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Some verbal abuse

Want to Cheat

Saturday, September 3, 2016 8:02 PM by Alisha Rating: +5|-2

I have been married for 5 years. We have a baby. He supported me to study... We both have good jobs now... He is stressed out... baby needs attention... He calls me names once every so often... It's been ongoing for 2 years now.. His mom has endured verbal abuse but she doesn't think of it in that category.. I have lots of guys at work, people like me , I like to flirt. Sometimes when I drive, shower, whatever I think how would it be to just get lost in sex with someone else. But then how could I look into his eyes and lie?

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Sunday, September 4, 2016 4:33 AM
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These are two different things, cheating and abuse. His verbal abuse does not excuse you cheating on your husband and your child. Since you have a kid with him, and perhaps because you might even care about him, it is time to straighten things out. First, your thoughts are dangerous so control them. Second, create a quiet time when you can be alone with your husband for a day or so. tell him you are stressed out by life. Let him tell you he is too. Tell him you noticed when he gets angry. Let him apologize. Accept it and forgive him. Then ask him if there is something you can both do to take the stress down a notch. Work on it. The first day is only the start. Make sure you break up the week with time alone, together, no one else, get a baby sitter. You have to protect he integrity of your marriage and you family. Focus your mind on your husband as the object of your desire. Tell him you are sexually attracted to him and what you want in a sexual relationship with him. Sex is between you two ONLY. Your mind and his will be trained to this. Your child will benefit by having two parents that are bonded to each other. Put this before everything else in your lives. 

 

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