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Want to Cheat

Saturday, July 23, 2016 3:02 AM by Guest Rating: +22|-13

I have been with my husband since we were 18yrs old (now 34). We have 2 children. Lately I have been feeling trapped and taken for granted by both husband and kids. I feel extremely bored and confused as to wether I'm still in love with my husband. I sometimes find myself day dreaming about what it would be like to be single and hooking up with different men now and again- I'm still in single digits. A few months ago a friend of my husbands randomly sent me a private message on Facebook asking why my husband was no longer on Facebook. Conversation just continued and after a few weeks turned flirty. Then he enviable happened and the texts turned dirty. This continued for a while but abruptly stopped for about 3 weeks. Then out of the blue this other guy contacted me again and it was as though we picked up were we left off- straight back to the dirty talk. He has a wife and child and works away on weekdays so we send explicit snapchat pics and vids with ease. We have spoken about meeting up for sex and he said he really wants to, as do I, when he doesn't text me I didn't myself wishing like crazy for him to do so. He's got in my head and I really want him. Some of the things he says makes me think he feels something other than sex but then he goes quiet for a few days which confuses me. I just know I'm going to cheat on my husband sometime soon wether or not is with his friend or some random guy. I feel the only way to get past how I'm feeling is by seeing what else is out there. I'm fully aware of how his may come across and that I'm a terrible person but I just can't help how i feel. I need sex with someone new. 

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Monday, July 25, 2016 1:20 AM
Hellcat

Hi I loved reading your story and I found myself thinking that I feel the same way as you do. I am a male who is married and has kids. My mind has been wandering for a few monts now and I can't stop thinking about having sex with other women. The thought of cheating really turns me on.

 

I'd love to chat with you further if you are interested.Please drop me a line on my email. xx

 
Monday, July 25, 2016 1:29 AM
Hellcat

Apologies. Please see the change in my email address

 
Monday, July 25, 2016 10:09 AM
Mr2kinky

You need to be sexually satisfied. If your hubby can't do it he should allow you to fuck other men.. If he refuses, you should cheat. The fact that you're considering it with a married family man is even hotter.  Feel free to email me as well. I'm married and actually alliw my wife to fuck other guys when she wants. 

 
Monday, July 25, 2016 10:19 AM
Guest

I too let my wife sleep with other men, but married men only. The attachment is only for sex. Currently my 38 year old wife is having a sexual affair with her 55 year old boss. He is married with kids and grandkids. You should ask him first before you cheat, he may  allow it

 
Monday, July 25, 2016 2:50 PM
JustMyself

I have to say I've been feeling similarly for the last few months. I'm 34 and married, no kids and been with my husband for 20 years... I've never been with another man. ūüė©

Lately I've found myself wicked drawn to my 62 year old co-worker. Yeah, he's old enough to be my dad or grandpa, but he's built, funny, friendly and kinda married. I don't want to wreck his marriage, since it's kinda new like mine... We waited until a few years ago to make it official, but I can't get over HOW MUCH I really want him. I find myself thinking about him all day (and night). He's hands on, talks close and makes a lot of eye contact... Which is extremely HOT. But that could just be him. I just wish he'd make the first move. If he did, I'm sure I'd go for it. We have plenty of time and places at or near work... I think he enjoys my company, his wife doesn't speak much English and we have a lot in common.

 
Monday, July 25, 2016 2:55 PM
Bravo

'I can't help how I feel' is a myth you tell yourself when you've made the decision to check-out of your relationship with your husband, and invest your energy elsewhere. Maybe it's a mid-life crisis, maybe you're just emotionally still a teenager in a growing body and lifestyle - that doesn't matter. You're choosing to put your energy, imagination, effort and emotions elsewhere, and that's what's helping you feel how you feel. You can help it. Have you even talked to your husband about any of this? See? When you're not acting like a married grown-up, you will stop feeling like one. When you stop acting interesting and romanitic in your marriage, you will stop feeling that way. Acting like a helpless victim is just an excuse. Time to put on the big girl panties and take care of your family.

 
Tuesday, July 26, 2016 9:54 AM
Guest

i agreed with Last Comment of Bravo.....whatever happened to your vows...in sick and health???U r married for a reason...Talk to ur husband or wife...and if they said it ok....then go for it...

But for me...No way...

 
Wednesday, July 27, 2016 6:09 PM
Guest

Alot of married men secretly want their wives to fuck other men, strictly sex not a relationship. alot of women cant seperate sex an love like men can. you might drop hints an see where his head is at an see if hes ok with you fucking other men. It might rekindle what youve lost.

 
Thursday, July 28, 2016 9:42 AM
Guest

You guys encouraging her to cheat are pigs.  No it's not hot and encouraging her isn't helping.  As a guy I'd hate for my wife to ask if she can experiment, fuck, or flirt with another guy.  "Mrs" stop the conversation and get your head out of a romance novel.

 
Friday, July 29, 2016 1:07 AM
Guest3

Many men and women do complain of such sign & symptoms which is Known case after 7 years of marriage!

you "both" need to take a break & change your routine boring life 

keep attention on your little family & try to arrange for a trip outside your country to make a change in the routine

My advice if you want to flirt it is better to do flash relationship with someone very far a way from his friends circle 

 

 
Saturday, July 30, 2016 12:45 PM
Guest

This is why highschool sweethearts dont work out. I'd suggest just talking it out with him, maybe you can get him agree to an open relationship for a while so you can see other guys? Of course you'd have to be okay with him fucking other girls, but then if you weren't okay with it then you'd be a hypocrite.

 
Monday, August 1, 2016 2:42 AM
Guest

What you feel is normal for people who have been together for a long time. You have just about crossed the line so you had better think hard if this is really what you want to do. There is a good chance you are going to fall for this guy and eventually your marriage will fail. You'll get caught and probably divorced. Then have to fight over everything including your children who will suffer the most. You may not care right now because all you can think about is this other guy but I guarantee you'll care when reality hits and you realize it wasn't worth it. I know because my wife did what you want to do and after 10 years being divorced she is still miserable, broke, alone and trying to get me back. It ain't worth it...believe me

 
Monday, August 1, 2016 9:02 AM
cynthia

It is stupidity to risk your marriage for a 8 minute thrill.  If you cant control yourself, I implore you to discuss it with your husband.  And if you give in to this foolish notion of an affair ; you will lose your husband and most likely end up with nobody.  Tread carefully

 
Tuesday, August 2, 2016 1:11 AM
jordan

OK just start doing what u dream of and that is sex with other men. Talk and dress like a whore and get fucked

 
Tuesday, August 2, 2016 5:29 AM
Guest

I've been married for 10 years since I was 18. I agree there are some boring and stale moments with my husband, but that's normal and it will pass. And sometimes I'm feeling unappreciative taking care of three kids and him but I would never cheat on him.
Over the year I've learned to not hold back my grudges or feelings and say what's on my mind, mostly pretty bluntly, and it works. Men don't pick up on hints or passive agressive behavior. If you're feeling bored and unappreciative, TELL YOU HUSBAND. Be straightforward about your feelings. Figure out WHY the relationship got boring and HOW it can be fixed.

 
Saturday, August 6, 2016 4:53 AM
ALF

I concur with the guest above.  Try fixing your relationship rather than doing something that is unfixable.

 
Monday, August 8, 2016 7:50 PM
Lucasred

Has it occurred to any of you that you are truly dishonorable people that don't deserve the families you have. Alley cats have more integrity than the people writing these comments. How would you like to be the unsuspecting spouse that Believed in the vows you Both took, only to find that the person they thought they knew and loved didn't exist and in their place is some scum that would trade your lives together for a cheap lay. I hope all your spouses find out what terrible trash they have married before they waste anymore of their lives on a lie.

Have a nice day and enjoy the betrayal your are about to commit. 

 
Tuesday, August 9, 2016 8:50 AM
Only takes a few seconds to think

too many people in life take the easy option. The simple fact is life as a whole gets repetitive and boring. Doesn't mean that you should change who you are and your values and morals to make life more exciting. You would just try and do something different or more non routine. You wouldn't become a prostitute or gangster because you wanted thrills . Same as love. Don't go against everything you believe in and worked for just to spice yourself up and explore fantasies that everyone naturally has. Cheating says so much about your lack of character and creativity. 

 

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