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My boyfriend cheated on me

Friday, June 3, 2016 7:12 AM by Guest Rating: +2|-0

My boyfriend of 2 years cheated on me with a girl from his past. I have now stayed with him because I love him, we have a home together and a life. Ever since I found out he has been going out of his way to prove I can trust him again and said he will spend his life making it up to me. Oh I should prob mention he came clean and told me very soon after it happened. There is just this little niggling feeling in back of my head that I'm making wrong choice but I don't want to live without him, I still want our life, our future I still see myself marrying him. I guess what I'm asking is can cheaters really change? 

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Saturday, June 4, 2016 6:28 PM

Who says cheaters can't change.  But the odds aren't that good.  Will he change if you two marry?  Old habits are hard to change.  If he really want's your trust, then he must not have any secrets like locked cell phones, you get total access to his cell phone and computer, he tells you what he is doing and where he is going, who he is hanging out with.  No, no seccrets.  Of course you should do the same with him.  Both of you must be totally open with each othe for this to work.  If you see any deveiations like no more cell phone access, or his manners has changed, working longer hours.....anything out of the ordinary, it probably means he's cheating again.

Saturday, June 4, 2016 7:47 PM

   Ok answer these question. Could he had gotten away with out you ever finding out?  Why did he Confess? Did he gave you a reason to dought him?  If he came clean on his own without needing  too believe he really  does care for you. Now I'm not excusing what he did. He was wrong and needs to prove  you can trust him. It's your choice to forgive him. Just don't  return  the favor you will only hurt  yourself. 

Sunday, June 19, 2016 10:52 AM

In my opinion he needs to show himself not just saying it, he'll change. Don't forgive him immediately, take your time on "hating" him so he came see that you're serious about the relationship . Also make a plan if by any chance he cheats on you again and decides to leave him for good, be strong 


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