Monday, August 29, 2016 12:35 PM by Green
Ok so, i realized I made some mistakes. Like actually going through with my marriage after finding out she cheated on me. So here is my story. I met her and we dated, got engaged after a year. Now we had talked about things that were deal breakers, I had made it clear that I was always going to be faithful and if she wasn't then that would be a deal breaker for me. So we moved in together and things like all relationships had their ups and downs. She was off work a lot and I supported both of us. So we keep going for another 3 years for a total of 5 years together. Well we were still not married by that point but we had bought a house and she was getting ready for a bodybuilding competition. So we had also set a date and we were getting married in 4 months time. It is the day before the anniversary of the day we met. I come home and she told me to sit down. So I do and I could tell something was up. She had cheated on me with her boss. She broke down and told me how bad she felt. On and on right. Well the affair had gone on for a while before they actually had sex. The week before the smug ass shook my hand and basically seemed like a honest fellow. As my then girlfriend gave me more details I grew more upset. Like it happened once and she told me that day. Then she told me that they didn't use a condom, i exploded and explained yes he may have said he was snipped but how much do you trust someone thst would cheat on his own wife (dude was married and had a history of cheating). I made her get tested for everything, I did try to forgive her. I did have a soft spot for her. We got married and then she changed. She stopped being affectionate and now after year, we have not had sex since a month after the wedding. I am finding that she is texting guys again under the guise of personal training for another show. They are coming onto her and while she does mention she is married she doesn't act like it. I am not sure how to find out what she is up to. I don't trust her at all at this point.