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I cheated on my boyfriend

Sunday, August 28, 2016 6:47 AM by Guest Rating: +7|-8

my and my boyfriend have been dating for about 1 year now. this summer we fell apart, as he got consumed into his work.he became rude, mean, and distant from me. it felt like he didn't care and he even would goes days without talking to me. I know i should have spoken up about how i felt but i wanted to wait until the summer was over to meet him in person and try to fix our problems. 3 weeks before i see him comes around, i was going to celebrate my birthday with a couple girlfriends. and again, he called me angry, and rude and ignored me for the entire trip. On the last night of our trip we went out to a club, it was boring, we were sober and the drinks we ridiculously priced. These group of guys approached us and offered to buy us shots. As my girlfriends danced with guys, i stayed at the bar and started having a normal conversation with the guy buying me these drinks. Soon we were 4 shots in, and he asked me to dance. I did. He kissed me and i kissed back. Then suddenly i'm being pulled out of the club, placed in a cab and then into a bedroom. I don't remember much else. I do remember some sex but not the whole thing. I was so tired i just wanted to sleep. Then I screamed out that i don't want this, i want to go home. So he stopped looked at me and said "whats wrong ?" i replied " i don't want this i dont want this please let me go home". He seemed shocked. I don't remember much again. I remember getting my purse, him walking me outside and bawling at what had just happened. As i go outside i didn't know where i was, this was so far away from the club we had been at. I was scared again and felt numb. I told him that i had a boyfriend and i just wanted to go home. He kept trying to convince me to come back inside with him. And i kept refusing repeating that i need to go home. I broke up with my boyfriend the next day bc of guilt. but when we saw eachother in 2 weeks everything felt so right with him. I tried to keep what happened a secret for about a week. but i couldn't anymore. the guilt and pain was too much. I told him and I don't know if he'll ever forgive me. 

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Monday, August 29, 2016 12:34 PM
Guest

Your fault.

 
Monday, August 29, 2016 2:10 PM
ALF

You start your story saying your boyfriend was rude, mean, and distant.  You end by saying everything felt so right with him.  With the way you conducted yourself in the interim, I'd say his actions were in response to the way you were acting.  And don't try to scream "date rape".  The guy would never have let you walk out of there, much less escort you downstairs to a cab.  It seems you two are apart, it's best that you stay that way.

 
Tuesday, August 30, 2016 4:41 AM
Guest

at least you told him and now he knows you for the whore you are

 
Tuesday, August 30, 2016 3:42 PM
Guest

forget the other comments. Ive been where youve been. First, its good that you actually stopped the act and had the guts to leave that guy. But maybe you should reflect why that actually happened.  Are you still inlvoe with your boyfriend? I understand that he was treating you very badly, and even though you love him, maybe you actually did what you did because you felt lonely and you wanted his attention (even though its not an excuse to cheat). think about what you wanted at that moment and try to talk about it with your ex. also, dont contact that other guy AGAIN. hes a jer who doesnt respect you becuase he knew you had a boyfriend and wanted you to stay anyway. i wish you the best, give your ex time to confront this. If you love eachother you will get through this, but be aware that he may treat you badly for a while, so you must put up to it.

 
Tuesday, August 30, 2016 3:55 PM
JH

Comment above. Says that you understand that you were initially treated badly. But now prepare yourself to be treated badly for a while while your boyfriend copes with the damage done....

I think the issue is very simply he girl's & comment above's perception of what is in fact treating someome badly.  

Move along and find someone new. Soon enough you'll see how hard the world is and how used you will get by other guys. 

 
Tuesday, August 30, 2016 5:01 PM
Guest

I have a girlfriend and at the beginning of our relationship she went to drink with her friends and got really drunk. The next day she told me one guy tried to have sex with her but She refused and I believed it, until 1 month later when panicked coz I thought I was having sexual disease symptoms (sounds paranoid but I started to believe I got it from her, but when I made the tests there were nothing) so I started to panicked and accused her (I knew if there had been sexual diseases it would have been from her) she denied first but she admitted later however she told me she was so drunk she didn't remember! I believed her! And because it happened  1 week after she and I started a relationship I told her it's in the past so I forgave her and asked her to be more honest and told her to be careful coz I might react differently if by any chance something like that would happen again and because I know there are a lot of stupid guys like the one who take advantage of drunk girls ! Now I totally fall in love with her and I don't regret I forgave her! 

 
Thursday, September 1, 2016 7:10 PM
Guest

why do you have to cheat Tf is your problem?

 

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