Wednesday, July 6, 2016 1:24 PM by A teacher
I'm not getting any Sex from my wife. It's not once a week. It's more like once a few months. I'm 27 and I have needs. I have a few hot coworkers and I feel like signing up for tinder or something. I need sex. Any advice?
How come she doesn't wanna have sex? I say talk to her, try not to cheat.
Maybe she doesn't fuck you cuz she fucking someone else.
Im on the same boat with my man... 😔 Hes 12 yrs older than me.. Im 26- hes32. Idk if thats why... I dont see how... I want to find someone on the side, I dont wanna leave, since we have a 1 yr old.. I think you should go for it, just dont break your marriage for somebody else.. If you dont get what you want at home might as well get it somewhere else...
No it is not worth it!! If you really love her please don't do it because then you will feel guilty. Trust me the guilt will eat you alive!
Third person from the top, you are 26 and he is 32. How he is 12 years older?
Really you don't sound that bothered. Or committed. It takes a certain mental steel to do it. Are you prepared to keep your phone on you 24/7. But also not make that suspicious. Always keep it face down. Have various accounts for messaging. Arrange meetings that won't run the risk of bumping into known associates. Live with the constant nagging feeling of being caught and the volcanoes that explode in your face afterwards? Oh and I forgot. Not smelling of perfume when you come home. And there is a tonne of other stuff that goes with it. You get my point. Been doing it for a year and it's actually like a prison. Can't give it up. Can't stop it. Lie to everyone I know on a daily basis. So enjoy. If you can handle it.
First find out if she is cheating on you. Then if you are not sure, ask her. If she denies it, ask her why she doesn't want to have sex with you. If she can't explain it and work on it - do not cheat, get a divorce. Cheating dishonors the cheater - for the rest of your life! You will have to live with a cheater until you die - (yourself).
If your a young couple and not having sex somethign not right. Every one has there needs. Why you get married then if you plan to cheat? Talk about it, see what going on. If you going to cheat be ready for fights all the time, might as well just get a divorce so you can be free and have sex with whoever you want. It not right to go have sex with someone random then go have sex with your wife and give her something. Your still young, a lot of people get divoce it not the end of the world. If you have no kids then that great, your still young to move on, go be with someone who wants to be with you.
If you want to break her heart and devastate her, then be my guest. But cheating is definitely not the way. So what if she isn't having sex with you all the time? She may be on her period, or something else. You should talk to her about it, I'm sure she'll understand. Do not cheat on here it will just cause disappointment and anger. You will regret you decision one way or another when you see her with some other guy that is loyal and treats her right. You shouldn't even be looking at woman when you know you have a beautiful wife waiting for you at home. Woman aren't just for having sex all the time. They are people who have other interest then just sex.
I've been married 23 years and I get sex once a year. ☹️ It's hard living with someone who doesn't want sex but having an affair and risk losing him just isn't worth it because he treats me good and he is my best friend. The only person that has loved me unconditionally. Yes the no sex is hard but I got toys and magazines. Not to mention porn hub. Lol I hope you make the right choice. Good luck!
I say if she ain't giving it up you have every right to look for a side dish. When you said "I Do" there was no mention of celibacy I presume? So she isn't holding up her end of the deal. Best to find a married chick who is in the same boat as you. They usually won't rat you out.
Guest who has been married 23 years, I've been married 34 with no sex for last 20 years. I need to find someone local, that is like you to help me out. To bad only women on the internet tell of these situations though.