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Much younger guy.

I cheated on my husband

Saturday, July 9, 2016 11:54 AM by Guest Rating: +94|-71

My husband leaves months at a time for his job. I have never cheated on him, but I feel what I'm doing is really close to it. I'm a cosmetologist and well I meet guys all day long. I am 32 years old the man who came in is 25. We hit it off the day I cut his hair so he asked for my business card. He started texting me and he is very sweet. He's the type of guy who sends flowers (and he did but I left them at the salon) I love my husband very much but he's not the romantic type and I clearly miss all that. The new guy knows I have someone but is willing to wait until I leave him. I have not met him outside of the salon, but I am very tempted to do so. I don't think I can bring myself to do it.  Every time my husband calls me it seems like I'm not even interested in talking to him. I feel devastated. 

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Saturday, July 9, 2016 3:57 PM
Guest

Lady everything your husband does is for you. I'm sure he's the bread winner. If your husband can be patient with you I'm sure you can do the same for him. What do your vows mean to you. And maybe your husband is cheating on you. Hell he is away for months at a time. How long can a man go without sex

 
Saturday, July 9, 2016 5:52 PM
Guest

First you have to decide if you want to be married or if you want to be an old slut who occasionally gets fucked by some guy. This other guy just wants to fuck you because you are married and easy.  If you want to be married and you feel there is something lacking: TALK TO YOUR HUSBAND ABOUT IT! If that doesn't work, get used to it or get a divorce! Maybe you are bored because you don't have kids? No marriage can go on as a purely romantic relationship forever - a family is the natural evolution of a marriage. If you have kids, don't cheat on them! 

 
Saturday, July 9, 2016 6:50 PM
ALF

Lady, you've already cheated on your husband.  You say this guy texts you and sends you flowers, yet you have done nothing to discourage his conduct.  And you say you love your husband very much.  You've already begun an emotional relationship with the man, and it won't be long before it becomes physical.  Face the fact that you are wanting something more to happen.  It never ceases to astound me.  Why, in all of God's green goodness, don't women talk to their husbands if they feel something is amiss in their marriage rather than spread their legs for the first swinging dick that shows interest in them.  The way you feel now is nothing compared to the outcome when you and young man finally hook up.

 
Saturday, July 9, 2016 7:34 PM
Guest

   You already  made up your mind by accepting  the guys advances.  Go ahead and destroy  your life with a boy who only views you as his next piece of  ass. Women Always fall in love with the little  moments not realizing  the one who truly   loves her always works for the big moments that last a life time. If you  can't be with someone  who leaves for long periods  at a time then leave him so he can  be happy with someone who can

 
Saturday, July 9, 2016 9:14 PM
Guest

Judging by what you're saying, our husband might actually be better off without you...

 
Saturday, July 16, 2016 7:52 AM
Guest

"The new guy knows I have someone but is willing to wait until I leave him." How would you know that unless you have walked down a few steps intio cheating. You have, at the least, mentally cheated while waiting to see if you are goingb to finish it with physical cheating. GFlad you are not my wife. You clearly left out a lot in your story.

 

PS You, most likely, are just going to be another notch on the new guys belt.

 
Monday, July 25, 2016 6:12 PM
Guest

Just go get fucked on the side and share the details. Be that little slut you always wanted to be. Believe me, getting fucked on the side is way more intense than the same old routine.3

 
Tuesday, July 26, 2016 12:12 PM
Guest

you will cross the line  and once you do you will  be a slut and whore  and there will be other men that you will let fuck you.   you are a whore in the making

 
Wednesday, July 27, 2016 9:07 PM
Guest

This is so selfish it's incredible. Give him some nice head and warch the romance flow right out of him. It's easy to receive, but it takes a real women to give.

 
Wednesday, July 27, 2016 11:06 PM
Guest

Oh my goodness people are being really aggressive and unnecessarily vulgar.  I am asuming you are struggling and you have posted this in search for advice not insults.  It is hard having a partner away but you need to remember its hard for your partner too. If you are unhappy you should consider leaving him but don't do it on the promise of this other guy. It might not last. If what you want is permission to cheat without feeling guilty it wont be easy,  people take it personally and angrily as you can see. Maybe you and your husband could come. to an agreement while he is away, but remember it goes two ways.  Just imagine all the different outcomes and try and workout how you would feel if the roles were reversed.  Its ok to have a crush, its actually kind of fun but taking it anywhere else is a whole new ball game. Goodluck and just try to be fare but remember. It is your life after all 

 
Sunday, July 31, 2016 9:36 AM
Guest

People are always going to react with the same "do good and nothing else" attitude, but sometimes morals are not the answer.
You have clearly been affected by this young guy and it could be the "young guy" issues that you are feeling good about.
Do you know that this guy will react favorably to you if you return his attention??
Well here is my advice, and this is going to be different from all other the others. Consider how you are going to feel in years to come. Are you going to keep thinking how it would have felt to have gone to bed with this young guy? These thoughts alone could ruin your future life with your husband. So why not go out for a meal with him and find out what he is like, get him to take you to a nice hotel and let him take you up to his room. Let things move and and when you are both naked in bed with his cock deep inside you making love, think how it feels and enjoy it to orgasm. Then go home and think again about your future. If there is enough love left for your husband, you will know now and it will be easy to make the decision to stay with him or end the marriage sooner and never have to endure all the What Iffs. It is my guess that you will be satisfied that whilst you enjoyed the fuck with the young lad, it will not be enough to cause you to think that it would be best to end the marriage. Then put it behind you, phone the young land and thank him for a lovely evenin, but that you wont be seeing him again. Then loom forward to welcoming your husband home, tell him nothing and get on with your lives together.

 
Tuesday, August 2, 2016 6:51 PM
Guest

hoebucket problems... death do us part, but apparently 2 months at a time is the same thing. i am glad i read these stories, the main reason why i will never, ever, get married.

 
Saturday, August 6, 2016 12:10 PM
Guest

Two comments up... That's awful advice... Go chest on your husband to see if you like it and if it's worth staying with him... Then don't tell him... That's just selfish... People need to just start talking about open relationships... It would make everyone's loves easier. 

 
Monday, August 15, 2016 7:16 PM
Sarah

Honey, go get him. I've been cheating on my husband for the past 5 months with much younger men I meet at work or on the town. I'm 43 years old and living the dream with younger partners. The sex has never been better. Love swallowing and giving head.

 
Tuesday, August 16, 2016 1:26 AM
Guest

 Yes Sarah good job thats great advice. Decide people you claim  to love because hey what's better then that. As long as your happy and he doesn't  know you will be fine. Unless you get an std and pass on to your man you are GOODūüĎĆ.  Some people  really need to stay away from marriage. It's all about them  and what they need. Consider  this, maybe  yall all  ot that great in bed. Maybe you don't  show affection. Maybe you are the problem. What's  the fuck is wrong with people. You can't possibly  believe in a God.

 
Tuesday, September 13, 2016 8:06 PM
Guest

Of course it's easy to fall in love with some new, cute guy who compliments you, pays attention to you, looks good, smells good, has a cute haircut, but that's because you don't have to see the hair on his back, or the shit stains in his underwear, or how he farts for tenminutes in the morning before he gets out of bed, or doesn't clip his toenails and they dig into your shins in bed. A new guy doesn't do those things because he is on his best behavior and HE IS TRYING TO WIN YOUR HEART/MIND/BODY. But once he catches you, it'll only be a short while before HE starts to relax and he, too, will lose his romantic edge and just become...himself.  Here is a very powerful piece of advice for you:  When you're wearing rose-colored glasses, all the red flags just look like flags!

Forget this kid, and go back and work on your marriage. Insist on a date night once a wekk where you go out just like when you were a new couple, and work on that marriage. You are young, and you can fix it. Now do it!!

 
Tuesday, September 13, 2016 10:07 PM
Guest

Sarah  How many men have fucked you since you have been married.

 

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