So Me and my wife have been together for a little over two years now. I was a guy and I watched porn. She had a huge problem with that. I was caught several times watching it and she would get pissed screaming crying hitting walls and I would try and convince her that it was something I was used to doing. I would keep getting caught and eventually I cut it cold turkey and no longer watch it. I was texting woman that i had messed with before and it was just me being nice I never had any intentions and eventually told them to stop talking to me. So a few years later were a little past our 2 year anniversary and she goes on a trip to Colorado on a family trip. I'm in the Marine Corps so it's hard to get time away. She comes back says she wants a separation I tell her that's fine not thinking of what that really means. A few days later she tells me she's talking to someone. Later I find out this bitch was in the navy. We live on the same base. She was staying somewhere else not coming home. She told me she was renting a room from some old dudes for a little bit. And I hated that. Later did I find out she's been staying with this dude. That's after I got access to her emails of course because she left her computer she was calling this dude baby. He was talking about how he wanted to rub on her ass and one day they got hot and heavy and made out and he was groping her. I really want to beat this dude to the pulp. I'm still currently married to her and am sick of the bull shit. She still stays there stating he's not home and they stay in a different room. But I don't believe that for a second. I call her text her she tells me to leave her alone and says she needs her space and acts like a victim. How the hell are you the victim when I'm at home crying my fucking eyes out while your being oh so romantic with ur side dude I just needed a rant. I still haven't figured it out yet. Best news is I am leaving here to NC for new orders in a month. So it's either she comes or she goes!