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My wife cheated on me

Tuesday, April 5, 2016 12:14 PM by Guest Rating: +21|-11

My wife and I have been married 20 years, she is still very attractive, very young looking, sexy, petite, and she's a nympho which I thought meant I was lucky, still doing it like rabbits after all these years while my friends were lucky to get laid once a month by their wives. So one day she leaves her FB on and I see all this messaging, find out she's been having a very explicit affair behind my back for about a year. We had a couple very dark months where I was trying to figure out what to do. I figuered (since we have a great family, kids, and she's still a delight to be married to) the best rout was to stay married and work it out. We went through counseling and worked it out and all is well. 

Not so fast! That's not the end of the story. Being in my late 40's of course I have peeked at porn now and then, peeked at back page sites, but never once acted out, I was extremly faithful, any sexual energy I derived from it was bestowed on her. But that was then, this is now. I have several successful businesses, I am not Forbes rich but I do well, my family is well taken care of, and I have a generous "entertainment" budget. And just in time for my mid-life crisis. I have been having the time of my life! I didn't know being a playboy would be so much fun! I have been with some amazing women, and have become close to several. Been on vacation in Florida, let my wife get drunk and pass out and call a hot sexy babe and have sex in the front room of our hotel room while the wife is passed out in the bedroom, I have several "FWB" girls, a "sugarbaby" that I set up in an apartment. All high end 20 something super models. Latinas, blondes, Asians, black, red head, brunette, even 2 and 3 women at the same time. I have gotten payback and then some. The urge to find the idiot that would sleep with another mans wife and beat his head in has faded, I almost want to find him and thank him for giving me the moral right to explore my own sexuality with countless hot females. I know I won't be in the "hobby" for too much longer, but then again. 

My fellow men out there, if your wife goes behind your back and takes your heart and crushes it before your eyes, stand up tall, your not a victem, she's the victem of her own stupidity. You were the man of her dreams, good looking, hard working, faithful, thoughtful, kind, still surprising her with flowers and candy every Valentines, still opening doors for her, good in bed, what the f**k more could she want? Yet she couldnt resist the advances of another man, couldn't be satisfied with every womans dream guy, she had to share YOUR sexual property with another. Think about it, a woman can only attract a man as long as her youth and beauty endures, but we men can take comfort in a perky pair of C cups till the day we die. There will always be beautiful sexy young women willing to let you enjoy their bodies. We are the victors!!! And the best part........NO GUILT!!!

I don't endorse infidelity, and I think a man who would sleep with another mans wife is the lowest piece of shit, only a pedofile is lower. I would rather be happily married with a woman I loved and who loved me and grow old together. But, unfortunately its a cruel evil world and shit happens. I have been through anguish and pain I wouldn't wish on anyone, betrayed by my best friend. The trajedy is that we both love each other deeply. She f****d up, and I do pity her, and I still love her and we are still together. In many ways stronger than ever. But I have my pride, I am a man and I make my own way, I refuse to be a VICTEM! I resent weak men, I have a strong sense of respect, and command it for myself. I am strong, the type that most men don't want to meddle with, I have been known to beat the hell out of other men for the slightest disrespect. I also am old school when it comes to how I treat a lady and have never raised my hand in anger against any, not my mother, and not my wife, ever. I always respect women and hold doors open for them, answer yes ma'am, I am a gentleman when it comes to women. I am also blessed with 8 inches of woman pleasing manhood and above average stamina. I love beautiful women as much as any man, and now I can do more than just dream about them. Women are my new lifestyle, and sex my new hobby and I experience only the most beautiful and sexy. I am beyond revenge, I had my revenge, now I am the man, and my wife......she is damned fortunate to still be at my side, with all the benefits of being my wife, less one thing she will never regain: MY RESPECT

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Wednesday, April 6, 2016 10:06 AM

 I like this guy!

Wednesday, April 6, 2016 12:02 PM


Wednesday, April 6, 2016 1:48 PM

I've always been worried what if she were to cheat on me this is very empowering thank you random person on the Internet! 

Wednesday, April 6, 2016 5:19 PM

Amen!! You inspired me!!

Thursday, April 7, 2016 4:27 PM

That doesn't make you any better than your wife. Both of you are in the wrong, lack respect for one another, and truly need to re-learn what marriage is about. Just my two cents

Thursday, April 7, 2016 6:20 PM

I understand your choices, but what you must understand is that when your wife cheated on you the marriage died. It is a mouldering corpse. Instead of burying it and divorcing the whore, you jumped into the abyss with her. Now, you cheat and not only live with a cheater, but you have to live with yourself as a cheater! You are rolling in the same shit she rolled in! Confess, repent, ask forgiveness (from God, not her) divorce her and move on! Try to find a decent woman and be decent to her, that is what life is about. 

Friday, April 8, 2016 2:51 PM

I disagree, the marriage didnt die because I direct my positive life energy into it, while I cannot argue with your view on me choosing to jump into the abyss, I jumped in because of my love for her, I chose to sacrifice my soul because of love. You sound religious, is not this what Adam did because he loved Eve, who fell into the shit as you say? While I do have to reckon with my sins, I am not exagerating when I said that in many ways our marriage is stronger. I plan to stay with her to the end. God will surely judge me, but at least I have Jesus of Nazareth as an advocate on that day. The bottom line is cheating really messes with your head and you have to make a decision, I made mine and so far I am happy with it. I wish it never happened and I was instead typing my story on the Brady Bunch website for perfect marriages, but it did, and here I am. Still alive, still married, still in love. Peace? That is yet to be decided. I have moments of peace, even days, but I think my story testifies of my resilience and toughness. You closed by saying to "find a decent woman", does she even exist? Solomon tried to find her and in 1000 attempts couldn't. I think I'll stay thank you. I do hope to make my peace with God though, 100% agree with you there. Thanks.

Monday, April 11, 2016 2:48 PM

Amazing story! Better than watching a movie! 

I am thrilled you found peace. Your wife screwed up and you made the best of a situation without breaking up your family !

Friday, April 22, 2016 7:47 PM

Yes but what kind of example are you setting? 

Wednesday, April 27, 2016 10:40 PM

《Amazing story! Better than watching a movie! 》

okay, I'm going to say this, and this is actually the first story that I was impressed with... so saying that,


but, I have to say something. for this story being so well-written, why don't you talk to your wife, the same way that your storie, is so well written? the way you speak in this story, is a nice style on how to deal with her (your wife)?  and I don't mean saying this, by giving you the impression  that what you said, is either bad and good, so don't take me the wrong way (I'm a fan), please. to me your story is very well written, even your comeback was as well, your story had me convinced, pretty fast, but again I don't agree with the way you handled your situation,  but I figured you know what you're doing, it's your marriage, right? 

I'm telling you, this is the first time on this board, that I was impressed , and almost... convince in a way. But not impressed in the way you handle the matter, but like I said don't take me the wrong way.  I hope things work out for you and your family.  hopefully we hear some good news out of this story (I'm now a big fan), and I never say that. lol.

Good luck to both you and your wife.

Wednesday, July 20, 2016 4:58 PM

Pure delusion!!!


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