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I cheated on my girlfriend

Monday, August 22, 2016 7:51 PM by Larry Rating: +25|-9

I have been dating my girlfriend for about a year and a half when I had to go on this big corporate retreat thing that would last for 2 weeks. Due to a mix up, I was put in a hotel room with a female co-worker, even thought it's wasn't suppose to coed. Anyway, Due to circumstances we were stuck together and while we didn't know eachother before the retreat, we quickly bonded over our many shares hobbies over the first week. I never told her about my girlfriend (I lied about it, which is I guess a detail that is signifcant) and long story short we went out for drinks and ended up sleeping together that night. For the rest of the retreat, I basically was in a relationship with the coworker, taking her out a lot and basically treating her how I would treat my girlfriend, although neither of us said we were a couple. So end of the two weeks, co-worker goes back to other side of the country, and I'm back home with my girlfriend, acting as though nothing happend. Should I tell my girlfriend about it? Should I keep in touch with the girl I cheated with (we have texted back and forth a couple times, but we both agree we don't want to do long distance.) The guilty is driving me crazy, but I don't want to lose my girlfriend., she is amazing. What do I do?

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Tuesday, August 23, 2016 3:32 AM
ALF

Total B.S. dude.  If a company made a mix-up like that, it could easily be rectified.  You took full advantage of the situation, and still want to stay in contact with the girl you cheated with.  Shows what you really think of your girlfriend.  Since you lied to the other girl about your girlfriend, expect her to show up unannounced one day ("I wanted to surprise you baby!").  It's going to be crash and burn all around.

 
Tuesday, August 23, 2016 3:04 PM
Lisa

i don't think you should tell your girlfriend. You need to Just end it with the coworker and move on. 

 
Tuesday, August 23, 2016 9:49 PM
Guest

YES! I want you to be freaking beat up ._. Jerk much? Eh, doesn't matter. Whether you tell her or not, she's going to find out. 

 
Wednesday, August 24, 2016 7:07 AM
Guest

You should end it with both women and work on becoming better person. You cheated on your girlfriend, and you are still in touch with the other girl, she you have no idea loyalty to her at all. You mislead the other girl and you are probably still misleading her. You are not trustworthy, and you have no integrity. You should break it off with both women and work on becoming someone that you would be proud to be. Until then I recommend only casual dating, but you should avoid being in a relationship. 

 
Thursday, September 1, 2016 12:33 PM
Guest

If she was amazing you wouldnt have to cheat.

 
Wednesday, September 7, 2016 6:51 PM
Guest

I call BULLTITS !!!

 

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