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Tuesday, June 21, 2016 5:38 PM by sexlife Rating: +19|-15

To start my story. I am married with kids. Husband is 5 second man oh boy. I wish he is not this way. He just touch me and he gets his orgasm. Nothing for me. I usually get mine when he licked me but sometimes, i just wish to get my orgasm from his thing.  I told him, he needs to get check up for his problem of early ejaculation. Soon, I'm going to cheat if he doesn't give me what i want. Sorry. 

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Wednesday, June 22, 2016 9:50 AM
Guest

Hi,

Asking your partner to get a checkup is a good thing - there are many medical conditions that can affect his performance, and some are serious. Put his health before your own pleasure, at least at this stage.

Secondly, try to concentrate on foreplay. Fingers, tongues, toys.. he can help get you off in many ways if you tell him what to do. Sex goes beyond penetration. You can also help him out.. using your hand or mouth, or both, stimulate him and tell him to let you know when he's close.. then stop and let him calm down, and start again. He might just learn to go longer.

This must be frustrating for you, but I imagine it is for him too. Men like to feel capable of pleasing their woman, and his ego must be hurt - and if you cheat, it will be devastated. 

Imagine if, when you cheat, the guy you cheat with lasts 5 seconds too...

 
Wednesday, June 22, 2016 9:51 AM
Jayson

Don't get sloppy and don't get caught. It really sucks being caught. You feel like shit when you thought everything was golden. One of the worst feelings ever.

 
Wednesday, June 22, 2016 9:54 AM
Jayson

Read the post that came seconds before mine. Now I feel like shit. See what I mean. LoLz

 
Wednesday, June 22, 2016 9:58 AM
sex life

Yes he bought me sex toys but I'm tired of using them. I'll give him a chance as he is my husband. To mention, we have a couple of kids but i managed to stay in a very grear shape. Lol. Well,  I'll be in competing in a bikini competition soon...wohoooo! 

 
Wednesday, June 22, 2016 10:03 AM
Guest

I didn't mean for you to use them alone, but for you to use them together. MArriage is a relationship, and that means the two of you need to relate.

Do you talk about this issue much, or do you keep it to yourselff?

 
Wednesday, June 22, 2016 10:07 AM
sex life

We talked about it of course. I used it alone because he works out of town. But soon, we'll be joining him. And i keep telling him to go to the doctor and get check up. He told me he will after we join him. I'm just in a peak age i think. 

 
Wednesday, June 22, 2016 10:37 AM
Guest

Luckily for you, that 'peak age' lasts a long time, and is plenty enough time to sort things out with your husband. You don't have to rush into decisions that would end your marriage because well, you're horny.

 
Wednesday, June 22, 2016 10:41 AM
sex life

Ok guest. Thank you for the advice. Yes of course I will not rush. I'm giving him ultimatum warning...Lol. just kidding here. I will try to be very patient since it's not good to catch diseases. Lol. 

 
Wednesday, June 22, 2016 11:10 AM
Guest

If you're looking for excuses or permission to cheat, you won't find it from me, sorry. 

Think about the way you're speaking of your husband - like his whole worth comes down to you wanting to climax from penetration. That you'll give him a chance because you don't want to risk STDs.  That the one suggestion I had to help *him* was ignored. I think perhaps your husband's issues with lasting might be related to how you treat him. You certainly don't seem to consider his feelings in this scenario at all - even if helping him has the effect of helping you! Food for thought.

 

 
Wednesday, June 22, 2016 4:45 PM
sex life

Oh i love you guest the one above this comment. Lol

 
Wednesday, June 22, 2016 4:45 PM
sex life

Oh i love you guest the one above this comment. Lol

 
Wednesday, June 22, 2016 5:27 PM
Guest

She sounds like a selfish woman. She's talking about what he can't do but I bet there's a lot of women that can do more for your husband then you can. It may not be your husband. Maybe it's you. He may not be into you sexually like you may think. Are you really turning him on. Has it ALWAYS been like this and if so why did you marry him. Oh is it because he has money and you dont. He is your financial security. Because if it was like this before you got married then I don't know what to tell you

 
Wednesday, June 22, 2016 6:26 PM
sex life

For 12 years of our marriage,  yes it's been like this since. 12 years of suffering. But I  guess, i can't do anything. Just stay with him since we have kids. He is going to get check up that's what he told me.....

 
Wednesday, June 22, 2016 6:28 PM
sex life

He doesn't want me to work. He just want me to stay home. It's really fun being at home. But it's opposite day Lol..

 
Wednesday, June 22, 2016 8:52 PM
Guest

  Hey sex life maybe he finds you to irresistible  that he can't contain himself.  You ever thought that maybe your to much of a turn on. Don't get a big head now fuck face. Maybe  your the reason why he finishes to fast. Stop being so damn sexy. Your the problem  hot him.

Advice

Suck him off and let him finish  then jump on his dick. Fuck everyday for a month until he gets the hang of it. You waiting  for 12 years to finally  saying something  is wrong.  Don't be a fuck face and cheat on him. Even though I think your a fuck face. You fuck face. In case  your  wondering  why I'm  calling  you fuck face is because  my literature  skills are limited  you fucking fuck face. Lol

 
Thursday, June 23, 2016 2:51 AM
sex life

Guest, the one above this. Ok, so suck him, let him finish and jump on his dick. But it's already soft when he is finished. Lol. I don't like soft dick.  Lol.....ok ???7

 
Thursday, June 23, 2016 2:57 AM
sex life

And about the fuck face. No i am not.  I am sure you are...Lol

 
Thursday, June 23, 2016 2:59 AM
Guest

The problem is she's lazy. What guest above you is saying is do some WORK. When he finishes blow him bad blow him and blow him he will get hard again. Then jump on. Keep repeating this cycle. Your just lazy. BLOW him constantly 

 
Thursday, June 23, 2016 3:03 AM
sex life

Yes I'm lazy. ...Lol very lazy Lol.....

 
Thursday, June 23, 2016 3:12 AM
sex life

Just kidding. I am not lazy..I workout 6 days a week, 2 to 3 hours a day. Eat super lean. Workout with him 7 nights a week at night for 10 seconds.  Lol...

 
Thursday, June 23, 2016 3:50 AM
Guest

You don't give enough blow jobs is what I'm saying. It sounds like he pleases himself and moves on. What should please you is pleasing him. As a woman what gets me off is when my husband does cum fast. I feel more attractive. But I get my pleasure out of pleasing him. I blow him all the time. After every ejaculations if I want more sex I blow him and he becomes numb and lasts all night

 
Thursday, June 23, 2016 5:34 AM
Guest

So you stay at hom and you work out, and that doesn't make you lazy. Right. Put the same amount of effort into your sex life as you do your workouts, and it might improve. Which bring up the question: what exactly do you in bed with him? Are you involved? Loving? Demanding?

 
Thursday, June 23, 2016 5:38 AM
Guest

She's lazy she stays home all day and puts her energy into her workout. She's a useless wife. She's not interested in pleasing she wants to be pleased. Little does she know that when a man goes soft it's the woman's job to make it hard. I bet other women could get your husband to last longer because they are going to make him. They are going to spend ALLL night on his cock. She doesn't know how to satisfy a man that's the problem 

 
Thursday, June 23, 2016 7:17 AM
sex life

Hahaha. You are all absolutely right!!! I love you guestssss..

 
Thursday, June 23, 2016 7:28 AM
HornDog
Sex Life: Let him cum, then work it back up. He will last longer the second time. Also, do things to really get him excited, like anal, or when you fuck let him jerk off into your mouth. This way when you have regular sex, he will last longer. Write me for more tips: [email protected]
 
Thursday, June 23, 2016 9:26 AM
Guest

They do raise a good point - if you both do oral, try this:

During foreplay, give him a blowjob until he comes.

Then, ask him to go down on you until you come, or come close it it - but keep going until he's hard again. Could be 5 minutes, could be a half hour, who knows.

Then have regular intercourse.. he'll go longer that second time, and you'll be primed for it.

Consider options like this, or anything, before just cheating.

 

 
Thursday, June 23, 2016 9:54 AM
Guest

To guest above me. I think everyone on here has come to the conclusion that when it comes to sex she's lazy. She has to be with a man that can already do that work because she doesn't want to. I go to believe that she may to into HERSELF so there for thinks she shouldn't have to. And there are woman like that. Woman think that a man should just be capable of doing this stuff without there assistance but they are wrong. Men also suffer in silence something could be wrong with you and he's not telling you where woman are very vocal

 
Thursday, June 23, 2016 10:24 AM
sex life

Hahaha thank you all! I  enjoyed reading all your delightful comments. 

 
Thursday, June 23, 2016 10:28 AM
Guest

Instead of sarcasm, try ignoring the posts that are blatantly trolling, and try to address the ones that are actually trying to offer advice and ask serious questions. 

 
Thursday, June 23, 2016 10:29 AM
Guest

Yea she into herself. Cuz she on here sounding real cocky. Your comments truly show that it's not your husbandit's you. I wouldn't be surprised if your a mean bitch and your husbandhas just been putting up with it for years. You seem like a woman with a nasty attitude. And I'm not try to be mean it's just the way your comments are coming across. If I'm wrong then tell me. Hell tell us because I think everyone hear has given great advice. All your telling us is what hes not doing. But tell us what are YOU doing for HIM sexually. Are you even sexy in bed?

 
Thursday, June 23, 2016 10:59 AM
Guest

I'd love to fuck you while your husband is in the next room.

 
Thursday, June 23, 2016 11:04 AM
sex life

For real, i really like all the different comments here. I will try them promise. Thank you.

 
Thursday, June 23, 2016 11:17 AM
Guest

Nice... Let me know when I can come over for that Secret Fuck.

 
Thursday, June 23, 2016 2:12 PM
Guest

Selfish

 
Friday, June 24, 2016 11:50 AM
Guest

Think about this as a possible scenario:

- He has protate cancer, and it's messing with his performance.

- You're upset because of his performance.

- He dies.

- Do you miss him, or are you happy because now you're free to find someone new?

Maybe it's not his protate, maybe it's something else. Could be a psychological issue, a medical issue, whatever. 

Maybe he doesn't die, maybe he just leaves because you're so hard to please and you think of cheating.

Substitute anything you like in the above scenario, but run it through your brain anyhow - think about what can happen, think about how you'd feel when it happens, then decide what to do about your feelings.

 

 
Friday, June 24, 2016 2:48 PM
Guest

you guys are getting trolled so hard lol

 
Friday, June 24, 2016 10:35 PM
ALF

You're going to do what you're going to do, regardless of what anyone else says.  But consider this:  You say you have talked about this with your husband, but you offer no solutions except screwing around with someone else.  When you do eventually do that, you open the door for your husband to do the same since it's "allowed".  And he may find that sex is more lengthy and enjoyable with someone else.  It's a Pandora's Box you're playing with.  Once the demons are out, there's no putting them back.

 
Monday, June 27, 2016 4:54 AM
Guest

Go out and find some hard dick. It's just a fuck nothing else

 
Monday, June 27, 2016 8:07 AM
Mr2Kinky

I love sluts like you.. You need more dick than just his. 

 
Saturday, July 2, 2016 3:28 AM
Santee Cooper Dublin

Even though after he cum's his thing is soft, you can start sucking it again, also tell him not to masturbate, also give oral and swallow his liquid, keep doing it, n you will start enjoying, am sure his 2nd or 3rd times might not be as quick as 5s, he must be embarrassed too... talk n try giving him oral loads ;)

 
Tuesday, July 19, 2016 1:55 PM
Guest

Sexlife - I must say that I like your sense of humor!!

 
Saturday, September 17, 2016 8:24 AM
TheBestAdvice

I think you expect too much. But at least you haven't cheated yet, so that is good. If your husband just ignored you sexually then it would be one thing, but it sounds like he is willing to satisfy you, but he can't control how long he lasts. This is much different than a husband that doesn't care  about you sexually. Nothing is ever perfect in a relationship, and if you really love someone then you can overlook a certain amount of problems. There are probably things about you that your husband doesn't like but that he overlooks because loves you. You sound a little self-centered. How do you think phage the luxury of staying home every day and working out for a couple of hours instead of working at a job. It's because your husband works hard so you can stay home. Instead of appreciating that, it causes you to resent him. Try to work on improving the person that you are. Improve yourself and you wil be happier. 

 

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