Wednesday, September 14, 2016 10:29 AM by Looking to leave
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My husband of 15 years cheated with his secretary and confessed only after many months of me constantly questioning
him. Though he never really talked ld me all the sordid details the little he said devastated me and for 2 years we are trying to work it out. His family eventuall intervened and he finally went to a counsellor by himself he refuses to go with me. I have also gone to a counsellor in hopes of getting closure. The sessions that I went to really did lift my spirits and I felt independent and free. He does try to be more involved and support with the boys and on the home front. But sometimes I feel the only reason we have stuck it out this far is because we don't want to mess up the boys lives. But once the leave the house in about 6 years time
what will happen to the marriage ? I so badly want an intimate (not sexual) relationship with another male person
some one with more sensitivity than my husband and who is willing to share his deepest thought and views
is there any one struggling with a similar issue. I would really like to get your perspective on this