Hi,

Asking your partner to get a checkup is a good thing - there are many medical conditions that can affect his performance, and some are serious. Put his health before your own pleasure, at least at this stage.

Secondly, try to concentrate on foreplay. Fingers, tongues, toys.. he can help get you off in many ways if you tell him what to do. Sex goes beyond penetration. You can also help him out.. using your hand or mouth, or both, stimulate him and tell him to let you know when he's close.. then stop and let him calm down, and start again. He might just learn to go longer.

This must be frustrating for you, but I imagine it is for him too. Men like to feel capable of pleasing their woman, and his ego must be hurt - and if you cheat, it will be devastated. 

Imagine if, when you cheat, the guy you cheat with lasts 5 seconds too...

Read the post that came seconds before mine. Now I feel like shit. See what I mean. LoLz

I didn't mean for you to use them alone, but for you to use them together. MArriage is a relationship, and that means the two of you need to relate.

Do you talk about this issue much, or do you keep it to yourselff?

Luckily for you, that 'peak age' lasts a long time, and is plenty enough time to sort things out with your husband. You don't have to rush into decisions that would end your marriage because well, you're horny.

If you're looking for excuses or permission to cheat, you won't find it from me, sorry. 

Think about the way you're speaking of your husband - like his whole worth comes down to you wanting to climax from penetration. That you'll give him a chance because you don't want to risk STDs.  That the one suggestion I had to help *him* was ignored. I think perhaps your husband's issues with lasting might be related to how you treat him. You certainly don't seem to consider his feelings in this scenario at all - even if helping him has the effect of helping you! Food for thought.

Oh i love you guest the one above this comment. Lol

For 12 years of our marriage,  yes it's been like this since. 12 years of suffering. But I  guess, i can't do anything. Just stay with him since we have kids. He is going to get check up that's what he told me.....

  Hey sex life maybe he finds you to irresistible  that he can't contain himself.  You ever thought that maybe your to much of a turn on. Don't get a big head now fuck face. Maybe  your the reason why he finishes to fast. Stop being so damn sexy. Your the problem  hot him.

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Suck him off and let him finish  then jump on his dick. Fuck everyday for a month until he gets the hang of it. You waiting  for 12 years to finally  saying something  is wrong.  Don't be a fuck face and cheat on him. Even though I think your a fuck face. You fuck face. In case  your  wondering  why I'm  calling  you fuck face is because  my literature  skills are limited  you fucking fuck face. Lol

And about the fuck face. No i am not.  I am sure you are...Lol

Yes I'm lazy. ...Lol very lazy Lol.....

You don't give enough blow jobs is what I'm saying. It sounds like he pleases himself and moves on. What should please you is pleasing him. As a woman what gets me off is when my husband does cum fast. I feel more attractive. But I get my pleasure out of pleasing him. I blow him all the time. After every ejaculations if I want more sex I blow him and he becomes numb and lasts all night

She's lazy she stays home all day and puts her energy into her workout. She's a useless wife. She's not interested in pleasing she wants to be pleased. Little does she know that when a man goes soft it's the woman's job to make it hard. I bet other women could get your husband to last longer because they are going to make him. They are going to spend ALLL night on his cock. She doesn't know how to satisfy a man that's the problem 

To guest above me. I think everyone on here has come to the conclusion that when it comes to sex she's lazy. She has to be with a man that can already do that work because she doesn't want to. I go to believe that she may to into HERSELF so there for thinks she shouldn't have to. And there are woman like that. Woman think that a man should just be capable of doing this stuff without there assistance but they are wrong. Men also suffer in silence something could be wrong with you and he's not telling you where woman are very vocal

Instead of sarcasm, try ignoring the posts that are blatantly trolling, and try to address the ones that are actually trying to offer advice and ask serious questions. 

I'd love to fuck you while your husband is in the next room.

Nice... Let me know when I can come over for that Secret Fuck.

Think about this as a possible scenario:

- He has protate cancer, and it's messing with his performance.

- You're upset because of his performance.

- He dies.

- Do you miss him, or are you happy because now you're free to find someone new?

Maybe it's not his protate, maybe it's something else. Could be a psychological issue, a medical issue, whatever. 

Maybe he doesn't die, maybe he just leaves because you're so hard to please and you think of cheating.

Substitute anything you like in the above scenario, but run it through your brain anyhow - think about what can happen, think about how you'd feel when it happens, then decide what to do about your feelings.

You're going to do what you're going to do, regardless of what anyone else says.  But consider this:  You say you have talked about this with your husband, but you offer no solutions except screwing around with someone else.  When you do eventually do that, you open the door for your husband to do the same since it's "allowed".  And he may find that sex is more lengthy and enjoyable with someone else.  It's a Pandora's Box you're playing with.  Once the demons are out, there's no putting them back.

I love sluts like you.. You need more dick than just his. 

Sexlife - I must say that I like your sense of humor!!