I was able to secretly record my wife talking to her daughter about the man she was cheating on me with. That's how I found out. They were talking to each other like they were school girls in high school. I was infuriated. That was a while ago. I moved out but because I love her so much we got back together again. She wanted to start all over again. I asked her if she ever slept with the guy. She said "No" but there's so many holes in her story. Then one day she said she did sleep with him. But backed it up by saying she said that by mistake. Who would ever say they did something when they know for a fact that they didn't. I would never tell someone I robbed a bank when I know I didn't. But even by mistake. So I never believed her. Not even now. And every time I had an opportunity to find out for myself the truth she was right there to stop me. That's what I get for starting over.