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My wife cheated on me

Friday, March 13, 2015 5:10 AM by Troubled husband Rating: +5|-2

I am 30 years old and have been married to my wife for five years. Before we got married and had just began dating my wife was speaking to numerous other men. She decided I was the one a little while later. After we both decided to strictly see only each other I caught her sending pictures to an ex. She claimed it was just a friend, we had a little argument and left it at that. We went a few years of dating without any issues. We were pretty happy.

Then I deployed, and came home after a year. We were home together for a few months then I caught her sending hald naked pictures to the same guy. At this point obviously trust was missing, I contfronted and threatened divorce etc. I told her I no longer wanted her to speak to this guy. Mind you she only does it when she is drinking but none the less, I should be able to trust her reguardless. She went out drinking again a few months ago and she called him and they spoke for 30 minutes. I also have caught her sending messages to him, like I miss you and such. I have confronted her on multiple ocasions and she shows no remorse, or does she want to speak about it. I am at the end of the rope and I believe I need to get divorced. I cant trust her, she says she cant trust me because I keep snooping into her phone. The whole thing turns into one big argument and goes nowhere. I demanded counseling and she agree'ed then in the end she said no after I set up the appointment.

What should I do, I cant afford divorce or child support but I dont want to be in this situation anymore?

Thank you for voting.


Saturday, March 14, 2015 11:19 AM

It clearly shows that she does not regret any of this, and she does not respect you and the vows she took so just divorce her before you die due to heart attacks and diseases

Tuesday, March 17, 2015 9:42 AM

she's cheating on you.  catch her in the act, record the evidence.  divorce her, but you keep the kids based her infidelity and she pays you support

Thursday, April 2, 2015 10:58 AM

I am so sorry to hear about your story. I hope you don't mind me reaching out, but I am a tv producer in NYC, and I wanted to see if you and your wife might be interested in coming on a talk show in New York City to talk about your issues and get some help and some counseling.  

Saturday, May 23, 2015 10:29 AM

Do yourself a favour and leave her!

Saturday, July 18, 2015 7:04 PM

Call her parents


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