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Is this love?

My boyfriend cheated on me

Sunday, April 17, 2016 3:04 AM by Wasteoftime Rating: +8|-6

I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years now, we've been dating on and off since the 8th grade and though out highschool. He's cheated on me and some stupid stuff during those years but I let it go cause we were stupid teenagers. When we were out of highschool I told him that if he really wants to be single and free just go because I don't want to be hurt anymore. We when a whole year pretty well and I was so happy, we are finally young adults and the child's play is over and we can think about the future. This last February ive been going through a lot with school my family and my health and I got very depressed, and was having trouble healing from the past hurts. But I finally came along, I couldn't believe it my heart and soul had finally healed up. My trust in him was restored and I fell so much more Inlove with him. On Valentine's Day he was absolutely wonderful, he finally showed me some appreciation. We went out to dinner and we had a great talk, but then we talked about my depressing stage. I apologized and I explained to him what's been going on(like he doesn't already know). And then he told me work a girl gave him her number. I felt a lump in my throat and tears welled up. I asked if he took it.. And he said at the moment he did because I was being bitchy..but he threw it out because he thought of me and what we had together. He held my hands and looked me in the eye and told me what a changed man he is now and that he would never do that. I cried a little because I actually felt a little relieved. But a few weeks later I checked his texts and there she was...they have been texting all month and hung out at a hookah spot.. 

I've been on pause all month....I don't really know what to do now, he cried when I told him to leave and has been trying really hard to show me that he truly wants to be with me, I want to forgive him but I feel like I can't. He's hurt me so much I think it's too late..


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Sunday, April 17, 2016 6:46 PM

Dump him. He will not stop using you as his back up girl while he runs around looking for something better. He will not find anyone better than you but he is too selfish and stupid to realize that. He is NOT husband material. He would make a terrible father. In short, he is shit. Move on quickly. Do not feel like you have wasted years of investement in him. You have learned a lot from your relationship, take that knowledge and turn it into wishom and pick a good man to be a good husband and father to your children. When you find him, give him all your love. Do not let this past loser spoil your future. 

Monday, April 18, 2016 7:19 AM

The title says it all. If you have to ask then no. It's not love. Leave the asshole. It will be hard at first but you will be happy you did.

Monday, April 18, 2016 9:27 AM

Leave him for awhile and see what happens don't write it off yet, but distance yourself for now 

Wednesday, April 20, 2016 1:32 AM

Distance is good. Sounds like y'all can get back together often. Distance him for a while and see how he acts. If he is still around after a couple months 1-3 maybe y'all can be good friends but you need your time and space girl. Don't spend your energy not worth it. Think about all the awesome friends and fucking you're missing out on 👍🏼 life is short 

Thursday, September 15, 2016 7:31 PM

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