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I'm trash.

I cheated on my boyfriend

Sunday, August 28, 2016 8:08 AM by Ali Rating: +2|-5

My boyfriend of two years had been attending university with me as long as I'd known him. He's incredibly smart but this year his financial aid was withdrawn so he dropped out for the semester in order to save money. He lives an hour away but has no car and his parents hate me so I can't visit him. 

I haven't seen him in a few weeks and yesterday a guy friend of mine (who is most likely romantically interested) asked if I wanted to hang out for the day. 

I was feeling lonely and this guy is actually one of my good friends. I called my boyfriend and like usual he didn't answer so I didn't tell him about my plans. Later me and my friend decided to go to the movies. And when we got to the theater my boyfriend finally responded. I told him I was going to the movies and he assumed I was with one of my girlfriends. I didn't correct him and I turned my phone off until later that night. 

I knew my boyfriend, who I Knew had my I pad and could see all my messages from the day, would figure out I was with a guy but I didn't think it would be a big deal. Later that night when I remembered to the. My phone on he answered my calls crying and told me he couldn't trust me anymore and that I really hurt him. I dont know what to do.

He said there was too much going on with his family for me to come see him for even a few minutes last night. I feel like garbage. I just wanted to relax for a day. I lied and I really fucked up and I have no idea how to fix this. 

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Monday, August 29, 2016 12:30 PM
Guest

Yo, it all starts and end with you and boyfriends sitting down and being completely honest with each other, and keeping a level head throughout it all. It would suck to miss out and someone perfect for you because of a hateful action in the moment

 
Monday, August 29, 2016 1:16 PM
ALF

How were you going to see your boyfriend for a few minutes when he lives an hour away?  And his parents hate you?  Seems if you were going to risk a trip to see him, you should have done that instead of going out with another dude in the first place.

 
Monday, August 29, 2016 3:17 PM
Trash

 Wait! If you didn't  kiss, have sex or flirted ( also includes pillow talk )with this man how exactly  did you cheat?  OK your dumb for going out with another man without your  man's permission  which he probably  would  have  said no but I wouldn't call yourself  trash because of it.  If your in a relationship  with someone  who's family  hate you you probably  need to break  up with  him anyway. No one is telling me who can and can't  see me even if I lived with my mother. Then again  I moved  out at age 17.  

 

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