My boyfriend and I were friends before we started dating. We have been dating for 11 months but he is married as he is an immigrant. I am 36 so I'm at an age that if I want another kid after a divorce then it's time to move on and want a relationship where that is an option. My bf had a couple car accidents and was off work when we first started dating and I gave him over 8000 dollars to help out which was for my schooling. He kind of just moved himself into my place but doesn't help me out with bills or paying mortgage. I started resenting him because of the money and felt he is taking advantage of me. I tried to break up with him but he won't leave. I work two jobs, go to school and have a 7 year old son but he doesn't help. Anyway he stopped noticing me, I would come home he is just sleeping on the couch, never compliments me, never kisses me or hugs me. He has never even taken me on a nice dinner just to pubs. We only have Sex maybe once or twice a week and it is never intimate.  I talked to him that I needed more from him and he says he will try and it never changes maybe a day or two. Anyway the problem is I get tons of attention from men and there was a man that I was extremely attracted to and him me and we started talking more and more. Then my bf went away on vacation for ten days and I ended up hooking up with the other guy the whole time he was gone and going on dates and feeling wanted. I have really realized that I can't stay with my bf but not sure if I tell him or what to do. I need advice badly as I know what I did was extremely wrong and I know I will not stop now.