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My wife cheated on me

Sunday, November 29, 2015 12:56 PM by Newman Rating: +69|-17

   I have been married to my wife for 35 years.  We got married right after she graduated from high school.   Our marriage had been a bit rocky for the past few years, some family tragedies plus I work away from home Monday to Friday.  Well my daughters introduced her to social media so they could stay in touch with her and to chase boredom and depression away.

   Things were going well.  I only spent 2 night a week at home unless there was overtime and then I could be gone for a month as she was always encouraging me to get as much over time as offered. During this time I could not but notice how distant she was becoming.

   Since the only answers that I could get from her was that it was only my imagination, I began to spy on her.  I put a key logger on her laptop.  I found out that my wife was having an emotional affair with a guy that she went to school with.  They were sexting, exchanging photos and skyping very explicitly.   He lived in another state about 400 miles away but they were constantly inviting each other to visit for the week.  “Don’t worry he is away all week” was a constant comment by the both of them.

   I should have confronted her right away, but I was learning more about my wife in the year of intercepted communications than I had in the prior 33 years.  She told me that I was her first and only, not true.  That she had never cheated before or during our marriage, again not true.  To me she had always insisted that she had a low libido and no interest in sex, well after reading just a few of messages I found out that wasn’t true.  In fact she had made a point of telling him how boring and unsatisfactory having sex with me was. 

   It seems that she was having sex with him while we were going out.  That she was his first and she (and he) had never forgotten their “love making”.   She had even snuck out for a rendezvous the night before our marriage and said that night in his arms was “the happiest and saddest time of her life.”

   Well I am divorced now.  I have completely no trust in women, but thank goodness I have copies of all of their messages and got a great settlement.  She didn’t get a thing and lives with her mother as her lover didn’t seem to want her as badly as she thought. 

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Tuesday, December 1, 2015 1:44 AM
Lost

Not sure how long ago it all ended, however trust in woman will come back in time. Not all woman and men for that matter cheat or deceive. I'm married &I I wrote a story. I'm sorry this happened to you. What others/mate/wife's/husbands/whomever really don't understand, you have to work, make money to pay for things. Unless you have endless amounts and don't need to worry about it. My husband thinks because I work 2 jobs I'll find someone else. Well that is not who I am. One job I don't talk but to a few of the girls and that's it. He's worried because he cheated and afraid I will do the same. He needs to understand I am classy not trashy. The reason I word it that way is because the last affair he had he met her at a bar, drink a lot, got drunk and his 8 yr old was a result. Now my husband is not a big drinker so either he played it off he was tipsy or idk. Either way when you fuck someone you take that chance of either getting her pregnant or a disease. Either way you made a choice to do the nasty. I don't look at sex the same and probably won't with him. 

 
Friday, December 4, 2015 3:47 PM
jOE2014bLOW

SHE MARRIED YOU FOR RESOURCES...........YOU TOOK CARE OF HER. 

 
Saturday, February 27, 2016 7:39 PM
Alter ego

Can You write keylogger name?

 

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