Thursday, July 23, 2015 2:56 PM by Guest
So my girlfriend of 8 years were 23 years old now.when I was 19 shes 18 and weve been dating since freshmen in high school. Shes always had problems with smoking weed and hanging with bad crowds. She met this girl at work and starting smoking weed with her and I found out and didn't like it. She started hanging out with her and her daughter which were kind of ghetto and stuff. Im not racist but I have a problem with dating girls who have been with black men. I told her to get out of my apartment which she did and moved in with the girl from work. All but to call her a few days later trying to get her to come back to work things out. Her knowing I dont like girls who sleep with black men tells me she aready slept with some black dude from the hood even though she hadnt yet so id stop talking to her well i still continued to try and work things out she ended up sleeping with the dude she was talking about multiple times after we had talked. Her mom calls me telling me she wanted to get out of that neighborhood so I meet her at a gas station fill up her tank so she could move to her moms, hickeys all on her neck I still asked her if we could work things out that I loved her and she agreed. All but 2 days later comes back to my place has sex with me and then she said she was going to the girl from works house for a couple days. Her own sister tells me shes still seeing the black dude from the hood. I confront her and she tells me she doesnt like the sex that he gives her free weed and ecstacy that she cant feel anything and that she doesnt enjoy any part of the sex that most of the time she was passed out. And tells me that when she tried to have sex with him when she was sober it hurt to much and she made him stop. Were still together with 2 kids to this day shes not like that anymore since weve had kids. It hurst me because if you didnt enjoy sex why would you continue to that for weed and a pill that cost 5 dollars. Can anyone relate or have any thoughts?