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Friday, July 15, 2016 4:39 PM by Guest😞 Rating: +5|-2

I have been with my fiancé for 10 years now. For 7 of those years our sex life has been pretty much non existent. At first my fiancé started using excuses like: "my parents are home", I'm scared you'll fall pregnant" and "I don't find you sexy but I do love you". We are getting married in a few weeks and all I can think about is cheating on him. I love him so much and find him attractive but have pressured him into telling me the truth. Sadly since falling into depression over the years I have gained weight and he admitted to not finding my attractive at all. He wants to marry me because he loves me saying sex isn't that important for him. He wants to be with me because of the person I am. Would it be so wrong to marry my fiancé but look into having an affair? 

 

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Sunday, July 17, 2016 2:25 PM
Guest

yes it would you would feel terrible. You need to explain that the lack of sex is affecting the relationship. Why on earth do you want to marry someone who said they are not attracted to you? Thats like saying "I love you, but I am not in love with you."  Honestly he may not care from what it sounds like and he has said sex is not important to him. It doesnt sound like you are sexually compatible so the relationship will not last.  Also I do really want to know why you want to marry him. Finally you should talk about sleeping with another man. I am normally the last person to ever say this but if you truly want to marry him you will end up sleeping with another man so you may as well do it with his blesing. but mark my words, this wont last. these relationships never do. 

 
Monday, July 18, 2016 1:31 PM
Guest

Before you get married, tell him everything that you just told us. That will really determine if you both will want to, or what you need to do beforehand to fix the situation.

 
Tuesday, July 19, 2016 6:37 AM
Guest

Hi. Thanks for sharing your story.

He wants to marry you because you are a decent, loving, beautiful, trustworthy, great person that he cannot afford not to have. The minute you cheat, you loose all that, and you become someone not worthy of having. 

You need to first check if he is cheating? Second, if you getting fitter would that make a difference. If he is cheating, then leave him and find someone else. If getting fitter is a resolution then start working on that and see if there is anything else that will cause a spark and significantly improve your sex life.

Be mature, understanding, decent, faithful but strong and determined. Do not accept low-level BS and set your standards high but accomodate him if he proves that he is worth it.

Never cheat ... It makes you worthless.

Take care of yourself.

Good luck.

 
Wednesday, July 20, 2016 11:11 AM
Mr.2Kinky

tell him you will cheat if he doesn't give u sex.  If he makes a big deal of it then don't marry him. If he acts like he doesn't care then marry him and just cheat when you want. 

 
Wednesday, August 31, 2016 11:22 PM
Guest

Why would you marry someone who doesn't find you sexy? Call it off, fast. You need love but you need sexy too. Life sucks if you live your whole life without it. I know.

 
Thursday, September 1, 2016 11:32 AM
Black Bull

Get a few well-endowed men so that at least in your wedding night you'll have an orgasm from cocks. But certainly communicate your needs to your man before you waste your life in agony.

 

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