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Lonely while married

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Tuesday, August 23, 2016 9:48 PM by Nurse Rating: +41|-24

I am 26, married, with two little babies and a dog. My husband is a otr truck driver and I see him maybe 7 days a month not counting two of those days in a row.. I  have been very lonely and horny for along time. I know my husband isn't cheating on me. I have access to all his passwords on social media and bank account. Also his work long-in.... I met this guy at the hospital when I was doing my clinicals. I gave him my number on the 8th day of meeting him. He to is also married. I want to fuck him and at times I think about him and we never talked on the phone before yet...... I don't know what to do. Please give me some advice and steer me away from temptation.. I also never cheated on my husband. In the beginning of our relationship he cheated on me with his ex 04/2014... Will I be wrong to cheat? Or should I do it and get it over with?

Thank you for voting.


Wednesday, August 24, 2016 6:38 AM


Wednesday, August 24, 2016 6:41 AM

DONT DO IT! Your missing attention from your husband and the thrill of attention from this man is making you consider risking your marriage. I can tell you from personal experience one time doesnt make it go away i rationalized this and slept with an ex and after he ended things i sought attention and hooked up with a stranger from a hook up site and slept with him 3 times and then he lost interest. Its a domino effect of needing to be wanted and then when its over seeking more. It will never stop. Talk to your husband or a counselor and work through your issues instead. 

Wednesday, August 24, 2016 6:44 AM

i would say don't sleep with him. At least no yet. Since your husband is truck driver and the nature of his job will only make you more and more in the future, thus increasing your frustration. Just start talking to the other guy and go out with him for coffee, lunch etc. if you think he is the kind of guy who can be a good company in absence of your husband then sure sleep with him. Trust me it will make your marriage better then worse. At the same time try to work things out with your husband and if things workout stop sleeping with other guy

Wednesday, August 24, 2016 1:10 PM

Are you sure your husband isn't cheating on you? Every truck stop is loaded with whores selling pussy to truck drivers. Men need to release themselves of all the cum that accumulates. It's just biology. Those whores provide services for cash, so your accounts don't mean much. Instead of fucking some other guy, why don't you get him to change his job so he can fuck you?

Wednesday, August 24, 2016 2:01 PM

Ok so your tempted. This guy is really just a crush. You are longing for attention and if you decide to fuck this guy you will end up alone, divorced with a child and no where to turn. Do not listen to the person saying it will make your marriage better. Go home and think about your vows, your promise to the man who above all chose you.  You seek a roll in the hay, it's thrilling, exciting, dirty, taboo and all the fun names you can put on it but you risk everything. Everything. You ,entitled that your husband cheated early in your relationship and the way you mentioned it indicates that perhaps you feel this will even the score?  Trust me, it will ruin you. You need to realize your husband is trying to make a better life for his family. Reverse the rolls. Imagine you working over the road, away, stressed out, missing your partner and he's home screwing a married woman because he just wants to fuck her.  Cut ties, don't have coffee, don't communicate with him because the temptation will only get stronger to where you just fall in bed with him. It's a complete lose-lose situation. 

Wednesday, August 24, 2016 2:07 PM

    Why? Betrayal  is the worst thing you can do to anyone you claim to love. He's not out ignoring you but working to give you and your kids what you need. It's more than just you. Your kids depends  on  your husband  pay  to live. Listen you cheat once you will do it again. It's not a getting  out of  your  system situation. If you compromised your morals once it will lead to it again. I was taught  that what ever you bring home to your wife you bring it to your kids like Pain, diseases, hate, immorality  and so on. Many people don't realize  that even if you think you know the other person is Clean he may not. If he did it with you  he probably  9 out of 10 did it with someone  else to. Trust me men's logic goes out  the window when the buddy below is up and about.  He may have something  and not even known it. Diseases  are not racist, color blind, sexest, economical or care about status. It loves us all the same why risk it. 




But you still  have a problem  with feeling  lonely I get it. Imagine  your action causes a devorce. How lonely  will you  be then. Don't think he would never find out. Your  conscious  will kill you.  Let him know what your going through  and tell him you are thinking about leaving  him. If he loves you he will understand  and find a way to fix this. You already  cheated  with your  emotions  don't Commit the act. Once you cross the line you will loose respect and honor. Do you love yourself  enough  to  be faithful  to yourself?  I tell you what go to you tube and search  


CASTING CROWNS: slow fade. Listen to it.

Wednesday, August 24, 2016 3:25 PM

As many have said, don't cheat. If u do, u lose self respect. U will do it again and only make ur life miserable. Remember also the kids. U cheat and things blow out of proportion, they will be affected to. Will they hate their mom, will they grow up knowing that their mom slept with another man. Will they grow up with the same morals? When they are tempted, that they should cheat. You made a vow and pray that u stick to it. U will n rewarded for you faith in your family. Even if he cheats, u maintain ur integrity and respect. 

Wednesday, August 24, 2016 6:09 PM

 Honestly I'm not going to sit here and tell you not to cheat on him because of your self respect or your family I am just going to tell you it's not a good idea because the more you get to know him the more feelings you'll have for him he has a wife you have a husband  what if you end up wanting more you're just causing yourself more issues than what there is this situations are very stressful specially when you fall in love with someone that can't be yours 

Wednesday, August 24, 2016 10:48 PM

Thank you all for the comments they're very helpful!!! I decided to stop talking to the guy from work and focus more on my family. This really helped me out a lot. I was torn into being so lonely that I didn't really see the big picture in front of me. I do love my family unconditionally and I'm going to stick to my wedding vows!! 

Thursday, August 25, 2016 3:05 AM

The fact that you are asking this question means that you are smart enough to to know the answer. You will not be just cheating on your husband, you will be cheating on your kids and likely cheating them out of their father when he finds out, and he will find out. So, don't cheat. Don't waste your time on a loser that would fuck a married woman. This other guy is not much of a man. He is a lousy bet for a replacement for a decent hardworking husband. 

What should you do? TALK TO YOUR HUSBAND! Tell him the truth! Tell him that you are lonely. Tell him that you need him home. Help him find another job! Take care of your man, your husband, your children's father! Love him like you promised you would! Be a real woman! Don't be a foolish slut! You have a chance to save your honor and have a great life. You can also throw it all away and live a life of regret, sadness and suffering. The choice is yours!

Thursday, August 25, 2016 4:22 AM

I'm a honest man that loves my woman and I work long hours also please don't do anything to hurt him.  30min of fun will most likely ruin your life and his life.  Buy a vibrator and watch some porn and after you cumm you'll realize I'm right.  You have a good man that works and takes care of you and nowadays that's hard to find.  Along with the fact if he found out he could snap and kill you both so just better to keep your pants on.  

Thursday, August 25, 2016 4:52 AM

If you open that door, you won't be married anymore.  Problem solved.

Thursday, August 25, 2016 5:03 PM
Randy Snacker

Personally, I would discuss these things with my spouse. Probably wouldn't come out with the fact that I want to sleep with someone specific, but I'd want to let them know the issue.

Aside from that, if you honestly believe that:

you won't fall in love with this new guy,

he won't fall in love with you,

you won't be eaten up with guilt,

the new guy will be discreet,

your husband will never find out,

then I think having some fulfilling, safe sex could be great. As long as it is just sex, then's just sex. But I wouldn't want to ruin my marriage for just sex. So maybe think long and hard about it. 

Friday, August 26, 2016 9:25 AM

Woman up and tell your husband that you are feeling lonely and horny.

OTR is tough on relationships more so if your communication in your relationship sucks.

I can tell my girl anything I'm feeling, anything. She also, she would make jokes like babe I know you would tap that if I wasn't in your life look at that ass pointing to other girls and we have fun with that, we watch porn together, joke about those guys with the clearly surgically enchanced dicks that are bigger than mine, we share porn blogs on tumblr and swap things we find hot and want to do to each other and I tell her the same thing concerning other guys and we play around it fuels our sexual tension because we both know that we would never want to sleep with people who throw it around so easily or lie and deceive others. We are both fit, look hot, with great bodies and I am very well endowed, she cant take a bigger size without pain, our sex life is literally depraved and will only get better. You have to make sure your sex life is fulfilling and that your relationship is fullfilling, work on communication, this is your life partner there is nothing you shouldnt be able to say. Sitting there unhappy makes no sense.

Sex is never just sex if the parties are commited or in a relationship of any kind, sex becomes an exclusive relationship component unless agreed otherwise by both parties. Sex is only sex if both parties are single and agree to get each other off due to desire, attraction, need etc.

How do you feel knowing that you would be fucking a liar who is cheating on his wife, flirting and falandering with other women then going home to her and smiling in her face, ganering her trust, security and confidence while he is secretly betraying her, is that someone worthy of getting to use your body to get off? Cuz thats what he wants. If he can lie to his wife he can lie to you. Even if his wife is terrible he is weak for not handling it like a man and sorting out his relationshp or leaving and being single, if she is a good woman then even worse you are fucking the same scum you would have never married, the same type of man you yourself hated.

You will also become the type of woman you dispise, the type of woman that disgusts you, the type you would never want around your husband, sneaking around and lying to her husband so she could fuck your man, disrespecting you so she could get off and taking whats yours all while when she realy cares nothing for your man.

You are better than this god damn it. Woman up. Talk to your husband. Mentally condidering fucking another man is worse to your husband than anything you could possibly tell him I gaurentee that. Tell him everything including about this other man and your intentions, say you are sorry, that you didnt go through with it. That will make him angry, hurt him, but he will respect you, that will make him think, try and focus also on you. There LTL trucking jobs that he can apply for and make an effort to secure one of those that can get him home more often even every night. Once he is making the effort hopefully you wouldnt feel alone. Feeling alone is a product of bad communication.

Potential suitors and randoms to indulge with are everywhere, what you have an built that you are taking for granted many live and die and never find.

Just because you may keep the secret hush doesnt mean the outside man will, if he gets caught or, hooked on you or his wife gets involved because there will be undeneiable proof on his end that you can not discard of. Morals and ethics aside cheating is dumb because there are to many variables that you can not control.

Cheat only if you are prepared to lose your husband because of your own selfishness. If your husband doesnt know how you feel then you are being selfish.

Be a living role model to your children one day they will face exaclty what you are, also be prepared to tell them in a a few years why you and thier dad arent together. Infedility is always wrong.

We are no better than animals if we fall victim to every temptation and impluse. There are millions of attractive men and women are you going to just go around fucking them all? Cheating is not the solution.

If your husband doesnt seem to care how you feel, then maybe try to go to councelling, if that fails, leave or divorce, love sometimes is not enough other characteristics dictate relatiionship success and over all happiness, sitting around unhappy is wasting life. Do what is right, Do not cheat you are not a fucking whore. Do not become the very thing you despise.

(Excuse typos) 

Saturday, August 27, 2016 9:58 AM

Sounds like you already justified cheating by bringing up your husband's past. You're obviously going to cheat, but are you thinking about what will become of your life after you get caught? You husband will leave you, and this new guy isn't going to his place because he's ALREADY MARRIED. So you'll be alone, going from dick to dick hoping that one of them wants to raise someone else's kids, end up having a bastard or two with no husband for any days out of the month...and wondering what rent wrong the entire time. At least be smart and go the random hook-up route, you won't need to pretend that your new life isn't anyone's fault but your own. 

Saturday, August 27, 2016 1:20 PM

Fuck it do it 

Wednesday, August 31, 2016 5:18 AM

Once you do it you may never stop again and another one will come continuesley, because you will feel again

Alone and once you taste the forbidden fruit you may eat those again and again so dont think only o e time and its over because your husband will continue his work and pays the bills 

Friday, September 2, 2016 4:55 AM

We don't appreciate and value what we have until it's gone. Love is blind but you're not so make sure regret. Doesn't bite you on your behind.

Wednesday, September 7, 2016 6:59 PM

It looks like most people didn't take the time to read what oh wrote about breaking contact with the other guy. Good for you. It shows that you have integrity and that you are an honorable person. Trust to resist if the person tries to pull you back in. Guys don't give up to easily when they think they might get laid. You should talk to your man and tell him you get lonely, and ask him if he has any ideas about ways to spice things up. Maybe you could have phone sex with him sometimes when he's away from home. Work on your relationship. It will be worth it. You are an awesome person for not giving in to temptation. 


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