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My wife cheated ,I don't know what to do

My wife cheated on me

Monday, April 13, 2015 2:11 PM by jose Rating: +10|-8

I've been with my wife for 10 years 5 living together with 2 beautiful lil girls. I think I new we had a good relationship, yes like any other relationships. We had our arguments our flights even though all of that I never lost the love I have with her. I recently found out she is cheating, I found out by looking at her phone, and it was the most nasty feeling I've ever felt, I couldn't help it an confronted her right away, I left the house right away I dint want to talk or to see anyone. I talk to her to now what was that about or what she wanted to do. She says she still loves me but that she is confused and that she wants time....... what should I do???????

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Friday, May 1, 2015 12:23 PM

Talk to a Lawyer. make plans for what will more than likely happen (Divorce)

If you think you can forgive and let it go try to work it out.

But one thing is for sure find out why it happened and what your faults are in the relationship that way you wont repeat them again in this one or your next relationship.

I am not saying anything is your fault. Cheating should never happen. but women seem to do it for a diffrent reason than guys.

Sunday, May 10, 2015 6:53 AM

Have a dignity and get rid off

Monday, May 11, 2015 3:33 AM

it going to be a long road for the both of you. she is confuse and she dont not know who to choice. right now she is not bonded to this person. that bond will last a life time. will will not change her feeling or change her emotion . but you can change you. make yourself a better man. go to the gym work out. pickup a hobby or two. go to IC to talk it out. if the OM is married go tell his wife. like i said i going to me a long road.

Saturday, May 23, 2015 10:16 AM

YOU should leave her!!! The problems with cheaters is they will do it again! But the next time they will hide it better! Someone who love you at least as eqal as themselfes wouldn´t pull your heart out of the back of your chest! And even if you can forgive her you will never forget and things will never be like before! This will eat you up slowly everytime you see her or spend time with her or thinking about her.

Tuesday, May 26, 2015 3:16 PM

I think you should divore her. Sorry to be so blunt but she cheated on you! Nothing excusses that fact and I mean nothing. If you take her back that only makes it possible for her to do it again.

Sunday, July 26, 2015 5:40 PM

Remember one thing my friend cheating is not a mistake it a choice that she had made, i would advise you to use that as an argument, and get your two daughter with you and move away in another states

i know how hard its is inside, but dedicate your life to your daughters remember she be happy you be happy atleast that will be the last thing in the world that is from you and had never really che ated you 

sorry to say so but it a reality, (Keep the smile visit the world it big the day you will die this is when you be really happy and move on .

Saturday, August 1, 2015 2:41 PM

Ash that is stupid advice.  You shouldn't lose parental rights for cheating! 

Monday, August 3, 2015 2:40 PM

Ash, you can't up and move kids out of state. You need consent from both parents. I'm from Michigan and my ex wife is from Minnesota. Just before I filed for divorce from my wife, she kept telling me that she was going to take the kids and move back to Minnesota (we were, and still are, living in Michigan). I told her no, that if she wants to go back to Minnesota that's fine, but she did not have permission to take the kids. She argued saying that they were her children too, and that she could take them if she wanted. So she packed their bags and attempted to leave so I called the police. I explained to the police everything and he went to her and said that if she left the state she would be charged with kidnapping, and if she didn't keep me informed of their whereabouts even within the state she could be charged and it could make things worse as far as custody in the future.


During the divorce proceedings, my ex asked the judge if she could take the kids and move back to Minnesota. The judge asked if I would have a problem with it and I said yes, because this is their home, their school is here, they have family here and I'm here. So the judge denied her request and said that neither one of us can live no more than 100 miles, or maybe it was 80 miles, from each other.


So Ash, don't tell people to take their kids out of state. It can cause a world of hurt for them in the long run.

Saturday, September 26, 2015 11:31 AM

MAN.... there is no reason to stay , just be an alpha man and don't get fool

Thursday, October 1, 2015 2:03 PM
The Bitchbuster

Yes Jose, you really need to get rid of this lying, cheating skank!  Also, make every attempt at getting sole custody of your 2 daughters, move on and find a lady who truly loves and appreciates you, and enjoy your life! 

Saturday, September 17, 2016 8:34 AM

I know that this is an old post and that you've probably resolved this by now. For anyone else reading this, you need to understand what a woman means when she says she is confused and needs time to work things out. What she means is that you are not her first choice. She is trying to work things out with some other guy. If she can't work it out with him then she might come back to you.  Since you know you are not her first choice then you would be crazy to take her back, because she will dump you at the first opportunity. 


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