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I cheated on my boyfriend

Wednesday, May 4, 2016 7:02 AM by Guest Rating: +1|-5

I'm a 30 year old been dating my men for 8 years and its been like a marry go round I cheated on him and he does not understand why, his been telling me its over pushing me away until I met this guy and I cheated because we were not having sex any more fighting everyday not having a normal bond like people in love I was not in love with the guy I cheated on but I was very lonely to scared to ask my men to sleep with me cz his always not in the mode but ever seems I met this guy he change like sexwise as he was becoming so in to it but the fighting was there and he would tell me he wants me to live him and I'm old for him and all the negative thing that the other guy was not saying because with the other guywas sex talk after my men found out and he wanted me to tell him the details of witch I did but now I'm not sure weather this can forgive me or not cz I want us to work things out must i go or stay?

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Wednesday, May 4, 2016 9:29 AM

Guest

Dont decide anything yet. Telling the details will only make it worse and he will never understand why because you have damaged his ego. If it is only about sexual needs, you can work this out I suppose. The thing is, do you want to stay in this relationship too? If yes, then give him some time and assure him that you would not do it again.

Wednesday, May 4, 2016 6:48 PM

Guest

I believe you are saying you want to stay. Reconcilation is tough. It took me 2 years to recover from my wife infedility. Eventualy your boyfriend will go through the anger stage which will be touch for you to endure. My wife took a lot of abuse from me and she took it well. She gave me all her passwords, was completely transparent. She constantly told me where she was. She constantly told me she loved me. Reconcilation is not for the faint of heart. Even after years I still do not 100 percent trust my wife. We have kids and many joint assets. So we were willing to go the reconcilation route. You do not have kids or are married. It would be much easier to part ways. IF you both decide to stay, marraige counseling is a must. It will provide a safe haven for you to communicate. Good luck.

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