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Not Feeling Fulfilled

I cheated on my husband

Tuesday, January 12, 2016 11:48 AM by Guest Rating: +35|-33

I was with my husband 1 year when I cheated. I met a guy from my work and we clicked in a number of ways. We had fun together and intimacy was great. My husband wasn't fulfilling me in the bedroom, he no longer made me feel special. He put his friends first instead of me and was drinking a lot. This new guy gave me everything I was craving in a relationship. Real feelings started to begin, I started to love him and was seeing a future. My husband and I were scheduled to move across the country a bit before this affair began. So I was currently cheating while packing up our things. We moved away, as I had no choice. Never knowing when or if I would see this guy again. I was sad, depressed, I missed him. I kept contact and texted and called often. My husband found out I was texting him by looking through my phone, but knows nothing of our real relationship. He was hurt, but I can't say I felt guilty. My 'boyfriend' and I eventually realized it just wasn't going to work with this kind of relationship. We stopped communication completely, he understood but we were both heartbroken.  My husband and I's relationship has more of a friendship vibe. I love him, but the intimacy is not there. That's the biggest thing I am missing in my relationship. To everyone else, we seem so happy but the truth is I'm missing the man I had an affair with everyday.

I visited recently (2 years later) to see my old friends and had no intention seeing him. I didn't want to put him or myself through that. I couldn't take it and decided to text him. We met for some drinks. We clicked. It was like no time passed at all. We were leaving the bar and ended up kissing. It was like fireworks went off. I was so happy again. We made love that night and it was amazing. Then I had to leave and the heartbreak began again. I'm so confused as to what to do. Is this the guy that is my true love? These feelings can't last this long for no reason. At this point I'm really considering breaking things off with my husband and trying with him. 

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Tuesday, January 12, 2016 3:03 PM

If you love your other man you should go with him and be happy, the sex will be amazing :)

Tuesday, January 12, 2016 7:51 PM

Well to get to the point your just a whore thats all. May I ask why even get married in the first place to a guy that you have no connection with? But no you rather just play games and be the slut that you are.

Tuesday, January 12, 2016 8:52 PM

She should give in to her feelings and embrace being a nasty slut, it's much more fun :)

Wednesday, January 13, 2016 12:04 AM

I am 


Wednesday, January 13, 2016 10:13 PM

Ill sum it up -

You married a beta for his security/money, but then slept with an alpha for his cock.  

I hope you leave your husband for the alpha, becuase I know the next chapter of this story.   You'll realize he was just using you as a slam piece, and you'll have to find another beta again.

Thursday, January 14, 2016 3:55 AM

 To all the sluts who embraced there whore ways. You will never be loved. You can never steal anyone husband or boyfriend's. If they leave it's because they already planned too. We laugh about you when we remember you. Talk to our  buddy  about how a slut you were in bed how we came on your face  because you was just that easy. You walk with pride but anger when called a whore. Time goes by and all who stood true are in a loving  relationship  you just a lonely old whore getting ready to die and go to hell. but don't  worry satan has a big red Dick to fuck  you in the ass. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ you are all so pathetic.

Thursday, January 14, 2016 4:10 AM

          hey Sarah you must be one hell of a walking STD.  πŸ’‰ had to take a shot because I cough an STD  just by posting.  You must wake up everyday knowing your a slut and wanting it all to end.  Yeah listen to  Sarah her dad must be proud.

Thursday, January 14, 2016 12:03 PM
That guy

leave ur hubby for this good dick...  I agree with Sarah too... Embrace your slutty desires and just fuck him on trips home if that works. Ur man needs to take care of ur pussy or let you go. 

Friday, January 15, 2016 4:16 AM

 Everyone here should read was it worth it.  Then come back and tell me if you are giving good advice to people. These people are real and telling  them to deceive and lie is not the right way. leave if your unhappy but don't cheat. keep the disease  to your self. 

Saturday, January 16, 2016 4:52 PM

First off you need to be open with your husband and get over using him to protect your insecure self whilst u go out slutting about on him.  If u want to fuck behind his back then leave him now rather than continue to fuck this other rabbit whilst u r in a relationship.  You may find that living a relationship in full with guy is not going to be the fireworks lifestyle you seek and that there is more to it than just good sex although this helps.  Make the call now and cease being a deceitful lying slut o your good man. 

Monday, January 18, 2016 5:07 AM
Voice of Reason

Don't listen to these lunatics. There is nothing wrong with wanting to feel happy and fulfilled. And there is nothing wrong with wanting to have more than one sexual partner. We all have desires, they are natural and you don't deserve to be shamed for it. Don't let idiotic religious or current societal views that are only here to control women like property from doing what you feel is right. Those judgemental views are held by undeveloped minds that blindly regurgitate so-called morals they heard someone else say, without ever really learning how to truly think for themselves. Talk to your husband, tell him why you are unhappy and try to come up with a plan to change that. If it doesn't work, then do what makes you happy. Life is short.

Monday, January 18, 2016 6:19 AM

People who cheat are just fucking pathetic. You have no spine and are pretty much scum,yeah your husband probably stopped trying but why not just get out of the relationship and then be a whore 

Monday, January 18, 2016 8:28 AM

Everyone have there own things on why they cheat.

Tuesday, January 19, 2016 4:42 PM

Voice of Reason u pathetic douchebag. Grow the fuck up and learn to respect your partners. And OP you too you're being so entitled tell your husband he doesn't deserve the disrepsect and abuse you are giving him. So disgusting

Tuesday, January 19, 2016 10:32 PM

If you're not happy in a relationship don't cheat! Leave it, how sick can you be to hurt someone that loves you so much. Get over yourself and start thinking of your husband! 

Thursday, January 21, 2016 6:22 AM
Voice of Reason

I agree that she should respect her husband that's why I suggested she should talk to him and work on the relationship first, but if that doesn't work out, then she should leave the relationship and do what makes her happy - whatever that is. All that this horrendous name calling does is reveal the maturity (or lack there of) of the rest of the commenters on here.

Friday, January 22, 2016 10:55 AM

It's not easy to just go with the guy you love or to just break off a marriage. It's really hard. Honestly speaking, things will never be the same. If you leave your husband, you'll have him at the back of your mind reminding you how you left him or broke your relationship. And if you don't leave and decide to continue, that feeling of guilt... You cheating him will haunt you. This situation is like a two sided sword. You'll hurt yourself no matter which side you chose. 

All you need is to be strong. Make a decision that you won't regret. And even if it right or wrong, you'll deal with it. It's really easy to say things and advice people... Only the person who really goes through situations understands and respects the decision made. 

Tuesday, January 26, 2016 8:43 PM

Guest your a small dick loser that's way she left you 

Monday, February 1, 2016 9:45 AM

I loved the Alpha/Beta comment!! Best comment on the whole entire website! πŸ‘πŸΌπŸ‘πŸΌ

Sunday, February 7, 2016 6:27 PM

Absolutly no question, women are the dirtiest most filthy creatures walking this earth

Thursday, March 31, 2016 5:49 AM

I suppose there's nothing wrong with what you did if there is no spark and passion. What i fail to understand is why women simply don't tell their Husbands. I'm sure hubby must be thingking something similar. Have you put on weight? have your looks faded? Give hubby an opportunity to get some zing back in his life.


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