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My wife cheated on me

Friday, February 12, 2016 11:14 AM by Guest Rating: +70|-16

I am married for 8 years with 2 kids. My wife loves me and we are having a great life. I also loves her and appreciates her talents of managing house, doing job and raising kids.

Our sex life however was not so great and we were less and less sleeping together, either I was busy and late or it was she who was indulged with kids or work. She then had a chance for some change in job assignment and was required to go out of country every 2nd or 3rd month. Thats on such trips she met some extremely amazing man who was good at work, good athlete, intelligent and what not. Thats what she told me about that Spaniard. Then I noticed a surge in sex drive of my wife, she was not only asking me to have sex more but tried doing things we had long forgotten. It was a pleasant surprise for me but I was unable to keep up with her desires. She started regular workout, got slim and sexy, started wearing dresses that would enhance her curves. She even bought clothes I thought were quite revealing and tempting for other men, and this I noticed once she was packing for her usual bi monthly trip. I got suspicious and tried to spy on her private emails/Fb account etc. Nothing that I found initially but after through a long chain of friends of hers I was able to find few pictures of her with different men. They must be her office colleagues, I thought. Yes they were but from one of those men accounts I saw pictures of my wife semi nude kissing a man, being held by two men on sides both grabbing her boobs and laughing. I was shocked and keep on searching for few hours and found more pictures of parties where my wife was accompanying a particular handsome guy, (must be the spaniard). Pictures of swimming pools, hotel rooms, clubs and unknown locations. It was painful to see her nude in arms of other men, kissing and having sex. I am speechless

Tags: Hotel; Kids; Pictures; Spy;

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Friday, February 12, 2016 11:17 PM
Guest

Danm I feel sorry for you did you ever confront her and if so what happened?

 
Saturday, February 13, 2016 11:28 AM
Guest

1) Make sure you take a copy of all pictures.

2) You have an example to set for your kids. If you succumb to emotions and dont do anything, then you are teaching a wrong lesson to your kids. Raise your voice against this nonsense and step out with the kids. God Bless you!

Nadia

 
Sunday, February 14, 2016 7:38 AM
Guest

I think you have to think why did your wife go to meet other men & may be have sex with them as it appears from these pictures.

Tell her that you want her to be honest with you; encourage her to confess to you about her sexual adventures. Thnik again after that if you are excited because of this or bissed off.

If you love her, you can bring her  back to your marriage cage; if you are more liberal, you can join her; if both are no, then get a divorce and look for another misery life.

Think of your kids being raised up with their natural mom; try to think by her mind, why did she go for this in the first place, have you neglected her needs? Have you stopped in a point that she passed over in the past? Try to get an excuse for her before destroying your marriage. A marriage with kids deserves more than just asking for a divorce with the first problem.

A Psychiatrist

 
Monday, February 22, 2016 6:28 PM
Stinky stinks

Get rid of her. She has a new fetish that will only grow with time.  End it before it gets any worse. Make sure you tell everyone the truth about what happened. 

 
Wednesday, February 24, 2016 6:33 PM
Guest

Buy a copy of the book "Women's Infedility"  by Michelle Langley. I will give yoou great insight into what happening in your wife's brain and the  chemical changes thtat take place that she is totally unaware of......outlines 4 stage of infedilty. Best yet it will give you the insight you'll need to move forward in the future.

 
Sunday, May 8, 2016 6:24 PM
Guest

Any update on what has happened in your life?

 

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