I have been married now for 24 years now, two beautiful kids. I actually married for love though she is a great fuck or used to be. She is Black, I am White.....we met on my job where her business regulates my business and she was there inspecting out processes. Anywho, we talked, dated, had sex then she moved in. After number two baby was born she started complaining that I didn't do it for her anymore, my kiss was suddenly wet n sloopy, my cock was to long and it hit her cervex to often (maybe a baby related thing where her shit lowered in her uteris?) Then I snorred, so I got a mahine that I put on my face over my nose at night so I can not snore, then it was my farts at night. So she stops fucking, leaving me to fight her to get her PJ's down at least to her thighs so I can jerk off on her ass in the morning, she hated that. So she goes and starts sleeping on the downstairs sofa. So at some point I tell her that she isn't the only woman in Baltimore which really pissed her off. And ya know she wasn't the only woman in Baltimore interested in what I had to say and interested in my life. So I meet this nice psychiatrist at a school function. She is widowed and after some small talk she is like inviting me out for coffee...... I have to back up a little, on evening in June of 2015 my wife and I are arguing over finances, at some point she throws a bag of groceries at me, then pulls a knife out of the butcher block, realises her mistake and put the knife back and grabs a frying pan. That next morning I took my ring off at work.....SO people assume I am single now, back to my Psyc friend, she invites me out, I tell her sure but I am married, I tell her the above story. After some thought on her part, as we are walking out of this small coffee shop on a darkened parking lot she kisses me. What a kiss. Then a second "date" and a third, I have been seeing her for about 4 months now. She thinks I am funny, she loves my kisses and enjoys what I do in bed. I dunna, I am acting like a young man again, my wife is wondering why I am smiling again. Should I keep this going on? My wife has already told me that as soon as the kids are out of collage and situated she is moving on. So should I wait and possibly let this woman walk out of my life or should I pursue a relationship with her since she knows all my marital problems and is ok with them. She is looking at us being together after the split in about 3 years as well. Long story I know and am sorry, thanks for reading if your still here.