My wife and I have been married 20 years, she is still very attractive, very young looking, sexy, petite, and she's a nympho which I thought meant I was lucky, still doing it like rabbits after all these years while my friends were lucky to get laid once a month by their wives. So one day she leaves her FB on and I see all this messaging, find out she's been having a very explicit affair behind my back for about a year. We had a couple very dark months where I was trying to figure out what to do. I figuered (since we have a great family, kids, and she's still a delight to be married to) the best rout was to stay married and work it out. We went through counseling and worked it out and all is well. 

Not so fast! That's not the end of the story. Being in my late 40's of course I have peeked at porn now and then, peeked at back page sites, but never once acted out, I was extremly faithful, any sexual energy I derived from it was bestowed on her. But that was then, this is now. I have several successful businesses, I am not Forbes rich but I do well, my family is well taken care of, and I have a generous "entertainment" budget. And just in time for my mid-life crisis. I have been having the time of my life! I didn't know being a playboy would be so much fun! I have been with some amazing women, and have become close to several. Been on vacation in Florida, let my wife get drunk and pass out and call a hot sexy babe and have sex in the front room of our hotel room while the wife is passed out in the bedroom, I have several "FWB" girls, a "sugarbaby" that I set up in an apartment. All high end 20 something super models. Latinas, blondes, Asians, black, red head, brunette, even 2 and 3 women at the same time. I have gotten payback and then some. The urge to find the idiot that would sleep with another mans wife and beat his head in has faded, I almost want to find him and thank him for giving me the moral right to explore my own sexuality with countless hot females. I know I won't be in the "hobby" for too much longer, but then again. 

My fellow men out there, if your wife goes behind your back and takes your heart and crushes it before your eyes, stand up tall, your not a victem, she's the victem of her own stupidity. You were the man of her dreams, good looking, hard working, faithful, thoughtful, kind, still surprising her with flowers and candy every Valentines, still opening doors for her, good in bed, what the f**k more could she want? Yet she couldnt resist the advances of another man, couldn't be satisfied with every womans dream guy, she had to share YOUR sexual property with another. Think about it, a woman can only attract a man as long as her youth and beauty endures, but we men can take comfort in a perky pair of C cups till the day we die. There will always be beautiful sexy young women willing to let you enjoy their bodies. We are the victors!!! And the best part........NO GUILT!!!

I don't endorse infidelity, and I think a man who would sleep with another mans wife is the lowest piece of shit, only a pedofile is lower. I would rather be happily married with a woman I loved and who loved me and grow old together. But, unfortunately its a cruel evil world and shit happens. I have been through anguish and pain I wouldn't wish on anyone, betrayed by my best friend. The trajedy is that we both love each other deeply. She f****d up, and I do pity her, and I still love her and we are still together. In many ways stronger than ever. But I have my pride, I am a man and I make my own way, I refuse to be a VICTEM! I resent weak men, I have a strong sense of respect, and command it for myself. I am strong, the type that most men don't want to meddle with, I have been known to beat the hell out of other men for the slightest disrespect. I also am old school when it comes to how I treat a lady and have never raised my hand in anger against any, not my mother, and not my wife, ever. I always respect women and hold doors open for them, answer yes ma'am, I am a gentleman when it comes to women. I am also blessed with 8 inches of woman pleasing manhood and above average stamina. I love beautiful women as much as any man, and now I can do more than just dream about them. Women are my new lifestyle, and sex my new hobby and I experience only the most beautiful and sexy. I am beyond revenge, I had my revenge, now I am the man, and my wife......she is damned fortunate to still be at my side, with all the benefits of being my wife, less one thing she will never regain: MY RESPECT