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Should I or should I not get a divorce?

My wife cheated on me

Friday, June 12, 2015 6:46 AM by Marten Rating: +28|-12

Me(43 years old) and my wife(42) have been married for 17 years.We have a daughter(12).In the beginning our marriage was going great.Eventually,though,me and her became distant.I really don't know why.Maybe it's because I'm always working,I'm not a workaholic but since she's a stay at home mom/housewife I have to work in order to support our family.She only makes sure the house is clean,does the dishes and helps our daughter with her homework.We stopped having sex that often.In fact we kind of stopped being attractive and sexy for one another.That special spark was gone.Wewere in a rut.However,I still managed to make time for her and she never complained.I have to admit though,our marriage felt like a responsibility,at least to me.Taaking care of our daughter,just having a lot on our plate.We were both busy,me as a businessman and her as a mom,of course,that's not an easy job-to take care of a child and maintain cleanliness at the house.It entails doing many chores.Nevertheless I think that's all normal.I think all families go through such periods.And like I said she's never complained about our sex life or anything.After witnessing what I'm about to narrate,I think she might've felt a bit lonely but let's cut to chase.Recently,she's been acting suspicious.I've been suspecting her of having a secret lover.

It was eating me up so I decided to talk to her about it.She laughed and said:Honey,don't be silly.I only have eyes for you and kissed me.I believed her but I also came up with an idea.I go out of town on business trips quite frequently.2 days ago,I decided to put her theory to the test so I lied I'd be going on a business trip for the weekend.What I did was I got home early and decided to surprise her with a romantic dinner like good old times.As I was picking up candles and other stuff from this box in the living room I heard the door open.It was her but she wasn't alone.She was laughing and apparently she was making out with another man.I thought i'd stay in the living room and see how far they go.They went straight to the kitchen.Thankfully they were so caught up in their act that they didn't close the kitchen door,they left it ajar.I steadily hid behind that door and observed as they were completely unaware they weren't alone.At first I couldn't see much but eventually they moved next to the dining table which happens to be opposite the door I was hiding behind.I caught my wife on her knees blowing some young guy very pationately as he was leaning against the dining table.He was already fully naked and she was only wearing one of my shirts,unbuttoned with an untied tie around her neck.I was so shocked.

She was making comments about how big and yummy his penis was and how she could suck it all day and he was asking her questions such as:"Bigger than your husband's?" and "Do you suck your husband with that much enthusiasm?" To which she replied:"I never do this for my husband,baby!" as she blew him for another 20 mins and then he came in her mouth and a little bit on her hair,it was a lot,some dripped on her boobs and on my shirt,there was also some on the floor.Atthat moment I was so shocked,so stunned,I wanted to interrupt them so badly but at the same time i couldn't believe that was my life.I wasn't even angry,I was just so humiliated,I felt worthless.I didn't even realize how fast time was going by as I was standing there watch that.After a couple of mind went:"Oh man you're the best baby!"She laughed and said I quote:Shall I clean your cock like the obedient housewife that I am?" To which he didn't say anything so she looked into his eyes with a smirk on her face and put his dick back in her mouth for mere seconds,then put it back out,slid it across her lips and said I quote:"I'll give my husband a nice kiss when he gets home."and started giggling,then she added:"When he fucks me on Monday,I'll be thinking about you."and kept blowing him.I couldn't believe this was real life.Eventually they saw me,they noticed my presence.Theguy quickly took his clothes and ran off.My wife started crying and apologizing.I was so angry that I left the house and went to this pub nearby.

It's a good thing our daughter was still at school.Who knows how far they would've gone if they hadn't seen me standing there.I didn't drink,I just stayed in the pub for hours.She wouldn't stop calling so I switched off my phone.Later on,when I switched on my phone I received a text message from her which read something along the lines of:You are the love of my life but I need to feel loved too.Youweren't making me happy but now I've realized that I don't wanna lose you.I'm begging you to give me a second chance.If not for me,do it for our daughter.What should I do?File for divorce?And what about our daughter?My wife was so conservative.I never thought in my wildest dreams she was capable of this.And it's true what she said.She'seren me head and we have never done anything kinky but that's because she'd never been kinky.That was just not the woman I married.It was as though I was on the set of a porno.I can't get over what I saw.I'm on the verge of a mental breakdown.That is just not her.And as hard as it may be to believe,despite what she did she's always been a great mother to our daughter so I don't know what to do.I'm at a crossroads.
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Comments

Wednesday, June 17, 2015 1:26 PM
Geust1

There was absolutely no guilt about her. She even took the opportunity to humiliate you to her boy-toy. You have little to no meaning to her other than a paycheck and the occasional child care. Move on. You're still young enough to find someone else, and believe me there is someone else for you. Personally, I'd take the opportunity to play on her desire to keep you and make her think you wanted to make amends, use her for every personal sexual fantasy you can imagine, perverted or otherwise, then divorce her.

Or you can go on living in torment knowing that she absolutley will do it again...

 
Saturday, June 27, 2015 8:43 PM
Guest

Yes, kick her to the curb.

 
Monday, July 6, 2015 10:24 AM
Guest

Youre a great guy you deserve better leave that bitch take your daughter and find a new women who is good to you.

 
Friday, July 10, 2015 11:03 AM
arther

Leave her or this will torment you forever . You're too good for her .

 
Saturday, July 11, 2015 10:12 PM
Guest

You were lied to, dishonnoered, humiliated, she broke her vows, may be u got STDs, ... or maybe deep inside you enjoyed it, you watched it like a porn on seroids becasue it was your wife (whatever that means). you could play pimp and use her to make vids and sell it, you could be cockold. You are the man you run the show, get all details and info (pics, photos,bills,...) first before you act. Talk to your daughter about in front of her. Publicly expose her and then dump her!

 
Monday, July 13, 2015 7:08 PM
SteveN

Damn! Same here with the blowjob! My cheating wife never did that for me but apparently loved to do it for him!

I honestly think that's what hurts the most, petty as it might sound.

 
Saturday, July 18, 2015 2:21 PM
Guest

Am in the same boat. I just found out two months ago that my wife have been cheating on me with another guy for years. The feelings that I went is indescribable!! I wanted to kick her out my life there and then but I didn't!! I have two wonderful kids with her although at that moment of finding out I didn't care about anyone, not the kids and obviously not her. Still I didn't want to take any quick action while I was in that state of mind so I left town for two weeks to get my head clear. It did help a little to get away from everything and everyone. However, up to now (two months later) I haven't decided what I should do. Am just giving it some time until I know for sure what I want. 

I do love her and love my kids so much and don't want them to live in a broken home. She shows so much remorse and changed a lot just to make our marriage work. So am giving it some time until I finally decide what should I do. In my heart I feel like giving our marriage a second chance but you never know!!

 
Tuesday, July 21, 2015 10:21 AM
Guest

I smell bullshit. You were a little TOO into the blowjob story with the graphic details. Go write bad porn somewhere else jackass.

 
Sunday, July 26, 2015 5:30 PM
Guest

Dear, soldat know that it not your fault, inside i know it hard to accept it, but what i can tell forget it and move on, take all money you can and your daughter go away visit the world with her, :) know that in the end one day you be happy too even alone remember my friend you were born alone you die alone that it that life we human live only 100 years, not even sure about it so don't waste it in little thing like this one day you be fine

 
Tuesday, July 28, 2015 1:08 AM
Guest

I don't believe a word in this story. Returning early from "business trip", wife walking in with lover, kitchen, bj, all the dirty talk, cum, .... seems like good material for literotica

 
Tuesday, August 11, 2015 4:05 PM
Guest69

Never leave a woman at home alone.  Give her enough time and she will find her inner slut, which all women have, and she will become a fuck toy for whom ever she wants.  Idle hands are the devil's tools.

"I'm that type of guy".....When I first heard that song by LL Cool J I thought it was a bunch of BS, but this song speaks so much truth it's scary!! Check out the lyric http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/llcoolj/imthattypeofguy.html

When I was younger I decided to become that guy and I have had so much married pussy, it was awesome!!  Married women know what they want, they get straight to it, and when your done, you part ways until next time.  It's an easy and clean transaction. 

 

 
Thursday, August 20, 2015 12:49 AM
Guest

I'm sorry this happened to you. You're a good person and it's clear that you never deserved this. She has the audacity to use your daughter as a sheild to protect her image? She's a disgrace of a person. There's no other way around this, she's a cruel bitch. She lied, dishonored, and devalued you, a great providing husband. You're better than her and you should be valued with love and respect. 

 
Friday, May 27, 2016 5:54 AM
Guest

umm   really  they come  home   go straight to kitchen  and suddenly he is naked and she is wearing YOUR shirt and a tie?    nice try

 

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