Long Distance Relationship

I cheated on my boyfriend

Friday, June 10, 2016 3:20 PM by Lady Rating: +1|-5

My boyfriend works abroad as a seafarer and we seldom communicate coz he only gets internet signal once they arrive at ports. Its hard to be on a long distance relationship, not being with him really made me busy with other things. I miss him and I miss having sex, I'm being as honest as possible. I joined an adult website to hook up and fulfill my sexual needs while he's away. So I got to chat with random people, never really met one personally yet. One day I tried to access my boyfriends Facebook account and there was a message request. My heart skipped when I saw that, I was nervous. Then when I opened the message I saw that it was a dummy acct created by one of his friends not really introducing himself. He sent a screenshot of my profile from the adult site. I was really shocked and nervous and scared when I saw that. I replied "Let me take care of her" pretending I was my boyfriend. Then I blocked the account to keep him from sending more messages. From then I decided to delete my profile and started to feel sorry and scared that I might loose him. Til now I'm really scared but I'm prepared for whatever will happen. If he dumps me then I will accept it since it's my fault. And he was a good man who doesn't deserve any kind of betrayal. Judge me all you want now. I will accept it. I'm trying to better myself now. I hope it's not too late.

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Saturday, June 11, 2016 9:21 PM

Guest

I have one word for you SLUT.. If you have any sort of respect for yourself you do this man a favor and break up with him you leech.

Sunday, June 12, 2016 10:58 AM

Guest

Never mind the previous asinine comment. It's never too late to better yourself. You're only human and that includes a desire for the intimacy of sex. Seeking companionship when you're lonely doesn't make you a bad person. However, if being alone for long periods of time leads to depression or despair, then you should consider that it's not a relationship for you and find one that does work. The pain of ending the relationship won't be worse than what you're putting yourself through right now anyway. Whatever you do, good luck.

Sunday, June 12, 2016 11:45 AM

Lady

Thanks so much for dropping by and taking time to read my story. I sometimes feel that this kind of relationship is really hard and makes me feel depressed and lonely. But I can't think of any other man who can love me like he does, I'm really torn. Me joining the site is just pure lust.

Sunday, June 12, 2016 10:43 PM

Guest

I wouldn't worry too much about it. Your guy probably has a girlfriend in every one of his ports of call.

Monday, June 13, 2016 1:41 AM

Lady

That's actually what they say 😣

Friday, August 12, 2016 7:13 AM

Guest

You didn't cheat but you did something that you should not have done. You were playing with fire. You Should either stay in the relationship and stop doing things you don't want him to know about. Or else you should leave the relationship.

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