Friday, November 13, 2015 10:45 PM by Sadie
Rating: +31|-17
I met this guy my freshmen year in college. Let's just call him D for now. I was 19 and he was 25. We started talking and became friends. The more we talked the more we liked each other. He was very sweet and nice, very caring. He just seemed very genuine. Although I liked him a lot and I knew he liked me, I was in a relationship with another man. One night, my boyfriend at the time and I were having problems. Me being young at the time, I wasn't sure what I wanted. So I decided to stay with my boyfriend. D and I had lost contact with each other. About a year and 8 months go by. I've broken up with that boyfriend by this time. I'm on a dating site because I feel like I'm ready to start dating again. I get a message from this guy. Although he didn't have a picture of his face as his profile, I almost immediately knew who it was because I recognized the tattoo on his forearm. It was D, my friend from college. We started talking again and instantly connected. We decided to meet up and have a few drinks. I knew right then in there that that this relationship was going to be more than just a friendship. We started dating. I was very happy. He was very sweet, charming, told me all the time that I was beautiful. A couple months go by. I notice that he's becoming distant. Then one night, he comes over and tells me that he's not sure if he wants this anymore. He says it's because of school and how he just has a lot on his plate. And so he breaks up with me. I had a feeling that there was more to it than what he was telling me. So two days later I message one of his friends on Facebook asking if he knew anything. He tells me that during the last month of our relationship that D had cheated on me twice. I became overwhelmed with emotions. I was sad, angry, depressed, vengeful all at the same time. When I confronted D he denied anything ever happened. Later, he admitted it and made it seem like it was my fault. He then later apologized for what he'd done, but it didn't seem very genuine. I forgive him anyway and we go back to being just friends. Another year goes by. D and I are on good terms with each other. He's in a relationship with another woman and I with another man. He finds out that the woman he's been seeing for the past year has cheated on him several times. What does he do? Texts me a full blown apology saying how sorry he was for everything he'd done to me and that if he could take it all back he would because he now knows what it's like to be mistreated. The ending to this story is that I now have a good man in my life who respects me and he ended up all alone. KARMA kicked his ass real hard; that's the best revenge I could have ever asked for.
Tags:
Dating;
Friend;