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I cheated on my boyfriend

Tuesday, July 19, 2016 1:39 PM by Guest Rating: +1|-7

My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 and a half months. We are both in high school and we are really happy together. We have had our ups and down just like a normal couple but most of our fights would start cause of him. I always have felt as if he isn't putting that much effort into the relationship and this is something that truly upsets me. 

Anyhow, about a month ago, our summer holiday started and I went back to my home country to see family and friends, and he travelled to his. There is an 11 hour time difference, therefore we found it very difficult to get used to all these changes. My boyfriend didn't like the idea of me going out with my guy friends and continously fought me, stating his worry that the guys might try something on me. After a while this started to really get on my nerves, causing me to distance myself. Meanwhile, I met a guy 4 years older than me and we start talking and flirting, mostly after we drank. 

One night at a club, after some dancing and flirting, he took me to the bathroom and waited for me outside. As I came out, I saw him standing there smiling at me and I don't know what got over me. I ran to him and started making out with him. It got very intense and we continued for a couple minutes. He then asked to take me outside but the guilt rushed in and I left immidietly. 

When I saw him the next day, I told him the truth and apologised that I did that to him. He said that it is alright and that we could continue if I wanted. Feeling guilty about everything already, I kindly said no and cut contact with him. 

 

Should I tell my boyfriend? I really do love him and he is an amazing guy. I was just lonely, upset and drunk and it meant nothing. I didn't mean it. I feel like a horrible person already but I don't wanna lose him. I really do love him. 

Thank you for voting.

Comments

Wednesday, July 20, 2016 3:07 AM
Guest

Yes you are horrible and you proved why your boyfriend didnt want you hanging out alone with guys. Some guy gave you a sly smirk and I bet if you only had another drink in you, you would have had sex with him. You were lonely because you chose to be lonely. You could have chosen to be with your boyfriend instead of these other men and you didnt. You dont love him. I do believe that he is great and that you believe that but you have some issues with that; issues you need to sort out. tell him and give him the choice to leave if you truely love him. 

 
Wednesday, July 20, 2016 8:48 AM
Guest

No, you don't love him.  Less than 6 months into a relationship and you're already tossing the tuna to someone else.  The love/lust/obsession/whatever you wanna call it should still be a strong part of the relationship.  Unless, y'all are just casually dating and otherwise don't give a shit.  He was right, go hang out with your guy friends, get a little lit, and all it takes is a smile to jump on another guy.  I feel for your boyfriend.  5 1/2 months he'll never get back because he wasted it on a gal who doesn't truly want to be with him.  Otherwise, you would've stayed in or made slight changes to each of your schedules to have time to communicate daily, it's not hard.  If you can't last 6 months with one person, you have no hope of a real relationship like marriage with him, or anyone for that fact.

 
Wednesday, July 20, 2016 9:33 AM
ALF

I concur with the above.  Together 5 1/2 months and you're already putting liplocks on other dudes.  You're just not that into your "boyfriend".  Maybe the reason why he isn't putting that much effort into the relationship is because he's seen the writing on the wall and is posturing to cut his loses.  In this case, he made a good move.

 

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