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I cheated on my wife

Friday, March 25, 2016 5:17 PM by Sean Rating: +5|-12

so my wife and I were always meant to be... She is the best thing that's ever happened to me and I waited 36 years to find her. She's gorgeous, smart, funny and very sweet. Great wife and mom. I'm not saying she is a perfect person but perfect to me. Ice honestly never been so in love and we had an amazing sex life. She is very uninhibited and considering she's only been with three guys including me that is rare . So fast forward. We were together for three months I was head over heels... She disappeared for 7 months. And I mean she was gone. Problems with her ex husband threatening a custody battle scared her half to death. I was a mess being that I was falling hard. Those were the toughest days of my life. 7 months later she shows up and we are back together like that. She figured out her mess and said she knew if we were meant to be then we would be. And we were. 2 years later we are walking down the aisle... I've never been happier. As time went by, things got harder. I was nasty when we argued I wasn't great to my or her kid. I had an anger and other issues that i never adressed. She asked me to get help but I think I was past the point of helping myself. I literally watched my life fall apart In front of my eyes. There were other problems that I realize now that we're from my oldest son who was later diagnosed with depression , which led to him not being good with her son or anyone else for that matter. It caused a lot of stress and I wrongfully took his side when I should've gotten him help. So my wife left. We saw each other for 8 months and then one day she stopped coming around . Always saying she was busy or other reasons. I was hurt because I tried seeing her for three or four months and it never happened. I was so depressed that I couldn't even admit to her how much I missed her. I got angry and that was my emotion to her. I've learned now that I've had undiagnosed depression my whole life. It explains a lot of why I and my son were the way we were. So we got to a point where she felt like I did nothing to save the marriage evien tho I had plans on talking about counceling when I was trying to see her those months. She told me she moved on. I took that as it was over and she was seeing other people. It turns out she was dating. I decided that if she moved on I had to try to also/so I dated. I dated one girl for a few weeks. I wound up sleeping with her one time. It's something that I regret. I ran into my wife about three weeks in from seeing this other girl and the minute I saw her i knew I still was in love with my wife.i broke it off with this girl and poured my heart out to my wife. I told her everything , including being intimate. Although I regret it deeply and he she also dated, I feel like I've cheated and she is devastated . She said it's different because all she did was kiss.. Now four weeks later she will barely speak to me and wants space. This is after I've been pouring m heart out for weeks tellin her how different I've become. I'm in counceling , on meds and exercise every day. I am a new healthy person.. I feel like if I lied things would be different . I kno it wasn't technically cheated but she is hurt bad. I feel like I messed up

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