So me and my husband have been married for 4 years and have two kids 12 and 10. It our marriage is not doing well. He has cheated on me twice and doesn't find me attractive anymore. I've put up with it so I don't have to go with all the burdens of divorce. So one day at work I met my new employee ( I'm and advertising V.P.) and we start to hit it off. He's a recent college graduate, funny, and very handsome. I think I started to get attracted to him after we start talking about our relationships. Surprisingly he just went threw a break up because of cheating. So one night after work we go to a bar and we start to get a little tipsy and I actually try to kiss him. After I realized what I was doing and left to go home. On Monday we see each other again and I talk to him in my office we talked out what hapend that night and we agreed not to do it again but then after a long conversation we start to make out. Later we started going on dates but we haven't had sex yet. Now that I think about it my husband has been very unfaithful and I've put up with his shit for to long. But then again I'm afraid what my boss will think or how my family will be affected. I really like this guy but I don't want truoble. Any advice?