OK, he tells me I am tripping but I know he is cheating. He goes to work at 4AM. I get up at 5AM and shower and get ready for my own workday, leaving the house at 6:30AM. I always make the bed, I hate coming home and having to make a bed just to mess it up again. I know I am wierd like that. He gets home about 6PM and I get home most nights by 7PM.

So this one evening I get home and I go upstairs to change and he is on the backyard doing the grass, I go into the bedroom and the bed is a mess, I was like wtf???   So I look and there are several long bruntte strands of hair on the pillow and the bed has a wet area in the middle of the bed. Now I am getting really pissed and he walks into the bedroom and I ask him who ws here? He looks all stupid like and says no one. I show him the wet spot and the long hairs, O yeah, I am a blonde, and he gets that look but he is like he has no idea. I suggest maybe someone broke in, fucked in our bed and then left???? So I grab his pants and pull them down and he smells like Irish Springs soap...the stuff he buys and I ask him why he would take a shower after he comes home and then go cut the grass and have to take a shower again. I get that stupid look again. So I am finished checking his cock and he still isnt hard  with my hand around it. He gets a hard on as soon as I walk in the room in my shower towel, I wake up and he has a hard on, I look at him and he gets hard.....but here he was soft and still the stupid look. So then I grab my keys and I am going out the door and from across the street I hear Hello Sandy, I look up and our new neighbor with long brunette hair is sitting on her porch. She's got that shit eating smile on her face and I knew. I am half tempted to find her husband and return the favor. I dont know. I am so pissed. Do I toss three years pf marrage out and start over? I havent cheated on him....not yet. No kids? two weeks later and he is still dening it.