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My boyfriend cheated on me

Tuesday, March 8, 2016 3:12 PM by Guest Rating: +4|-3

Mr partner of almost 5 years has been cheating on me online.  I have known about it for almost the full 5 years and maybe stupidly love blinded me but the knowledge of his infidelity is slowly killing my spirit.  He recently admitted to me that it is a problem and that he needs help.  However, despite a decline in him contacting other women, he has increased his contact of transexuals and crossdressers.  I am in bits and unsure how to confront him about this.  I don't want us to split up and want to help him through it. We have an active sex life which could, to be honest be a lot better but he is so closed off physically that addressing this is also a struggle for me.  Please help me as I am at wits end and this is starting to make me ill

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Wednesday, March 9, 2016 4:27 AM
Guest

   5 years and you didn't  addressed  it alowing for it to get worst. The cheating  that is. Now for the cross dresser and the tranny thing. Nothing you can do. He was always into it.  Leave  find someone e you deserve let him have his computer. More and more men are preferring  to be technology  then there spouse. Stop competing with objects  your a person, let him go. What's wrong with you. Run, run as fast as you can. You will save your self so much problems.

 
Wednesday, March 9, 2016 6:00 PM
Guest

I don't really understand why you hadn't done anything when you were 100% sure your boyfriend was cheating behind your back. You could've confronted him earlier, saying his activities online was really getting to you and you want it to stop. A slightly good thing is that he admits that he has been cheating as well as needing help for it. He hadn't lied, so I guess that's something good at least. But, I suggest you wait just a tad bit longer, see if he actually notices that his cheating is starting to cause you to go ill. If he doesn't, then it's obvious enough that he's not the right guy and you should definitely think about breaking it off with him. Though, if he does notice, then really talk to him about it. Explain how you feel about the cheating. 

 
Sunday, March 13, 2016 8:59 PM
Guest

run quick and find someone normal. This is toxic and a disaster. Quit wasting yoru time. Life is too short and precious.

 

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