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My wife cheated on me

Saturday, September 3, 2016 1:40 AM by Arjun Rating: +8|-12

I got married 18months ago to my long time girlfriend whom I was dating for last 10years. We had few issues in past also regarding her behavior with other guys. To be honest I never minded any such things but sometimes I use to think that she gets too cozy with other guys. I was the one who approached her to date me and after few days she said yes. That was the best day of my life. I was flying in sky. And than few days later she accepted a proposal from our one more classmate. Obviously we had a fight. I cried a lot and than she told me that guy forced her to accept the proposal. I trusted her, biggest mistake of my life. Previously also she use to talk to some other guys on phone behind my back. I ignored everything and tried to built the relation once again  the second biggest mistake of my life. Meanwhile we completed our school studies and got admission in different colleges. Things started to change once again, like when we use to have sex she used to ask me "you people enjoy so much having sex" I use to think why she isn't specific . We both were beginners but she used to give expert advices, I thought she might have got this knowledge either by reading about it or by watching porn. I admit "stupid,idiot etc" are the words for me. I use find many sim and mobiles in her room but whenever I asked her she use to say" mommy got a new one or sister or father" every time I believed her after fighting for few minutes or days. One day one of our mutual friend told me that she is going to a farmhouse of one boy in her class, I was shattered. Few hours later she called me to pick her from her college by 8pm as she won't be able to catch her cab due to some very important college project. He dropped her she came and sat in my car, I asked her about farmhouse and that boy, instead of answering she started fighting with me. I thought I am overreacting and ended the chapter. Gradually a day came when we were supposed to get married. Now we both were working I was into my own business and she was working in a company a bit far from house. One day I found out from her messages that she was a big flirt with almost everyone she was in touch with. And there were so many chats regarding she and her friends use call male escorts for their birthday parties and everything one could imagine of. I asked her " she said to divorce me and will take a fat alimony from me and will also make me bear all the bad consequences". I don't fear any such thing but problem is we are going to have a baby in  few months and I don't want to spoil the moment. Once again I've to compromise and live with the pain. Her father was against our marriage, And is a big time psychopath with great links. I cannot go to him not my parents. It's so insulting that  I can't even share it with friends too. To be honest I am here because nobody knows me over here. I want to commit suicide. Any easy methods please?

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Sunday, September 4, 2016 4:35 AM
Guest

Try fighting fire with fire. Stop being a door mat

 
Sunday, September 4, 2016 6:20 AM
Guest

  Pick up your balls and fight  back. Get evidence  of her cheating. Then leavery be sneaky as hell.3

 
Sunday, September 4, 2016 4:52 PM
Guest

How do you know it is your baby? She sounds like an abusive monster. It will not get better with time, only worse. Cut your losses. 

 
Monday, September 5, 2016 5:54 AM
Survivor

Your story same mine

 
Tuesday, September 6, 2016 1:13 AM
Guest

I had a similar experience with my ex. I am a guy. Tell her to go fly kite. Get a divorce before you have kids. If you already have kids, then it is a bit more complicated but get the hell out of there.

 
Wednesday, September 7, 2016 4:25 AM
Lanah102

If you have truly put up with this nonsense then you simply deserve what you get. Walk away or shut up and stop whinging to the world about you being a weak man. 

 
Thursday, September 8, 2016 6:37 PM
Collier

Sir, get it together.  Your wife sounds like so many of the "cheaters" depicted in the stories on this site, a narcissist.  The fact that you have allowed her to abuse you for so long has given her the message that you will accept all of her bad behavior.  I am sure she started off being the perfect girlfriend.  The relationship moved very quickly as she was so attentive, complimentary, and made you feel like the man.  She ran the old "virgin" game on you my friend.  She mirrorred what you wanted in a woman and morphed into that in order to hook you in.  Once she got you, she started abusing you.  It may have started out slow.  Little demeaning comments in front of other people that, to you, came out of the blue.  I am sure she exhibited other bad behavior that you accepted.  She "cozied" up to other guys, and you accepted it.  She screwed the guy in the farmhouse, and you accepted it.  She made secret phone calls to other men, solicited male prostitutes, kept secret phones and sim cards, and still you accepted it.  She is not goping to stop abusing you.  She gets off on making you feel pain; that's how narcissists are.

 

Your only chance at a happy life is to LEAVE!  Divorce this woman and never look back. When you do leave, she will make your life hell.  She will tell your friends, family and associates that you abused her for years.  She is going to accuse you of being a serial cheater.  Everything that she has done to you, she is going to claim that you did to her.  Still, you are better off leaving.  She is going to completely destroy you and enjoy doing so.  PLEASE, listen to me.  Pack you shit, get in your car, drive the fuck away from her.  Fight for your child AFTER you have reclaimed YOUR selr-respect.  

 
Wednesday, September 21, 2016 7:03 AM
Guest

Ur a dumb ass suicide is for pussy's just wait until the child is born I'm pretty sure it's not yours and then u can divorce her without giving her a dime that simple 

 

 

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