice, hard-working and "good" to you... What does the last phrase even imply?.. Doesn't mean that he's the right person for you. Maybe you should all check your standards, before you judge someone.  

Please don't beat yourself up about what happened. There's a reason for that. You sound like someone who isn't very confident, despite the fact that you acknowledge your attractiveness. That's a good start. But maybe you should look into yourself and find out, why your overall confidence is so low that you settle for the first person who treats you "good" meaning decently. That should be a given! You deserve to be treated good! Nothing to be thankful for. Your boyfriend might be the nicest person on earth, but maybe you need something different. Someone who makes you laugh, someone who truly gets you. Someone you feel inspired by, someone who helps you grow! The only thing you owe your boyfriend is the chance to find the same. So if you feel like it's time to move on, then do!

 

  Yeah cheating isn't cool and of course it would be so much "better" if you hadn't done it. But you're human. Sometimes something like that must happen, for us to realize that we're not happy! That we need and crave something else!

 I wish you the best! 

 
Saturday, July 23, 2016 6:56 AM
Guest

This is to the rest of the stupid sluts in the comments, it doesn't matter how fucking nice your boyfriend is to you even if he makes you breakfast in bed everyday and hand feeds you it, if you cheat on him and are seeing someone else you are just fucking him over. He isn't there to be a "good boyfriend" because you know you don't deserve him. But if you do feel close and care for you boyfriend mutually then evethung should be fine c: everyone needs to grow up, and cut the "no slut shamminh shit out" who do you think you are when someone does something bad the get shit for it, you think murders shouldnt be shammed for murdering people?2

 
Wednesday, July 27, 2016 11:48 AM
Samantha

I think you should tell him about everything.. If he is stupid and if he loves you he will forgive you but it doesn't mean you guys should stay together. It would be ok if it was only a one time thing but it apparently isn't.

An honest and forgiving heart is a must.

 

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