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Wednesday, August 24, 2016 6:26 PM by Guest Rating: +3|-8

 I have been in a relationship since I was 13 I'm 23 now my husband had been my first for everything and I had never worked in my life until two years ago I met this wonderful guy Who wanted us to be more than friends at the beginning I was totally closed to the idea but the more I talked to him the more feelings I got for him so everything ended up happening between us he is also married but he is in a open marriage  this affair has been going on for a year and a couple of  months  i'm just extremely confused because he makes comments as if he wished we were more  and then he backs off

 I think I'm in love with him and even if I don't want to admit it there's a small part of me that wants more too but I will never tell him that because I am too proud and I respect  what he has with his wife.

 

 Sidenote: I had a conversation with his wife to verify that they did have a open marriage  turns  out they did but the problem is now she's not OK with it I'm not sure if I should just cut him off completely or or not

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Friday, August 26, 2016 3:04 AM
Guest

Wow you've been having an affair for over a year? That's a really difficult situation. Do you still love your husband? Do you still see a future with your husband and want more with him? If the answer is no or I don't know then maybe it's time to face the music and talk things through with him.. If it turns out that you both want different things now it might be a good idea to part ways. If it's been going on over year he deserves to at least be given the choice of whether he wants to stay in the r'ship since it sounds like you've already left? 

Not sure if the new guy wants more to be honest just going off what you've written but I guess the only way to know is to bite the bullet and ask.. If he doesn't then you can cut him off and try and work through your marriage? Best to ask because you don't want to leave with 'what ifs', it might haunt you. Good luck with whatever you decide.. Just my 2 cents :) 

 
Friday, August 26, 2016 2:25 PM
ALF

Odd that you say you respect what he has with his wife, but he doesn't respect what you have with your husband.  That should answer all your questions right there.

 
Friday, August 26, 2016 2:28 PM
ALF

Sidenote:  YOU need to respect what you have with your husband as well.

 
Tuesday, August 30, 2016 7:07 AM
Guest

Signs were there, gut wrenching instinct present. Said you think I had an affair with her. I asked who she is, he responded that I already know who she is.

Few days later, said their relationship was friends and professional ( on fire dept)

What can I believe? very short version given

 

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