Tuesday, August 09, 2016 8:40 AM by Guest
Can I beg anyone out there never to cheat on your wife, if not for her sake then for yours. Once you start an affair it starts the clock ticking its a timebomb that will explode.
Someone has to get hurt there is no other way, its either you, your wife or your mistress this is always the case. I was one of the lucky ones because despite having an 8 year affair it is only me that is left devastated. I was lucky because my mistress genuinely lost interest in me, and decided enough was enough.
I lived in sexless marriage which was my fault, to a lady who is ten times the person I am. She had no idea and its a secret I will take to my grave. So what were those 8 years like?. Thats easy to answer in return great sex you trade any decency you had, you lie to everyone, the guilt is enormous, in a long affair like mine you convince yourself your in love, but its lust or an addiction not love, men like us are not capable of true love.
You become a shadow of what you were. I can never forgive myself for what did wasting 8 years of my mistresses life where she could have found real love, being half a husband to an adoring wife. I will spend the rest of my life trying to be a better man. That will never make up for what I have done but its a start. please think long and hard before you cheat, there's not a day goes by I do not think of my other woman, and look at my wife and feel guilty beyond belief.