You make it sound like you're a victim. The truth is you could have stopped it but you didn't You're human and your going to make bad choices. If I where you I would try to put it in the back of your head and forget about it. If you tell your husband it will just hurt him and you might lose everything you have over a bad choice. 

This story involves the most rationalization of any story I've read on this site.  When you first did something with him that you wouldn't have done if your husbad was there was when you started cheating. I know you are not capable of this but if you could read this story as though it were written by someone else you could see how many wrong things you did. I'm not a mean person like a lot of posters on this site. I won't call you names or insult you. But I will say that you act like this was something that happened to you. It wasn't. This was something you did. If you want to move past this (which it doesn't sound like you want to do) you need to fully own this. Of course the pilot has done this many times. He made this easy for you. But this is your doing.  I encourage you to decide if you want to stay in your marriage. If you do you need to find a way to view this for what it really is, and not something special. 

One of two possibilites here.  1. you have a character flaw that enables you to cheat, or 2. you don't have a good relationship with your husband.  Or both.  Without these you wouldn't have cheated on your husband.  And as long as either of these are in play, you're going to cheat again on your next layover far from home.  Whether or not you tell your husband is up to you.  But if you're planning on staying with him you better take a good, hard look at your situation and get a handle on whatever is wrong.

I`m not here to bash you! I would like to say thank you for telling your story!! Truth be told everyone makes mistakes and no one is perfect. Now are you wrong?! Yes! You are, cause I'm pretty sure you have a great husband. Your not a bad wife and we all make bad choices. Truth be told take that to your grave and never tell your husband. He love you but he will not forgive you deep down for that... He wouldn't view you as the same lady he said!!! I do to... Good luck with your marriage and ask God for forgiveness...

Wow no sympathy here you are not a little girl. You had control I think some of this was a fantasy which is why you never stopped it.

I noticed you described your son lovingly but never went into detail about your husband who would be devastated!

For your sake I hope guilt does not swallow you up even though you deserve it. And it sounds like a line if that pilot said his first time really that was said to make you feel better about the whole thing as it was special

Oh come now, Mrs. Guest. Lying about having sex with you co-worker isn't going to ease your guilty conscience, is it? I know about flight attendants and pilots. You were far enough away from friends and family to not get caught. You wanted your side-cock to fuck you, you came hard because of the depravity of the situation, and now your either worried that you're pregnant by this guy or you might have caught a bug that you can't explain away to the hubby. 

 We both know that you're going to keep laying down for near-total strangers, but do your family a favor and keep condoms handy. You could at least be smart if you're not going to be decent. 

You fucking slut. I hope your husband dumps you on the street, fucking disgrace.