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I cheated on my boyfriend

Sunday, January 24, 2016 2:43 PM by Guest Rating: +3|-9

I am writing this post because I have no one to go to about this. I ask that any negative comments are left unsaid because I already know, I'm horrible for doing what I did. I am only 18 years old and so is my boyfriend. We have only been together for about a month, but we have been seeing each other on and off for over a year. He was never good to me during that time. He hurt me in more ways than you can imagine. However I didn't do what I did for revenge because I truly believe he's different this time. I think that my problem is that I've always been used to our messed up relationship and I feel like it's the same as it's always been. We're both in college, but far apart. I can't tell him what I did because I know that would be the end. I really do love him and I want to change, this is not me and I just want to make things better, but can I still do that or is it too late? 

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Monday, January 25, 2016 5:33 AM
Guest

Sounds like you and your boyfriend were'nt emotinoally connected and the abuse got the best of you. You may of cheated and it's not the right thing to do but he has himself to blame for that. It takes 2 people to make it or break it. If he respected you I dont think you would've of cheated on him. I would let him know how he has made you feel and your not sure what the future will bring for both of you. Let him know that you made a mistake that you regrett and willing to live with it. Whatever happens I'm sure you will find somebody that will appreciate you. The best thing going for you is that your young and you are single. Live life and enjoy every chance you get to make yourself happy. Here's a poem you may enjoy.

 When you get what you want in your struggle for self And the world makes you king for a day Just go to a mirror and look at yourself And see what that man has to say For it isn't your father, mother or wife Whose judgment upon you must pass The fellow whos verdict counts most in your life Is the one staring back from the glass Some people may think you are straight-shootin' chum And call you a wonderful guy But if the man in the glass says you're only a bum If you can't look him straight in the eye He's the fellow to please, never mind all the rest For he's with you clear up to the end And you've passed your most dangerous, difficult test If the man in the glass is your friend You may fool the whole world down the pathway of life And get pats on the back as you pass But your final reward will be heartaches and tears If you've cheated the man in the glass.  by Dale Wimbrow

 
Tuesday, January 26, 2016 9:14 PM
Guest

Gtfoh its not his fault she couldn't keep her legs closed .... U should tell him and take it from it there. Honesty is better ...what u did is fucked up keeping it from him is worse IMO . good luck

 

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