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I cheated on my boyfriend

Thursday, March 24, 2016 6:55 AM by Guest Rating: +3|-5

so me and my boyfriend been together since august and i cheated on him in november. i went to the doctor a week ago and found out i have herpes. I know he has gotten it because before i went to the doctor, we had sex in the shower when i had a sore but i didnt know it was herpes..i just thought it was a cut from my razor. i DID tell my boyfriend that i had herpes, but i told him that i must have had it since the summer because i havent been tested since then and said im just now showing symptoms probably becuase i been so stressed out lately. he said its ok he is still here for me and loves me no matter what i have and now i feel bad because he is still here for me. i already told him i have hpv but i contracted it in the summer and that WAS the truth so i had it before me and him met. i also found out the same person who gave me herpes gave me chlamydia and i told my boyfriend that too but i still lied and said i had it since the summer but didnt know cuz i havent had any symptoms. i cant tell my boyfriend the truth because he has my name tatooed on his chest and is buying me an engagement ring. i dont want to hurt him so im trying to keep it to myself but its hard cuz i think about it once in awhile. i been faithful to him since november but im trying to get over it but its hard...i dunno what to do. to me, the only way to forget about it is to get his name tattooed on me so i can prove to him i love him because i do, its just something that happened one time .... and also ....some things are better left unsaid...right? i mean, what he doesnt know cant hurt him? i mean im not too sure if he has herpes cuz i heard that at some stage its less transmittable ...i dunno i need advice and dont judge me

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Thursday, March 24, 2016 10:18 AM

Some things may be better off unsaid, but this isn't one of them. This isn't just about cheating. If you knowingly gave him an std, he may be able to take you to court. This is serious. What if he has sex with someone else and gives them herpes? Do you want to be responsible for the spread of std's? You need to tell him the truth and have him see a doctor. Your relationship seems to be less than a year and he has a tattoo of you and he's getting you an engagement ring. I think he's rushing things. It's not your fault he may regret those things if you tell him the truth. This relationship seems like it was doomed to fail. You need to be responsible. And don't get a tattoo of him to show you love him. It seems like you're trying to prolong a relationship that isn't going to last.

Thursday, March 24, 2016 1:34 PM

Guest

Wow, you are one walking cesspool of STD. God save us from thee.

Thursday, March 24, 2016 4:29 PM

Guest

There is no good end to this situation. Your only hope is to be honest with him about what you did and how you actually feel about him now. Then let him decide what is best for his life. You need to work on yourself and think about the poor choices that you have made. At the rate you are going it will not be long before you wind up killing yourself one way or another if you do not change your course.

Wednesday, September 14, 2016 9:19 PM

Guest

You are the lowest form of grab-asstic amphibian shit. When your boyfriend finds out I hope he dials 1 (900) CHOKE-THAT-HOE.

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