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I'm cheating and he's in jail

I cheated on my boyfriend

Tuesday, May 3, 2016 3:48 PM by Guest Rating: +12|-18

my boyfreind is in jail and a couple days ago I unblocked this guy (I'll call him John) in my phone cause he's the guy my bf is worried about and I didn't really think John was of any concern. Well, me and John started talking as friends but then it escalated to sending hearts and kissy faces, and John asked for me to hang out yesterday, I agreed. We met up at a park and he invited his friend, which was okay with me cause I figured he would help avoid anything happening, but we started by his arm around me then holding hands and he said "so about a kiss" and isaid "so what about it" and he kissed me. His friend got to the park with us and we walked to the play ground and his friend started swinging, then John put his hand on my hip as we watched him swing then we kissed again..  It was the happiest I've been in awhile. My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months and I've left him 3 times and promised I wouldn't leave again, so I'm kinda stuck.. My bf is in love with me I know but, the feelings aren't the same anymore. I'm afraid if I leave him I won't ever get him back like I love him so much I'm just not in love with him anymore. I need help. Please if anyone can help me it would be appreciated. 

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Wednesday, May 4, 2016 3:04 AM
Guest

    Do you realize how  selfish  you sound. You have a boyfriend  and the first chance you get to cheat knowing you won't be cought you took advantage  of  it. You unblocked  a guy as soon as your man went to jail. You knew you would from the beginning  thats why ( by your own words ) you was happy his friend came along. You knew you was attracted to this oher guy. Listen you don't need advice you need a HEART.

 
Wednesday, May 4, 2016 5:28 AM
Guest

Okay the previous comment is really tough. Let's not be that judgemental. First of all, you made a mistake, accept it and accept the consequences. Even though you dont confess it, your conscience will not allow you to relax. Your guilt will be bottled up inside you. You need to figure out if your bf really makes you happy and is he the one for you. If you get carried away by someone else, then it means there is no full satisfaction in that relationship. I recommend you to find out what it is. I think the best would be to confess everything when the right time comes. You said you promised you would not leave him again, but we are never sure what future holds. You need to think what would be the best for you guys. Love is not all about pure romance, it requires trust, support, satisfaction, appreciation, acceptance. All these together makes relationship (and love) more enjoyable. If you think this relationship worth saving then do whatever it takes, but if you have question marks flying over your head then I think you should think twice.

 
Wednesday, May 4, 2016 5:51 AM
Albert

Sounds like this is an exit affair. Leave the boyfriend he deserves to find someone who loves him

 
Wednesday, May 4, 2016 3:36 PM
Abby

First comment was tough but dead on right. You knew you would from the beginning.

 
Saturday, May 7, 2016 12:18 AM
Guest

Omg!  really...

《Okay the previous comment is really tough. Let's not be that judgemental. First of all, you made a mistake, accept it and accept the consequences.》

What? Are you really serious?  That's some bullshit, if you ask me!  What kind of person would have the audacity to say this?  Listen you don't need advice,  you need a HEART!  

The first poster was correct!  You need a ,"heart", not a... "deflateable - fart - bag," because that's what you have! 

《I recommend you to find out what it is. I think the best would be to confess everything when the right time comes. 》

When the right time comes?  Is there really a right time?  

One would think, the longer you wait, the longer it gets worse.....  and so will the outcome.  I recommend you to confess, period!  And make sure you.... take your lumps, like a real woman, that truly loves her boyfriend, does.....  if that's the case....   or....  you could do worse, pack up all your shit (your belongings), if you live together, before he gets out of jail...... and..... "just - vanish".....  and not say nothing!  yeah right!  Wouldn't that be very immature (for someone to do), and very selfish, cowardly, as well?  Crazy huh...

 
Saturday, May 7, 2016 7:23 PM
Guest

If your boyfriend didn;t give a fuck enough about you to keep himself out of trouble, then why should you not cheat. He's probably cheating on you sucking dick in jail to keep safe, so why dont you dump him and continue on with John.

 
Thursday, May 19, 2016 1:36 PM
guest

Fuck what idiot dates a man who goes to jail, have some standards. Rather be single improve yourself gain some respect and the right educated man will come your way

 

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