Thursday, August 25, 2016 8:09 AM by Geo
My wife and I have been married a long time, 29 years. We've had our ups and down but I've never strayed and don't believe she has. But recently I'm getting a gut feeling. She comes home and informed me that her friends daughter has 2 extra tickets to a band that I really like. I'm excited,mother she proceeds to tell me she is going with someone else. After we talked a bit I could sense that she didn't want me to get a ticket and join them. After a few days the concert is coming up, today is Thursday and the concert is tomorrow, she now says that afterwards she is going to Atlantic City after the concert and staying the night. Now my senses are tingling. She has never done this before and even with me she always wanted to come right home. So as I'm still asking about her girlfriend and her staying in AC she kind of shy away from the topic. I figure I'll let it go. Now she is 52, looks 35. She's very attractive and in great shape. The next day she's off to work and I noticed in my email (we share an account) a recipt for a suite she booked in AC. I decide to call and ask her why she and her girlfriend needed a suite and why we are paying for the room and she isn't splitting the cost. Well I call and the secretary says a man came to pick her up for the concert. I'm guessing an uber was called but why from work and not from home. So now I decide to call her girlfriend Karen. I get her at her work and has no idea what I'm talking about. No idea about a concert, tickets or AC. Oh boy. I'm going nuts now wondering what the hell is going on. I tried with no success to call and text my wife....it goes right to voicemail. Her car is at her work and I have no idea who she's with, where she's going now. I decide to get back on the computer and look for anything. I find nothing. No contact with anyone that sends up a red flag. I go back to the recipt. I get the number of the hotel and call. The room is reserved for Mr and Mrs.####. Our name. My next question is, "has my wife checked in?" No, not yet. So I get some things in order and drive down to the hotel. I go to the desk and she checked in only a few minutes ago, I show my id and he gives me a courtesy key to enter the room. I go up and to the door, open it up and there they are. Both sitting on a couch, luggage on the floor. They were ready to pour a glass of wine. Both look at me in disbelief and he grabbed his stuff and headed for the door. I didn't know him, didn't care about him. My focus was on my wife and her about to cheat. She starts to cry, I dropped the key on her lap and inform her that she's gonna need this key for her next boyfriend. I looked her in the eye and said your done. A few more curse words followed but you get the picture. I turn and leave. On my way to the car my cell is buzzing. I didn't answer. I'm get home and she left a message on our land line about how I got it all wrong and it isn't what it looks like. Now she wants the come home and talk. My question to you all is what else could this have been? I'm totally lost for what to do next. If she hasn't cheated yet she absolutely was about to. Please share your thoughts as to where I should go from here. We've been together so long. I'm lost...