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My husband cheated on me

Monday, May 30, 2016 5:00 PM by JMH Rating: +3|-1

Hi so this isnt much of a story just me asking for advice to hear what others think so please if your gonna write a comment please be serious no trolls please.

 

My ex husband and me broke up last summer due to him cheating on me he is away alot for work and our sex life isnt as active as we like it to be with him always on he road and stuff he was basically fucking this girl that he travels with after awhile he started to feel bad and told me and thats when we broke up he moved in with the slut he cheated on me with and was with her for a few months before she got sick of him and broke up with him hes been living with a friend and is recently been trying to talk to me again hes trying to get back with me saying how sorry he is and how much he misses me and that he now knows what he had and that hes learned and grown up from this whole experiance and etc

 

oh we also did get a divorce and we have 2 kids together that live with me this entire time he has helped support me in taking care of them with no issues

 

so what yall think does he sound like a guy worth a 2nd chance?

part of me wants to but im kinda mad at theidea that he continued to fuck her after we broke up and just only now after she left him and hes been forced to live witha  friend does he want me back so im just trying to be careful and take my time with this.

 

regardless of what yall say ill do what i want i was mostly jsut curious what others think of this whole ordeal and stuff so ya what yaguys n gals think?

 

thanks for readining!

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Tuesday, May 31, 2016 1:51 AM
Guest

no that's just crazy if you took him back. obviously you are his second choice only because his chosen whore got tired of him and left him. im sure nites get lonely without a man and every woman needs that warm comfort but just knowing he didn't give a damn about you in the first place and choose a pussy to fuck that does not have kids from him, hell no you deserve better then a por excuse of a man that he is. love yourself with admiration and know that your love should be earned not taking for granted. 

 
Tuesday, May 31, 2016 5:58 AM
Julius

☝disagree  with guest  on top on you being 2nd choice. He came clean and told you about the affair. He didn't  choose her you left him. So did I read the story wrong or the guest above me did? I do how ever agree on the last sentence  she wrote. Long distance  or a lengthy  period  of time is not good for a marriage. And no matter what I say now is no excuse for cheating so don't take about what I'm about to say as me agreeing  with  his action. Now sex to a man is like going to the park. It's just sex no emotions. How ever sex is also what bonds us to the one we choose to love. His action was that of a man who doesn't  have self control not a man who doesn't  love you. That being said it's your choice if you choose to forgive. Only you know that man deeply  enough to know if he has good intentions  or not. We just know what you wrote. He knew he screwed  up when he confessed and excepted the punishment. He could have easily  kept from you. The slut was the second  choice not you.  Choose  wisely .

 
Tuesday, May 31, 2016 6:14 AM
Guest

9 times out of 10 men always chose the wife first. He never had intentions of leaving you. The only way he could stop the affair was to tell you. But once he told you you kicked him out. The 1st time he cheated. The 2nd time you sent him to her. So him sleeping with her after the breakup was your doing. You basically okay that. You seem like a smart lady and I'm sure you will make the right decision. Good luck

 
Tuesday, May 31, 2016 11:33 AM
bernie

if you take him back, there is a high chance that he will cheat again

 
Sunday, June 5, 2016 1:43 PM
Guest

from what I heard no I dont think he deserves a second chance, but that is different from should you give him one. You have children to think about. If the kids were not involved then absolutely not. but since the kids are involved it may be btter for them but it is really difficult because almost assuredly he will cheat again. I dont think you should give him a chance but as you said you will do what you want. 

 
Friday, June 10, 2016 2:41 PM
Guest

Once a cheat always a cheat

 
Tuesday, June 21, 2016 8:56 AM
JustaGuy
You need to take a pick of some guy's junk getting stuffed into you. not his face or anything, just an action shot. See how he likes it, and if he still wants you back, maybe give it serious consideration.
 
Friday, June 24, 2016 1:39 AM
Guest

I would say dont do it he left you for another person i think the only reason hes trying to get back with you because he needs a home

 
Monday, July 4, 2016 4:46 AM
Guest

Funny, u never mention the husband loves you....I thinking he wants u back because he needs a place to stay... He will cheat again...when a woman looks his way....

 

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