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My wife cheated on me with the neighbour

My wife cheated on me

Sunday, October 11, 2015 2:50 AM by Guest Rating: +95|-60

Hello,my name is Tom.Me and my wife Ashley have been married for 3 years now.I'm 30 and she's 34.Our age gap has always been an issue.Either that or our different personalities have always caused our marital problems.Overall,we've never been happily married.The first year of our marriage was bearable though.The other 2 have been a struggle.It was right after our honeymoon when we realized that getting married was a huge mistake.We started facing a lot of trivial problems and we just couldn't pull through as a couple which resulted in us arguing on a daily basis.We argued about whose fault it was about something or why one of us didn't cook on that particular day or who should do most of the housework considering the other one was busy etc.Things just weren't working out for us so we decided to divorce but when I actually threatened to call a lawyer when I found one,my wife literally snatched the phone off my hands,threw it away,hugged me and started begging me to give our marriage one more shot because she still loved me.I remember that moment all too well.We were both crying.At that particular moment I was the happiest I'd ever been since we got married because I knew she loved me yet I was very confused because despite being sad she was acting very weird.She was explaining to me how much she loved me and how horrible she was and so on and was pretty much putting herdelf down.At first,I thought it was because the emotions she was experiencing were overwhelming but later on that day after we forgave each other for everything and agreed to start over my neighbor greeted me and asked me something quite strange just as I was getting in my car for work.He said I quote:"How's wifey doing?" and then gave me a DVD and told me to watch it.I was shocked because i barely knew the guy.He said it had to do with cars-my area of expertise(as I'm a mechanic).I merely said Ok and took off.Long story short when I played the DVD on my computer in the evening I saw my wife being secretly recorded having sex with the neighbor in the dining room.Everything made sense at that time.At that moment I knew why my wife was acting like that the other day.Not only did they have unprotected sex but what hurt me the most was that my wife submitted to that guy and seemed so enthusiastic to do all those dirty things that they did while i was away,stuff me and her never did,even when we were on our honeymoon,which was the most erotic part of our marriage.I'm not gonna get into detail but they had anal sex,he fucked her literally everywhere.There was a lot of dirty talk especially when she was giving him a blowjob.She even let him cum on her face.And then came the worst part which is what was said afterwards.When I heard what my wife said i felt like my heart was being impaled with a knife.She said I quote: "Oh wow,woow,I'm covered!" and started giggling.Then the guy asked: "What would you do if your husband was here right now?" to which my wife,after a short moment of silence replied: "I would give 'im a kiss" and started laughing in an evil,mischievous way and then got back to blowing him making yummy noises around his cock.Then as I watched them get dressed she took a spoon,scooped up some cum and basically ate it in front of him.Then she said: "You know what,I'm not gonna brush my teeth,I'm gonna make out with him." and started giggling again and then thanked him for being a "good neighbor".It really turns out she didn't know she was being recorded.Now our neighbor is threatening to show my coworkers and families as well as hers the DVD unless we don't pay him 3000 dollars.It's crazy,I know.My wife says she's sorry,even offered to pay and also "make it up to me for the rest of my life".She says she cheated because she didn't feel loved due to our constant bickering.I didn't feel very loved either but I didn't cheat.I really don't know what to do.Divorce her or not and I'm not even sure if that guy won't show our close people the video anyway.

Tags: Blowjob; Divorce; Neighbor; Video;

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Monday, October 12, 2015 1:56 PM
Guest

IF your story is true..You should have been long gone by now. Ignoring the fact she gave another man something that ONLY you should be given all the while denying it to you, the reality is she decided that the hurt caused to you by her actions was worth the expierence. Do you realy think she'll not make the same decision again if she learns that you won't leave her over it? Best you can do is make her understand that infidelty ends the relationship and perhaps her NEXT husband won't have to deal with it. As for the video, let her deal with it. Personlly, she should call the police I'm pretty sure what the neighbor did was completely illegal.

 
Friday, October 23, 2015 12:50 PM
Guest

Did you enjoy wayching her fuck him and saying all those things while fucking him? If you did your more of an idiot then what i thought

 
Tuesday, November 10, 2015 7:16 PM
Guest

She is a real bitch....just leave her to leave the life she prefers...

 
Saturday, November 14, 2015 6:34 PM
Guest

Two very simple things you should do.

1. You should call the cops, tell them about the neighbor extoring you for money.

2. Leave your cheating wife because instead of trying to fix the marraige, she made an excuse to have sex with someone else.

 
Saturday, November 28, 2015 1:35 PM
Guest

It is more difficult for you to do what you should do if you really love your wife but you have to consider what kind of future might be lying ahead in this relationship - I had an errant wife who cheated just before we wed and it continued after we were hitched - I caught her she denied it, then she owned up and I still do not know why, or what she did in total no details at all. I went into depression and started reading playboy and stuff like that because I felt betrayed. In retaliation she withheld sex and in the next 42 years ( yes I stayed & she has cheated since) we were intimate less than 200 times. A marriage NO! It has been a living hell but somehow I love her but would never do this again : 

my advice would be to put papers in place to seperate and divorce

Issue proceedings against your neighbour for blackmail and extortion

publicise to you friends, your relatives on both sides, co- workers, the shocking behaviour of your neighbour highlighting a warning to them to avoid contact with this person who cannot be trusted

get publication rights for the dvd and publish it through the Internet - your not in it so then your ex wife and this guy will have to deal with the issue and you make the money.

then find someone to love and trust  - good luck 

 

 

 
Wednesday, December 2, 2015 1:44 PM
Guest

Im sorry to say but i believe your story is complete bullshit. I mean come on man, whats with the whole 'cum on face/spoonful' bs, if it really were true i doubt very much your emotions would allow you to simply include details like that in your posting. Also whats upwith the whole 'i would kiss him, im not gonna brush my teeth and im gonna make out with him' bs. If any of that were even remotely true i doubt very much that you would be contemplating staying with her because she would be a sick, evil and twisted bitch and no one in their right mind would be able to look beyond that. Anyhow I rate your story here a 2/10. Limited imagination, boring and non-sensible. Your one sick puppy buddy!!!

 
Wednesday, February 10, 2016 11:46 AM
Guest

Drop her, like yesterday.  

 
Tuesday, March 1, 2016 7:43 AM
Guest

Fake story. Dont believe a word of it.

 
Friday, March 25, 2016 1:59 PM
Guest

can I get the dvd?

 
Wednesday, March 30, 2016 2:59 PM
Guest

I think you married my ex..?

 
Friday, April 8, 2016 9:13 AM
Guest

Let her to fuck. You als ofuck hardly. Enjoy her.Say her dont miss me. and let her to understand your side. Then u throw her.

 
Tuesday, April 26, 2016 5:40 AM
Guest

Fake fucking story man. Why waste the time writing this. 

 
Tuesday, May 17, 2016 5:14 AM
Guest

Leave. Simple. Man up bro

 
Saturday, June 25, 2016 9:36 AM
Guest

If tis story is true, the answer is simple: D.I.V.O.R.C.E. she never even loved u proper.....

 
Thursday, June 30, 2016 4:31 PM
Guest

This story is a fabrication.  It doesn't ring true.  Only a self-lathing person would stay with someone like that and no one would hand a neighbor a video of himself fucking that man's wife and not be expecting a bullet in the brain.

So, yourstory is immature bullshit, but I only hope that one day your fat, ugly woman does much the same to you, because you really deserve it. You're are obviously a used car salesman.

 
Saturday, July 2, 2016 12:08 PM
Guest

I love slut wife stories. 

 

 
Sunday, July 31, 2016 6:23 PM
Barbara

I am inclined to believe this story is either fabricated or grossly exaggerated! Why would any REAL man allow himself to be whipped like a bitch by their neighbor? It might be embarrassing for him to have her cheating exposed - as among most guys it means the husband is not "man enough." The extreme  detail of the emotionally painful sexual acts shows he's either a voyeur/cuckold seeking attention; or he's making it up as they go along. Who has an affair with ANYONE and either records or makes a video of it, or allows the same to be created? Such evidence would be the most damning in a  divorce case orthe husband's lawsuit against the neighbor in an "alienation of affection, coercion or a seduction by trick or device" lawsuit. 

All women have deeply concealed sexual fantasies, just like men. Sometimes all it takes to start something sexual is for a "key event" to occur that suddeny unlocks those fantasies or creates a situation that is too hard to resist. I had a client with whom I discussed her regretful affair witha man who was supposed to be her husband's best friend. Him being at their house often, disarmed her husband's defensive instincts and he was acknowledgably blind to what was happening. She described herself as one who would never cheat on her husband. She was a virgin when they met and she always felt her sex life was great and fulfilling. 

The key event to crossing the line came when her husband's best friend "XXX" stopped by to say goodbye to her husband as he left on a five day business trip. XXX was a contractor and he agreed to help out a friend with repair work at solely material costs. Most people would ask themselves and the friend why he wouldn'twant to be paid for his work, as that's how he supports his own family. Not her husband. The poor guy was blind or in denial that anything could happen. After an afternoon of work the wife offered him dinner. During dinner he asked if he could soak in their Jacuzzi to rest his sore muscles. She agreed and after watching him out the window and pacing because she knew anything could affect her marriage. She eventually put on a bikini and joined him in the hot tub.

They were in there for about an hour when he said he was done and going to get out. Their conversation was nothing sexual or flirtatious at all. When XXX stepped from the pool, it was the first time she saw he was partially erect and was in her words, "astonished" at how big his penis was. As he toweled off he began doing a "towel change" to cover himself, but she said, "You don't have to hide that thing from me."  They both laughed and ofcourse, he dropped the towel. She had never seen a man who had no pubic hair and she liked it. She asked him how he shaved without cutting "things." He showed her how he lifted it and pulled outward so he could slide a razor. The conversation and him touching himself in front of her made him fully erect. Her response to him was, "That thing's huge XXX." She said it was almost magnetic when she stepped from the hot tub and had to touch and hold it. He looked at her and said, "Now what?" She essentially humiliated her husband by saying, "I've never even seen one this big let alone touched one! I like it."

That was followed by kisses and any thoughts of her husband left her mind. She said, "I could put my mouth on it if you want." Without waiting for a response she leaned over and took him into her mouth. she had him sit in a chair and- in her words, "worshipped his cock for almost a half hour." She told me the sole reason for  her touching him and eventually performing oral sex on him was because the size of his erect penis just brought out something inside of her that made her just want it.  A very poor excuse for infidelity and the hurtful damage it can cause!

I have counseled many women and couples over the last 15 years and almost every women (when interviewed alone) said that as a woman the size of a large erection that is visually appealing is almost impossible to turn down or let walk away. She said she realized the considerable size difference between XXX and her husband was something that overpowered her. It is a sad reality that the size of a man's erection is completely out of his control, but women prefer a visually exciting and a powerfully "rock hard" penis over most "average" sized men. There are way more average penises out there than there are impressively large ones, so most women fall in love and just accept the package that comes with the man. All the men I interviewed without their wives present felt they were good to very good in bed and their erect penises were always "above average." It is professionally painfulto hear that same man's wife say that he is not as sexually excitingas they would like and/or their husband's penis was small, too small or not enough girth to give them the friction a woman feels. Yes, I always counseled all of them to be more assertive and honest about their sexual wants, but NEVER EVER tell a man his erection is not big enough!

XXX enjoyed oral sex from her and for the first time in her life, she allowed him to ejaculate into her mouth. She hesitated but he lifted her chin and looked at her saying, "Well?" She was conflicted but she swallowed or ingested (whichever you reader prefer) his semen and she felt immediately connected to him. They had sexual intercourse twice that evening and every evening for the next four days. She rationalized how she was "just helping him out" by never having sex in their marital bed. The floor and couch were workable enough that she was able to move and flex her pelvis in a way that she could feel he had run out of room inside her and gave her several posterior and anterior fornix orgasmsthat she had never experienced before. Those orgasms combined with XXX's sometimes painfully large erection, created a sense of "addiction" for her. Their affair continued on for almost 10 months before XXX relocated.

My client did not have any desire to find another lover and she was then frustrated by her husband's inability to recreate the sexual excitement and dominance that she and most women love. Yes men, we want to feel taken by you. Feel your weight and the sense of being pinned to the bed from the inside, while also feelinghow much we love you. I have seen her occasionally over the last 9 years and her marriage is still strong. She finally lost the drive she felt for XXX and his large erection and was perfectly content with her home and husband. She ameliorated her guilt with loving care for her husband and never told him. They have not seen XXX since then. I know all men who are cheated on are pained, hurt, feeling emasculated and their trust has been shattered. Their personal image of their marriage, love, sexual ability and their partner is changed forever. Many men can work through it all, but most cannot. I have never had a client or even heard of a man who so detailed the sexual acts and his wife's purported excitement and engagement in sexual acts she refuses with him.

Men with a cuckold fetish and an agreeable spouse or other are mental masochists who enjoy torturing themselves with the pain of watching or assisting in his wife's infidelity. Only then will men usually find positive delight in being emotionally shattered byconvincing himself that his wife is better than he is and she deserves a "superior lover."  Interestingly enough, most "cuckold marriages" actually seem to last until the excitement has burned itself out or either party is just finished with the emotional highs and lows. People who write failed erotica by trying to convince the reader that he is a victim are acting out the humiliation they need but do not receive. aside from the weird sexual angle f his writing, it seems that despite common sense and reality, once her knew of the affair, that he would allow himself tobe extorted without calling in law eforcement. He wants to feel as if he's protecting his wife's honor and preventing others from seeing the supposed "DVD," but the pain and embarrassment are long over. It's time to call the other jackass' bluff and pursue legal remedies.  Just my advice. My apologies for so much reading!

Dr. B

Orange County, CA

 
Thursday, August 4, 2016 5:03 PM
Guest

DUMP THAT BIATCH!!!!!

 
Wednesday, August 24, 2016 12:37 PM
Guest

First off, That neighbor would have a bullet in his head for trying to blackmail me. Then the wife would.get kicked to the curb.

 
Wednesday, September 21, 2016 2:36 PM
Guest

Fake story. Go to hospital and seek for help .You are in mental disorder.IF this story is true ( but it isn't) but if yes , your wife is the worst whore and you are the biggest moron ever borned.( you are biggest moron anyway)

 

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