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I cheated on my wife

Wednesday, September 7, 2016 3:02 AM by Guest Rating: +1|-5

I am in mid 40s, married to love of my life & blessed with two beautiful kids.life was good to me & we had everything we could ask for. I changed jobs from Australia to Asia. Asia is a beautiful place and I loved working here. All my colleagues were nice & warm. Like any other marriage, even mine was perfect marriage but I worked towards it. And we were ok I think. Vacation time & my wife with kids would go back to Australia & I was alone. I never went astray though many young gals threw them self on me.

But there was one lady in particular who caught my fascination. She was a young mom who lived in the same apartment complex as we did. She was a single mother & undergoing through divorce. We would only meet in lifts, car parks or during our weekly grocery shopping. It was lil better than hi/hello n nothing more than that, though in my mind I had many things I would love to do to her, from making her scream my name to simply holding her hands... One day I almost blurted out my mind how I feel about & for her. Now I feel like I have cheated on my wife as I nurture strong feelings for someone else other than my wife. I wonder if this feeling would die once I bed her.. But i would not dare such thing, which can put our life at crossroads.. I have no clue how to deal wit this attraction I have towards her.. 

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Wednesday, September 7, 2016 2:15 PM
Guest

You didn't cheat yet, but you are about to cheat so be careful, because cheating can lead to a divorce.

 
Wednesday, September 7, 2016 2:26 PM
ALF

You haven't done anything yet so the first thing you need to do is cut off all contact with the other woman...PERIOD!  No more shopping trips, no more rides in the elevator, no more parking lots...NOTHING.  If you see her out and about, walk the other way.  If she says says hello or good morning, keep it at that and keep walking.  She'll get the hint soon enough.  If you walk through that door, you'll be walking into a world of hurt.  And there is no going back.

Since this issue is about you, get yourself into individual counseling so you can get unplugged from this.  If it comes out that there are issues in the marriage behind this, get into couples counseling. Your alternative is to let your wife know what's going on.  I'm quite sure you won't like the way she wants to handle it.  Good luck.

 
Wednesday, September 7, 2016 6:50 PM
Guest

Bang that Asian MONKEY !!!

 
Wednesday, September 7, 2016 7:05 PM
TheBestAdvice

Try to resist the temptation. How would you feel if your wife cheated. The thought has probably crossed her mind, but she hasn't cheated. You are a man. You are stronger than she is. Prove it. Resist the temptation. It's ok to has the fantasy, but anything you do with the other girl, even just a conversation is leading you down the road to cheating. 

 
Thursday, September 8, 2016 12:21 AM
MrAnonymus

Ok guest banging monkeys wtflip wierdo!

But guy well done for not acting on impulse with this woman. Avoid it you have a family etc that's more precious than skirt. Get some alone time with the wife and role play if you need to but just don't stray

 
Thursday, September 8, 2016 6:52 AM
Guest

Whenever thoughts of the other woman happen, go fuck your wife.

 

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