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I suspect cheating

My wife cheated on me

Wednesday, March 4, 2015 3:40 AM by Guest Rating: +10|-5

I have the following situation. My wife and I have been together for 6 years. In the last 6 months, she often delayed at work. She never delayed before, and it all started when new boss appeared at her company. After a couple of months, my wife started to delay at work for an hour and a half.
Now I really started to think that she is cheating on me with this boss. Is there any other option to explain these delays?? Such a long blockage at work? Something inside me does not believe in this variant.
In addition, I cannot talk with her about my suspicion. If she is not cheating, she will be offended about the fact that I assumed she is a cheater. However, if she is a cheater for real – she will make a show of being confused and that she is offended. In this case, she will try to hide the fact of cheating better.
On the one hand, I do not believe that she is able to cheat on me - we have a good family, we love each other, we lack for nothing. On the other hand, this delaying at the work is too suspicious.
Have you faced with similar situation and have you found a solution?

Thank you for voting.

Comments

Monday, March 9, 2015 1:36 PM
Guest

Talk to her, that is what you need to do. I talked to my wife when I thought of anything. She got mad, I told her this is better than playing stupid games and that "I do not play". I don;t care how long you have been together. The longer you are with one person the more you want to venture out and see what is out there.

 
Thursday, March 12, 2015 10:59 AM
Guest

Have you done anything that would make her want to cheat? Are you and her still intimate when she is home?Until you have proof that she is cheating ,it would be a bad idea to confront her about it until you do.I always have felt that most affairs or cases of infidekity start or originate at the work place. Your solution will take time and patience, good luck

 
Thursday, March 19, 2015 8:16 AM
Stallingssd

When she has to work over pay a visit to the work place to see yourself. Check with co-workers after she calls and tells you she will be late. Put a GPS tracker on her car.

 
Saturday, May 23, 2015 10:33 AM
Guest

You can bluff her ;)

Tell her you got an anonymous sms or something telling the author saw them very intimate in the company or something like this. Depending on your acting you maybe you get her telling you the truth.

 
Sunday, July 26, 2015 5:52 PM
Ash

Best solution is to ask you look at her eye when she reply i'am sure the truth will come out .this day 

 
Wednesday, August 12, 2015 8:10 AM
Guest

Just fuck the shit out of her dude ,that what she wants

 

 
Monday, October 5, 2015 3:34 AM
Guest

well you could hire a PI and get a GPS tracker on her car.

catch her red handed and there is no denying it.

and if she isn't cheating, then she wont even find out you were spying on her.

 
Saturday, April 2, 2016 12:15 AM
Guest

Cheating or not cheating.. in both the cases you can't do anything.. if cheating than what's the reason focus on it instead of finding out the cheater in her... if not cheating then inspect yourself why you are becoming more possesive... most important thing is that many of the time you distrust and doubts, actually start working and nonetheless your partner being devoted to you some time take out the hidden feeling of change.. change is inevitable.. either you give her new things.. enjoyment.. life style.. memories etc.. or she'll find it in her own way.. it doesn't mean girls only go for other man.. then could be inclined to anything.. their career.. some passion.. back biting and most of the time slow depression... if you want to come out from this think of the extreme loss... cheating is not a proper word.. need for other things is the right way to think.. if she is in need of change.. even if started working hard in her career you must focus on your part an not her timing and relations.. osho said once... no body can eat same vegetable everyday.. in marriage and relation you cannot change the name of the relation but you can play differently to keep it alive and new...

 

 

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