DONT DO IT! Your missing attention from your husband and the thrill of attention from this man is making you consider risking your marriage. I can tell you from personal experience one time doesnt make it go away i rationalized this and slept with an ex and after he ended things i sought attention and hooked up with a stranger from a hook up site and slept with him 3 times and then he lost interest. Its a domino effect of needing to be wanted and then when its over seeking more. It will never stop. Talk to your husband or a counselor and work through your issues instead. 

Are you sure your husband isn't cheating on you? Every truck stop is loaded with whores selling pussy to truck drivers. Men need to release themselves of all the cum that accumulates. It's just biology. Those whores provide services for cash, so your accounts don't mean much. Instead of fucking some other guy, why don't you get him to change his job so he can fuck you?

    Why? Betrayal  is the worst thing you can do to anyone you claim to love. He's not out ignoring you but working to give you and your kids what you need. It's more than just you. Your kids depends  on  your husband  pay  to live. Listen you cheat once you will do it again. It's not a getting  out of  your  system situation. If you compromised your morals once it will lead to it again. I was taught  that what ever you bring home to your wife you bring it to your kids like Pain, diseases, hate, immorality  and so on. Many people don't realize  that even if you think you know the other person is Clean he may not. If he did it with you  he probably  9 out of 10 did it with someone  else to. Trust me men's logic goes out  the window when the buddy below is up and about.  He may have something  and not even known it. Diseases  are not racist, color blind, sexest, economical or care about status. It loves us all the same why risk it. 

But you still  have a problem  with feeling  lonely I get it. Imagine  your action causes a devorce. How lonely  will you  be then. Don't think he would never find out. Your  conscious  will kill you.  Let him know what your going through  and tell him you are thinking about leaving  him. If he loves you he will understand  and find a way to fix this. You already  cheated  with your  emotions  don't Commit the act. Once you cross the line you will loose respect and honor. Do you love yourself  enough  to  be faithful  to yourself?  I tell you what go to you tube and search  

CASTING CROWNS: slow fade. Listen to it.

 Honestly I'm not going to sit here and tell you not to cheat on him because of your self respect or your family I am just going to tell you it's not a good idea because the more you get to know him the more feelings you'll have for him he has a wife you have a husband  what if you end up wanting more you're just causing yourself more issues than what there is this situations are very stressful specially when you fall in love with someone that can't be yours 

The fact that you are asking this question means that you are smart enough to to know the answer. You will not be just cheating on your husband, you will be cheating on your kids and likely cheating them out of their father when he finds out, and he will find out. So, don't cheat. Don't waste your time on a loser that would fuck a married woman. This other guy is not much of a man. He is a lousy bet for a replacement for a decent hardworking husband. 

What should you do? TALK TO YOUR HUSBAND! Tell him the truth! Tell him that you are lonely. Tell him that you need him home. Help him find another job! Take care of your man, your husband, your children's father! Love him like you promised you would! Be a real woman! Don't be a foolish slut! You have a chance to save your honor and have a great life. You can also throw it all away and live a life of regret, sadness and suffering. The choice is yours!

If you open that door, you won't be married anymore.  Problem solved.

Woman up and tell your husband that you are feeling lonely and horny.

OTR is tough on relationships more so if your communication in your relationship sucks.

I can tell my girl anything I'm feeling, anything. She also, she would make jokes like babe I know you would tap that if I wasn't in your life look at that ass pointing to other girls and we have fun with that, we watch porn together, joke about those guys with the clearly surgically enchanced dicks that are bigger than mine, we share porn blogs on tumblr and swap things we find hot and want to do to each other and I tell her the same thing concerning other guys and we play around it fuels our sexual tension because we both know that we would never want to sleep with people who throw it around so easily or lie and deceive others. We are both fit, look hot, with great bodies and I am very well endowed, she cant take a bigger size without pain, our sex life is literally depraved and will only get better. You have to make sure your sex life is fulfilling and that your relationship is fullfilling, work on communication, this is your life partner there is nothing you shouldnt be able to say. Sitting there unhappy makes no sense.

Sex is never just sex if the parties are commited or in a relationship of any kind, sex becomes an exclusive relationship component unless agreed otherwise by both parties. Sex is only sex if both parties are single and agree to get each other off due to desire, attraction, need etc.

How do you feel knowing that you would be fucking a liar who is cheating on his wife, flirting and falandering with other women then going home to her and smiling in her face, ganering her trust, security and confidence while he is secretly betraying her, is that someone worthy of getting to use your body to get off? Cuz thats what he wants. If he can lie to his wife he can lie to you. Even if his wife is terrible he is weak for not handling it like a man and sorting out his relationshp or leaving and being single, if she is a good woman then even worse you are fucking the same scum you would have never married, the same type of man you yourself hated.

You will also become the type of woman you dispise, the type of woman that disgusts you, the type you would never want around your husband, sneaking around and lying to her husband so she could fuck your man, disrespecting you so she could get off and taking whats yours all while when she realy cares nothing for your man.

You are better than this god damn it. Woman up. Talk to your husband. Mentally condidering fucking another man is worse to your husband than anything you could possibly tell him I gaurentee that. Tell him everything including about this other man and your intentions, say you are sorry, that you didnt go through with it. That will make him angry, hurt him, but he will respect you, that will make him think, try and focus also on you. There LTL trucking jobs that he can apply for and make an effort to secure one of those that can get him home more often even every night. Once he is making the effort hopefully you wouldnt feel alone. Feeling alone is a product of bad communication.

Potential suitors and randoms to indulge with are everywhere, what you have an built that you are taking for granted many live and die and never find.

Just because you may keep the secret hush doesnt mean the outside man will, if he gets caught or, hooked on you or his wife gets involved because there will be undeneiable proof on his end that you can not discard of. Morals and ethics aside cheating is dumb because there are to many variables that you can not control.

Cheat only if you are prepared to lose your husband because of your own selfishness. If your husband doesnt know how you feel then you are being selfish.

Be a living role model to your children one day they will face exaclty what you are, also be prepared to tell them in a a few years why you and thier dad arent together. Infedility is always wrong.

We are no better than animals if we fall victim to every temptation and impluse. There are millions of attractive men and women are you going to just go around fucking them all? Cheating is not the solution.

If your husband doesnt seem to care how you feel, then maybe try to go to councelling, if that fails, leave or divorce, love sometimes is not enough other characteristics dictate relatiionship success and over all happiness, sitting around unhappy is wasting life. Do what is right, Do not cheat you are not a fucking whore. Do not become the very thing you despise.

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Fuck it do it 

We don't appreciate and value what we have until it's gone. Love is blind but you're not so make sure regret. Doesn't bite you on your behind.