As i typed, my neighbor just came home with his girlfriend, Cecilia. He drop his wife at work, then pick the girlfriend up and bring her to his place to "fool around". Why the wife stay is a million dollars question. My other neighbors knows he been cheating for years. I didnt know. I found out the hard way. He took advantage of me...i told his wife. 7 week later i recieved a call from the police. They wanted to "talk" to me. I went to the police department the next day. They ask me 2 question, then i was arrested for harassment but later was dismissed...U c two months early i sent him a letter, he  thought he use the letter to try to press charges on me but it backfires. He was force to tell his wife and police about his affairs, one night stand and what he did to me throughut his marriage...His wife knows this now,  yet she stay....The been together over 23 years but married for 17 years. They dont have children together but he has with his 2 ex wifes. Do i regret telling his wife? NO....u c i come from a different race. He didnt think i will say a word to his wife. But i did. I wanted to put him and every man like him in his place plus i wanted to hurt him as much as he hurt me...it up to the wife now...people in my building knows what goes on and we feel pity for her...Please give me some advice on this situation. I thought he was a friend, but he hurt me in the worst way. i seeing therapy now for what he did...thanks...