Tuesday, May 10, 2016 7:17 AM by Skidney
Rating: +7|-3
So I've known this man for about 6 yrs. He and I have always managed to come back around to each other and can't seem to let go. He's had serious girlfriends and a kid with one of them, me the same, but for some reason we always seem to get back in touch and try to work things out. They always end up terrible, I mean, really bad. So about a month ago he finds me on Pof dating site. A couple messages later and we decide to hook up. We had been casually hooking up a few times a week until 2 weeks ago when HE wanted to make it official. I'm down. So I tell him to get rid of the other girls he's talking to and take this seriously. He agrees. Now, I start noticing last week that he's messaging people late at night while his phone goes off so it automatically triggers my insecurities. I decided in the morning I would make a fake profile and catch him. I did, I got a few images of a beautiful girl off Google and in his first response to the fake profile he gives her his number. Now, I was thinking hes caught, right? Well, for whatever reason I decided to make this girl seem psycho so he will get the hint and get off the site for good. I start talking to him about how she's an escort and would give it to him for free etc. He gets freaked out and tells her not to contact him. So I decoded I'm going to make a new profile, with a less hot girl, someone who looks like his type. I find an Instagram of a girl with tons of pics tires, so I screenshot a few, crop out the intstagram banners and go to work. He's really interested in this one. Writes her back immediately showering her in compliments. It kinda hurt. Not ganna lie, so I decided to make a text free pinger account so he can text her "phone number" him and I had plans that night for him to come over, so when this fake girl Nikki asked him to meet up, he said he couldn't because he had his daughter. BUT he wanted to take her out for a drink on Saturday. He knew I had my kids that weekend and I would be home. So I play it out, texting him as Nikki for the next few days, exchanging steamy messages and photos. All the while he is being so sweet to me and telling me how he misses me while he's at work blah blah blah. So Saturday comes around... Nikki agreed to meet him at the bar at 10:00 he gets there and sends texts asking where she is and I managed to hold him PFF for another hour saying my friend was taking awhile to get ready. By the time 11:45 rolls around he gets mad and texts nikki a bunch of things saying how he's never been stood up and he waited in his car for over an hour. I gatta say, it did make me feel a little nice knowing he was hurt. Oh and that Saturday night? Around midnight I get a text from him saying that he's having a rough night and if he can come over... I ignored it and said I was asleep in the morning. So that was this past weekend, its Tuesday now. He is still texting nikki to see if she will meet up with him tomorrow. Any advice on how i should play out the ending?
Tags:
Dating;
Daughter;
Friend;
Kids;