I am also glad you are doing better. I went through the samething with a cheating boyfriend. We dated for 6 years and he cheated on me for 3 years within that time span with other women. When I found out and confronted him with little things like condom lubricants (which I knew that weren't for me because I am on the pill)  in his apartment he would say, this is personal and I shouldn't be digging into his personal life. I mean hell we were dating for 6 years and I am not suppose to know about his personal life, umm hello..When I did find out you know what he told me? He said, "I don't date them, I just fuck them!!" How's that for a come back? lol. I mean this guy is picking up chicks on date sites, Tinder, okcupid, pof, datehookup and etc. He meets them goes out with them a few times and fucks them. An me being the ass I am I'm sitting back thinking nothing is going on.

He's been a cheat from day one. He has cheated on all his X-girlfriends ever since he found out he had a dick and knew that it just wasn't to pee out of. He cheated on his very first girlfriend who he dated for 2 years, cheated on his 2nd girlfriend who he dated for 6 years. They broke up because he gave her a venereal disease. He never stopped cheating. It was like it was in his blood and this was what he was suppose to do. Out of all the women he dated and cheated on with only one he never cheated on because he loved her so. But at the time he had a drug and alcohol problem so their relationship went sour because he got her pregnant. ( matter of fact he got two women pregnant and even came on to his x girlfriends friend in the abortion clinic while his X is having the aportion lol) After 20 some odd years of dating women this man is still cheating on the women he is with.

Now he is 46 years old, never been married and still looking for his true love on date sites. We are still friends and manage to see each other but there is no sex or anything like that involved. I use to respect him and I trusted him whole heartly, but I lost all respect of him when I found out he cheated on me too. He still claims till this day that he didn't cheat on me, still says that all he did was fuck these women. Now if that isn't cheating than you tell me what it is. You know what he said to me recently, he said "Suppose I meet a woman and start dating her after 6 months and I cheat on her?" I just looked at him and said, "Well, that's your problem, isn't it?" lol 

It took me a year, a year to get over this. I would see him with other women in my dreams and start to cry because we did so much together. One thing I can say about my X he had a fantastic personality and very nice looking and he knew it. With his charm and womanizing way any woman would fall for this guy, even the youngest chick out there because he can stoop down to their level and charm the hell out of them. That is what he is looking for, a woman twice his age so that he can wrap her around his finger with his charm. Someone young enough to be his daughter and look good on his arm. His age group, 29-37. He's 46. He said he wants to get married, have kids. Well I told him you better hurry cause by the time your in your 60's you will be to old too enjoy them. 

What I am hoping that he will meet a younger woman and cheat on him like he had cheated on me and all the other women he dated. I do hope he gets whats coming to him someday. He's still out there playing the field. I really feel sorry for the next woman he dates, because if he gets that feeling of cheating again, he will for sure. 

My X is a DEFINITE manwhore for sure!!!

Wow! Glad to know I'm not the only one who's had a real winner in life. My ex was the scum of the earth, but liked to disguise himself as Mr. Christian Nice Guy. Mr. Daddy of the Year, Mr. Husband of the Year. Oh yes...he was always happy and smiling when he was CHEATING behind the scenes and getting HIS HAPPY JOLLIES OFF at everyon else expense. I should have known when he cheated on his first wife and she warned years later not to even bother dating him, that he use to cheat on her back in high school. Of course he was the All-American football quarterback type. Yep, he thought he was Mr. Athlete of the Year and Mr. Ladies Man too. His dick did his thinking. After calling him on his garbage he blew up and said I was imagining things. Really? Imagining cheating? Him having no real backbone? Him being a playa? Him using women for sex or money? He milked his ex wife for all her savings and had her paying for everything! On top of that he would screw over ever business associate he worked with. He did not care expect for NUMERO UNO. Well heard through the grapevine the little twenty one plus something he was messing with has now since kicked his broke ass to the curb! Most younger gals want a man to pay for things for them not the other way around. Since he's had more than one divorce he is as broke as broke can be. He is losing his hair, stressed out, in major upon major credit card debt, owes his parents a ton of money (they will never see it), owes alimony to the ex wife, been fired from 2 or 3 other positions for abusing company $$$, almost got one of the other younger gals he was screwing with pregnant and his basically 25 years older than her and her parents weren't too thrilled, has collection agencies after him, and basically no one wants to hear his poor woo as me middle aged life sucks stories. 99.9% of these type of men do it to themselves, they are self-entitled narcissistic pricks from day one, giving everything under the sun and then some, and never told the word NO or accepting of the word NO in their entire adult lives, they think everyone owes them a living, sex, entitlement, titles, power, prestige instead of having to earn it the right way or having respect for anyone. The real kicker was the Christian crap. Acting one way and living totally another that use to piss me off. Either man up or get a life.

I'm 24 so I met this really cute guy on the internet who was 20 at that time he was very nice, attractive & smart. We started talking & we grew to really like each other then we became bf & gf afterwards. Months went by & things we're good between us, then one day he completely changed which surprised me a lot. He became cold & distant started talking with other girls since he's a "popular" guy which made me jealous & claims he was just being "nice". I of course suspected more to that & I was right. He confessed to me & didn't tell me for 5 days that he was "seeing someone" else who  I found out is 16 years old & he just wanted to become "friends"...... I was so devastated & heartbroken so I broke up with him & left him & told my friends about it. So after the breakup stupid me came back to him & I accepted to be friends with him cuz it was really hard for me let him go while he was with that girl. So afterwards I became depressed & frustrated with my heart so I told him that I needed a break from him for almost a month of a break from him so I left & came back to him & told him I needed another break for at least 4 months. So time passed by & I was so confused with my feelings I asked for advice from my friends who helped me so much that I knew what I was gonna say to him. So I came back to him & the atmosphere was terrible so asked him anyway how he was doing n all & asked what happened to his 16 year old gf. I found out that he wasn't thought who he thought she was & was doing dirty stuff with other ppl which is crazy. So I told him straight up my true feelings & he told me he liked me but more as a friend. So I asked him if he still has feelings for me but says he says he has feelings for someone else..... I was shocked cuz all this time I was gone he was already with someone else so fast like that..... There was no words so I had no choice but to leave him with no regrets & I finally did, it felt great but at that same time again heartbroken. I know he was younger than me but still he could've been smart about it instead. And karma will come to him one day where he gets hurt more for being a "womanizer" & a "player". And to this day I have no regrets since I have trustworthy friends in my life.

I had a live-in partner for over seven years. We started living together on 2009 and only found out in 2010 that he had abandoned his wife and two daughters when he was only 17. He's already 42 years old now. I forgave him thinking he was too young then while denying the fact that he's an adult now and still has zero interest in seeing his daughters. Not to just even look at them. And all I heard were excuses.

This guy faced too many problems in life but I was there for him no matter what in the span of seven years.

I lost my job in 2013 which was a very stressful year for me and that was the time he cheated on me with a colleague. I confronted the lady involved and so she left him. A few days after the confrontation, I found a job and asked this guy to leave the house. He stayed. Later on, the idiot in me forgave him. He proposed, we got engaged. I thought he's learned his lesson and will not do the same thing again to me. I trusted. Life was perfect until I once again lost my job in 2016. He did exactly the same, cheated on me with a different woman, but this time he left the house.

Hey... your advice sounds great. Wanna hook up? You never know ;-)